Long Term Relationships with High End Escorts: A Slice of Heaven?

[bcohen7719]

Guys, how many of you have had, currently have, or might wish to have long-term relationships with very high end escorts...or do you prefer quickies?

 

BC

[gallahadesquire]

He was high end in my book ... we IM'd each other for five years before we met, and we met for four years before he retired. We met 1 - 2 times a year.

[jawjateck]

uh......what are "very high end" escorts? Are you asking about guys who do not post ads on the usual sites?

 

Regardless, I'm not interested in long-term relationships, so it doesn't matter if the provider is "high end" or lower down the food chain, like me. Some of my best experiences have been with guys whose fees are on the lower end of the scale. I learned long ago that price has nothing to do with satisfaction in this hobby.

[+ Charlie]

Quickies for me.

[JT Brooklyn]

To be Truthful I have been doing a Personal Trainer for about 5 Year's now. He doesn't Advertise BUT Best Sex I ever had.

 

So he definitely besides a Gorgeous End is as High End as I want!

[+ azdr0710]

tantalizing topic....

 

most of us have seen some movie/TV show or read a book where the paid guy is perennially lying out by the pool (an infinity pool, natch) of a stunning Beverly Hills home, basking in the bright sun, with an impossibly thrilling view of the LA Basin....each morning, the host brings coffee and fruit to bed for the two of them (the young guy is still very sleepy, but looks great), then it's off to work for the client and the gym for the paid guy before he takes a cool drive along Mulholland in the borrowed Land Rover and returns to poolside.......(feel free to add any other classic stereotypical scenes!)

 

sounds glamorous and fun, and I'm sure a few here (and many, many more not here) have had similar experiences.....ultimately, it ends in one way or another, but some of these arrangements, I'm sure, become happily permanent....

 

some of us remember tomrent/rentingdad from three or four years ago, who apparently bankrolled a very popular NYC stripper/model thru college while keeping him off the street during that entire time....tomrent was proud of his accomplishment, but the rumor was he took a hit financially and he hasn't been heard from much since....later, for a while, the "kept man" had an ad on rentboy again and that, too, has disappeared.....

[jjkrkwood]

tantalizing topic....

 

most of us have seen some movie/TV show or read a book where the paid guy is perennially lying out by the pool (an infinity pool, natch) of a stunning Beverly Hills home, basking in the bright sun, with an impossibly thrilling view of the LA Basin....each morning, the host brings coffee and fruit to bed for the two of them (the young guy is still very sleepy, but looks great), then it's off to work for the client and the gym for the paid guy before he takes a cool drive along Mulholland in the borrowed Land Rover and returns to poolside.......(feel free to add any other classic stereotypical scenes!)

 

sounds glamorous and fun, and I'm sure a few here (and many, many more not here) have had similar experiences.....ultimately, it ends in one way or another, but some of these arrangements, I'm sure, become happily permanent....

 

some of us remember tomrent/rentingdad from three or four years ago, who apparently bankrolled a very popular NYC stripper/model thru college while keeping him off the street during that entire time....tomrent was proud of his accomplishment, but the rumor was he took a hit financially and he hasn't been heard from much since....later, for a while, the "kept man" had an ad on rentboy again and that, too, has disappeared.....

 

A perfect tale to support the Old Saying "ALL GOOD THINGS MUST COME TO AN END"..

[GoodFella69]

uh......what are "very high end" escorts? Are you asking about guys who do not post ads on the usual sites?

 

Regardless, I'm not interested in long-term relationships, so it doesn't matter if the provider is "high end" or lower down the food chain, like me. Some of my best experiences have been with guys whose fees are on the lower end of the scale. I learned long ago that price has nothing to do with satisfaction in this hobby.

 

Well said Jawja. The term "high-end escort" usually translates to "inflated ego." My many experiences with escorts across the country have proven what you assert: High quality has very little (if any) correlation to higher price.

 

Goodfella

[jimboivyo]

Guys, how many of you have had, currently have, or might wish to have long-term relationships with very high end escorts...or do you prefer quickies?

 

BC

 

did you really think you were going to get a pro high end escort response here? The responses here don't surprise me. high cost doesn't always equal a better escort, but if you do your homework and read reviews, the high end guys out there are worth every penny. whether you can afford them regularly or not is your own business.

[adriano46]

I initially responded to this a few days ago but for some reason it did not get posted. Just as well..

 

I too wondered what we are calling a "high end escort"? Is it that guy who charges $350 and upwards per hour, and weekend rates that reach $2,500-$3,000?

 

I learned long ago that many of these professional high end guys who have expensive taste and enjoy a very pampered life-style need someone in the income bracket of a David Geffin to keep them happy for more than a year or two romp. In all honestly, the best sex I have had has been with guys charging me much much less (or nothing), and who are not out for my wallet as well as my dick.

 

My work precludes any form of Long Term Arrangement, and like some others here who are well over 55, I am comfortable in my solitary lifestyle, and find someone sharing the space may become somone more "invading" the space I create around myself. I have literally hundreds of friends, dozens and dozens of very close friends whose company I enjoy over dinners, walks, occasionally weekends away, short vacations etc... We are more or less in the same age group, have similar backgrounds (many are classmates), and are a good mix of men and women from across the spectrum politically, but who treasure and value friendship more than whoever is in the White House, so rarely - if ever - get into down and dirty politcal fights, but we respect each other's opinions enough to agree to disagree amiably (I know... sounds down right boring for these boards).

 

My taste in sexual partners when I hire runs to guys who are somewhat meaty (or muscular without being rock solid), mature (eg well over 28, preferably over 35), who have a real day job but who are secure in themselves and their sexuality enough to also escort. Often we meet on and off for a few years, but on average no more than 3. Only one guy so far has remained both a sexual and emotional friend beyond that period; his rates are no longer advertised as he has moved on, but he still sees some of his clients from 3 or 4 years back privately and money exchanged is not as much as one would expect. He is by far the second best sexual partner I have had (the best is still around, but an ocean divides us now... sadly...).

 

I am considering one or two new men now, both are for me "high end" in their looks and what they bring to the table, but price-wise, moderat enough to afford once a month. One may be more of a keeper but it depends; I am sure he has a real partner somewhere; he is way way too handsome to be alone at this stage.

[jjkrkwood]

did you really think you were going to get a pro high end escort response here? The responses here don't surprise me. high cost doesn't always equal a better escort, but if you do your homework and read reviews, the high end guys out there are worth every penny. whether you can afford them regularly or not is your own business.

 

What really Makes for a "high end" escort ??? Ive heard the term thrown around here, my hires have usually been in hte $300 range (hardly high end in terms of price), so WHAT does high-end mean, other than expensive, and not a guy picked off the street ? Looks are subjective...

[jimboivyo]

What really Makes for a "high end" escort ??? Ive heard the term thrown around here, my hires have usually been in hte $300 range (hardly high end in terms of price), so WHAT does high-end mean, other than expensive, and not a guy picked off the street ? Looks are subjective...

 

to me high end is in how an escort treats you, not his high rate. the best escorts out there are like good concierges: they anticipate what you need before you say anything. I'm talking specifically about hiring an escort for a longer term gig (4 days to a week or more). sorta tough for an escort to prove himself that much in a single hour.

[jjkrkwood]

to me high end is in how an escort treats you, not his high rate. the best escorts out there are like good concierges: they anticipate what you need before you say anything. I'm talking specifically about hiring an escort for a longer term gig (4 days to a week or more). sorta tough for an escort to prove himself that much in a single hour.

 

So really, isnt that almost ANY escort that proves to be attentive to their clients needs and requests ? Thats not what I always thought "high-end" meant. Usually when the term is applied to female escorts, it means they come from a high class service run by a madame or some facsimile thereof. They are never booked directly, but usually thru their service and will often be driven to the venue in a limo.... Maybe I'm watching too many escort TV shows ???

[josephga]

So really, isnt that almost ANY escort that proves to be attentive to their clients needs and requests ? Thats not what I always thought "high-end" meant. Usually when the term is applied to female escorts, it means they come from a high class service run by a madame or some facsimile thereof. They are never booked directly, but usually thru their service and will often be driven to the venue in a limo.... Maybe I'm watching too many escort TV shows ???

 

someone asked me the other day what did upscale mean? I told them i served Evian instead of deer park lol

[jjkrkwood]

someone asked me the other day what did upscale mean? I told them i served Evian instead of deer park lol

 

And basically that translates to same shit, higher price !

[josephga]

It depends on how you look at it. I would define upscale massage to having a clean location, A separate massage room & joining bath. having extra's such as a nice towel steamer some might include a hottube. Being licensed certified investing in their training. compared to someone just giving body rubs on a mat or just tossing up a table some place. I use to know a massage therapist he had a fully stocked bar offered clients a cocktail, had fresh cookies or fresh fruit everyday as a treat at the end.

[jjkrkwood]

It depends on how you look at it. I would define upscale massage to having a clean location, A separate massage room & joining bath. having extra's such as a nice towel steamer some might include a hottube. Being licensed certified investing in their training. compared to someone just giving body rubs on a mat or just tossing up a table some place. I use to know a massage therapist he had a fully stocked bar offered clients a cocktail, had fresh cookies or fresh fruit everyday as a treat at the end.

 

OK, I can see that, but if theres an escort that does Out-calls , how would upscale translate ? He would show up wearing assless Versace chaps ???? Or carrying a Vuitton Toy bag containing a Waterford crystal dildo?

[Kippy]

I'm combining thread topics and choose Cort Stevens (retired porn actor--most famous 15 years ago or so). I would gladly pay him $500+ a time if I knew how to get a hold of him! Blond, cute, masc and I suspect about 40 now, but still yummy I suspect!

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

[seeker630]

I'm combining thread topics and choose Cort Stevens (retired porn actor--most famous 15 years ago or so). I would gladly pay him $500+ a time if I knew how to get a hold of him! Blond, cute, masc and I suspect about 40 now, but still yummy I suspect!

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

 

I might break open the piggy bank for HIM as well!

[rocky]

Greetings; and in the spirit of adding my comments I too wonder what is meant by a high end escort. I'll spend

at least $20,000 on one escort for weekly visits, not sure that's high end. I've seen $500/hr escorts that I'll

never hope to see again. So is it frequency or each event? I'm interested in responses.

[BostonPhil]

High end female escorts are often college educated, attached to a service only, a lot have gone to finishing schools and specialize in business clientele. They are expected to be able to dress and behave properly when attending business functions and exceed at blending in as just another guest.

[EZEtoGRU]

High end female escorts are often college educated, attached to a service only, a lot have gone to finishing schools and specialize in business clientele. They are expected to be able to dress and behave properly when attending business functions and exceed at blending in as just another guest.

 

This is the best description I have seen so far for the "High-end" or "Upscale guy". In the end, I think they are somewhat subjective terms that we each define a little differently. Kind of like "twink" or "straight" where we all have a different version of what they mean.

 

For me, at least, I would add to the mix that a "high-end" guy is not likely available through the usual channels (ie the rentboy websites).

[BSR]

High end female escorts are often college educated, attached to a service only, a lot have gone to finishing schools and specialize in business clientele. They are expected to be able to dress and behave properly when attending business functions and exceed at blending in as just another guest.

Do you women still go to finishing school in the 21st Century? :-D

[BostonPhil]

You have obviously never been to New England

[+ FreshFluff]

Do you women still go to finishing school in the 21st Century? :-D

 

Many are college educated, but most of the "business clientele" work with them the same guys do with business escorts. I know a lot of hedge fund types, and I have never heard of any escort ever brought to a business event. It's not necessary, since there's always a supply of beautiful women willing to date rich and/or accomplished men, regardless of their appearance.