Timing of hire in relationship to meals?

[Guest]

I was rather surprised by Epigonous's statement in anther string that "It is also important to me that the escort lets me know, I usually bring this subject up during dinner prior to our intimate time together, what I can do to get him really hot and bothered and revved up." Given that the amount of circulation which goes to the digestive system can vary from under 10% to over 40% depending on when the last meal was consumed, I find a significant difference in the quality of my orgasms depending on when my last meal was. That goes double if there was any alcohol in the meal. Therefore, I almost always hire before dinner, rather than after. I may invite the escort to dinner after the session (without paying him an extra fee other than a nice meal) if the chemistry is right, and sometimes they accept. Also, I don't exactly prefer having sex with a bunch of food sloshing around in my stomach. Am I in a minority, here? How many prefer sex after dinner and how many before?

[down_to_business]

... How many prefer sex after dinner and how many before?

 

Without a shadow of a doubt, before. Or many many hours after and the knowledge before hand so I can eat even lighter than normal (or skip dinner altogether). Sex and a full stomach are not a pleasant pairing for me.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I guess it all depends. If it's for an overnight hire, I'll normally plan on some play time first, then dinner, then play time afterwards. So some of both. I'm still trying to figure out how to do it during dinner, especially if we are dining out.

 

For an overnight, I guess the morning normally would involve play before breakfast.

 

Since many of my hires are during the daytime (just when I can get away to DC), it involves lunch, and normally I would have sex before and invite the gentleman to join me afterwards for lunch if I am staying around.

 

So I guess I fall into the "whenever I possibly can" camp????

[bigvalboy]

I was rather surprised by Epigonous's statement in anther string that "It is also important to me that the escort lets me know, I usually bring this subject up during dinner prior to our intimate time together, what I can do to get him really hot and bothered and revved up." Given that the amount of circulation which goes to the digestive system can vary from under 10% to over 40% depending on when the last meal was consumed, I find a significant difference in the quality of my orgasms depending on when my last meal was. That goes double if there was any alcohol in the meal. Therefore, I almost always hire before dinner, rather than after. I may invite the escort to dinner after the session (without paying him an extra fee other than a nice meal) if the chemistry is right, and sometimes they accept. Also, I don't exactly prefer having sex with a bunch of food sloshing around in my stomach. Am I in a minority, here? How many prefer sex after dinner and how many before?

 

Generally dinner before, sex after. I love getting to know the escort before hand. I keep the meal light, never have more than two drinks, and the reality is both drinks are never fully consumed. Sexually I am fairly vanilla, so calling on the troops to perform is not really all that necessary. I have had on occasion a meal between the sex, which was wonderful because it provided a nice break in the action, but a meal after wards is for me the least desirable situation. I feel all disheveled and more often than not, I just want to go home and "chill" for the rest of the evening.

 

On weekend hires, all bets are off, and it is just usually whenever someone is hungry or horny...

[+ Charlie]

I want to go sleep after dinner, not have sex.

[wisconsinguy]

Generally dinner before, sex after. I love getting to know the escort before hand. I keep the meal light, never have more than two drinks, and the reality is both drinks are never fully consumed. Sexually I am fairly vanilla, so calling on the troops to perform is not really all that necessary. I have had on occasion a meal between the sex, which was wonderful because it provided a nice break in the action, but a meal after wards is for me the least desirable situation. I feel all disheveled and more often than not, I just want to go home and "chill" for the rest of the evening.

[wisconsinguy]

Generally dinner before, sex after. I love getting to know the escort before hand. I keep the meal light, never have more than two drinks, and the reality is both drinks are never fully consumed. Sexually I am fairly vanilla, so calling on the troops to perform is not really all that necessary. I have had on occasion a meal between the sex, which was wonderful because it provided a nice break in the action, but a meal after wards is for me the least desirable situation. I feel all disheveled and more often than not, I just want to go home and "chill" for the rest of the evening.

Good to know about the weekend issue. First encounter ever coming up for a weekend. Will play the dinner thing as it plays out.

[bigvalboy]

Good to know about the weekend issue. First encounter ever coming up for a weekend. Will play the dinner thing as it plays out.

 

I have been reading with interest the 'run-up' to your first weekend. Sincerely I wish you all the best Wisconsinguy, and hope that it fulfills every desire imaginable...Cheers, BVB

[Diverdan]

A lot depends on the other person and the timing of our get together... prefer afternoons or later in the evening... action on a full stomach is never desirable from my point of view!

[+ sf westcoaster]

Generally, it is play time first and a meal after.

[adriano46]

I want to go sleep after dinner, not have sex.

 

I hear you Charlie.

 

As I get older (ahem), I think of the escorts as well as what I am expecting. I more or less have given up hiring for topping a guy (I know all the prep they go through, including refraining from eating for a few hours running up to the encounter). In the (infamous) group I had for an encounter some months ago, I planned it for late afternoon, and after the 2 hrs of sex were done (and 3 of the 4 bottomed and topped), as they showered I put out a mixed (and hopefully tasty) buffet of freshly made tidbits (wings, spring rolls, sushi, raw veggies, fruit, cheeses plus various drinks) to give them all some energy.

 

Planned a date with a really great guy where it was to be purely for dinner and chat (but on the clock). It was so enjoyable for both it led to an overnight (but he knew he would not have to bottom as we had had a pretty nice meal). Like some of the others here, if I am planning this out in advance, I prefer the sex before the meal so both the escort and I can relax - if I have a few drinks or a glass or two of wine, I am like Charlie and after a quick (mutual) shower, just want to cuddle up AND SLEEP. Of course, that means if it is an overnight there will definitely be sex before or with coffee in the a.m.

[Steven_Draker]

Sex can happen before or after dinner, sometimes during.

 

The advantages of being able to order off the menu.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Sex can happen before or after dinner, sometimes during.

 

The advantages of being able to order off the menu.[/color]

 

I'm still trying to figure out the during Steven. Maybe a demonstration at Annie's during the luncheon?

[wisconsinguy]

I have been reading with interest the 'run-up' to your first weekend. Sincerely I wish you all the best Wisconsinguy, and hope that it fulfills every desire imaginable...Cheers, BVB

Thanks a lot. It has special good wish thoughts coming from you. As I said, couldn't be more please with my decision after talking with "my guy" today.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Sex is first, then the meal. If an overnight, usually there is sex before dinner. After dinner, there is usually some sort of activity before more fun. That could be a movie, some live music, or walk through a park.

 

One of my favorite overnight encounters was some play time when the escort arrived at my hotel room. After dinner we enjoyed the pool before heading back to the room for round #2. As it was still somewhat early, we then went out for a nightcap before returning to the hotel and getting naked again.:o

[+ FreshFluff]

I was rather surprised by Epigonous's statement in anther string that "It is also important to me that the escort lets me know, I usually bring this subject up during dinner prior to our intimate time together, what I can do to get him really hot and bothered and revved up." Given that the amount of circulation which goes to the digestive system can vary from under 10% to over 40% depending on when the last meal was consumed, I find a significant difference in the quality of my orgasms depending on when my last meal was.

 

That's a good point, but I find it hard to orgasm when I'm hungry. For me, having play time an hour after a medium sized meal would probably be ideal.

[Steven_Draker]

Medium sized dinner or very light dinner depending on where you are:

 

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[ncc1701d]

I've recently done an overnight where I did that exactly...fun, then I made dinner, then we dipped in the hot tub, and back to bed for round 2. I do find that by then I'm pretty tired (if the overnight starts around 6pm, we are now taking midnight as round #1 is usually at least an hr, depending on my chemistry with the escort). So it was a short round 2 and then getting up early in am for round 3. I didn't like the rush etc and am now convinced that I don't ever want to do another overnight, and will only go for a whole day or more if I like the guy.

[+ Cock Eyed Optimist]

If the appointment is in the evening, I prefer dinner first. Like so many have said, I like to get to know the escort first. If it is a "regular", then I like to catch up on what has transpired in our lives since the last time. If I get together with an escort in the afternoon, I usually bring a bottle of wine and we have a few glasses before the fun.

[JT Brooklyn]

I want to go sleep after dinner, not have sex.

 

L O L Charles!

[Guest]

That's a good point, but I find it hard to orgasm when I'm hungry. For me, having play time an hour after a medium sized meal would probably be ideal.

 

No offense, but I don't think it's fair to include you in this particular discussion. I'm sure that engorging a clitoris is much less of a challenge than engorging a penis. I will admit to being somewhat surprised at the number of men who (1)feel their orgasms are better after meals, and (2)have sex both before and after meals. In my case, if the escort did a good job the first time, any orgasm I might have later in the day will be both difficult to achieve and dry/unsatisfying. Although I've hired escorts to go on trips/long term a number of times, I've only once done an overnight (because the price was very reasonable). While there may be some cuddling in the evening, I've never asked my long-term hires to get me to orgasm twice in one day. Even if I did orgasm twice in one day, then it would just make my orgasm the next day less enjoyable. I can get one "Wow!" load per day. I'd rather have fewer, more enjoyable orgasms, than a greater quantity. It would be an interesting study to look at ejaculatory volume, frequency, and subjective enjoyment of orgasm. If I skip a day, the next orgasm can be truly wonderful. Skipping two days doesn't make much of a difference, though. I just get blue balls and cranky after the 2nd skip. Maybe the fact that I don't ask my escorts to get me off twice a day makes them more eager to go on other trips with me?

[robberbaron4u]

My preference is a leisurely lunch commencing at o'clock in the afternoon, and, in the event my "date" and I are "sympatico" in our wants, we move on to play behind closed doors around three o'clock. I prefer "play" in the afternoon hours; for me, night time is for restful sleep.

[+ poolboy48220]

I go with a Metrecal before the appointment just so my blood sugar doesn't run low.

[unsub2O17]

I go with a Metrecal before the appointment just so my blood sugar doesn't run low.

 

I use a Vitamin Water for the same reason--and it doesn't add any extra "concerns" to my bottoming.