Escorts that sleep

[raulgmanzo]

... the dinner that I got up at 7:00am to make is almost ready so I will just eat alone and put it away....

 

Call me food obsessed but this is the real tragedy. You made dinner and he is missing it.

 

What did you cook? Maybe he likes leftovers? A lot of dishes are better the next day after the flavors have melded and setup. If you send him home early maybe you'll be kind enough to five him a doggy bag for the flight home. Though he might prefer a pillow.

 

A flight is always so much nicer with some home cooked food.

[orbital sander]

What a Shame.

I am not sure what I would do, but I think it would be hard not to be really pissed off.

[+ azdr0710]

this is the real tragedy

 

great post, Raul....good to get some humor in here....

 

I hope OT lets us know what happened.....

[gcursor]

I do what I do

 

I'm sorry RexAll if the reasons why I might not file a negative review don't meet with your approval but I do have my reasons why I do or don't do things which I'm sure are quite different than yours. That is what makes the board so interesting too many I'm sure.

gcursor

 

Sigh- I know this comment isn't going to help, but I just can't stop. GC, you admit you have to save up a lot for an overnight or multiday appointment, and yet if the escort blatantly takes advantage of you by sleeping most of the time away, and the actions don't rise to the level of writing a bad review-- ay yi yi!!

 

GC,I might not have mentioned this, but I was just stood up for a late night appointment by a guy on Daddy's with a few good reviews. He kept me waiting for 3 hours with the last text being that he was shortly to depart for my place. He apologized the next day. And we tried to do it again. My last text to him of where we going to meet a hotel went unanswered. And be never showed up--again. I'm this close to writing up the no-sho's. But he's cute I thought he had a good reputation - and I want to see him. So you see GC, I'm mad at both of us. And wish we would both grow a pair along with a backbone at the same time.

 

 

As for the escort in question, I hope Ocean reveals who it is before I end up hiring him.

I can say I had a similar experience with the Irish guy who used to be on Maximum's site. Stephen talked him up like he was the next best thing to sliced bread- and unfortunately the escort fulfilled a typical Irish stereotype-wanted to go out drinking- then when we got back to the hotel ( it was an away trip for my birthday)- he was too tired for sex.

 

One of my most expensive hires ever- a Multiday from Maximum- and it stank big time. To be only slightly fair to the escort- he hadn't been escorting long at that point. I think the Multiday away from NYC freaked him out a bit. But on the other hand, I think he was an Irish guy who liked and did drink a lot anyway. I really blame Stephen for over- hyping the guy.

 

I like overnights and weekends although with the economy I haven't done any in a year. But the experience with Maximum was so disappointing, and they are so expensive, that

even though I routinely drool over the pictures of their guys, I'm too shell shocked to try them again.

 

Rex

[jimboivyo]

Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, I present Exhibit T on why Decatur Guy does not do fly-ins or overnights.

 

then you're missing out. what we're seeing here isn't the norm for those who have their go-to long term escorts. it takes some research and thought, but it's possible to find escorts who can work anywhere from two days to two months.

 

hope the op can work this out and ignore the negativity here.

[orbital sander]

then you're missing out. what we're seeing here isn't the norm for those who have their go-to long term escorts. it takes some research and thought, but it's possible to find escorts who can work anywhere from two days to two months.

 

hope the op can work this out and ignore the negativity here.

 

something is missing when you post...hmm I cannot place it, but something is missing

[wayout]

Very disappointing and totally unacceptable for him to arrive exhausted, especially without the courtesy of any communication in advance about his condition. You should have been given an opportunity to cancel the meeting before he even got on the plane or to make some alternative arrangements with the agency to reschedule or get a substitute if that would be acceptable to you and was practical.

 

But he has arrived in an sleep deprived condition and you are faced with what to do. While there could possibly be good reasons for his lack of sleep, I would definitely expect a sincere apology with explanation after he woke up. As you did contact the agency and apparently they were aware of his condition by saying he hadn't slept for days, I would hold them equally responsible for the situation. In my view, I would expect them to be very apologetic as well and to give a discount. If they don't offer either then it would be appropriate for you to ask for both (and never to use them again if you have to ask).

 

As another poster wrote, continuing the rest of the time with this guy depends a great deal on if he gives a reasonable explanation and sincere apology and also if you are able to get past the rocky start. It may already be too late as some people would get so turned off by his rude behavior that it would cast a bitter cloud over the rest of the time and would ruin the experience. Some people can easily/quickly get over things while others not so much. Just remember it is your money and soon will be his (and the agency's) so you have a window of opportunity to make a decision on how much to part with by ending the time early or going through with it.

 

I do hope you will post here soon Ocean to let us know how things turned out. I hope whatever you decided to do that it turned out better than it started.

[robberbaron4u]

Again, "escorting" is a business; and, poor service should not be tolerated by the client. In my experience, if you allow him to "get away" with this behaviour, he will "do" you again in a similar manner. As the business is, if you will, a service industry, a good performance by the provider should be rewarded; a bad performance warrants the door.

[jgoo]

Again, "escorting" is a business; and, poor service should not be tolerated by the client. In my experience, if you allow him to "get away" with this behaviour, he will "do" you again in a similar manner. As the business is, if you will, a service industry, a good performance by the provider should be rewarded; a bad performance warrants the door.

 

I do agree that good performance should be rewarded and bad performance should not. In this case, as the original poster has some sunk costs already in the flight and whatever he would spend to show the guy the door, trying to salvage the situation seems worth some effort.

[Guest thedolphinsofaugust]

Okay, Wow. Everybody's being so harsh on this poor man. He's tired and falls asleep. I think that's kinda cute (: Of course you shouldn't be expected to pay him anything since basically he's just sleeping for the weekend... When he wakes up, have a talk with him.

[robberbaron4u]

I doubt you would find his behaviour "kinda cute" if you were "footing the bill" for his beauty rest. I assure you that had the client pleaded "weariness" for non paying up with alacrity, the escort would have wailed to high heaven that he had been "stiffed" in the hire. If the escort's physical condition, that is, "exhaustion", was going to impact upon his performance, he should have noticed the client, and, the client, at his discretion, could have cancelled, or, indeed, rescheduled, the date. For myself, I dispensed with "bad behaviour" in a rentboy long ago, my steady "dates" are noticed that I demand the highest standard of professional behavior from them, and, if they cannot measure up to that standard, there are other, less demanding clients available to them.

[jgoo]

The escort was very inconsiderate for not letting the client know in advance. But now that he has arrived and messed up dinner plans, is it possible to salvage the situation? With a multi-day visit, you would normally expect to give the escort some personal time to himself so I would make it clear to him that he has used up his personal time and now needs to make sure he is focused on me, the guy who is paying for the pleasure of his company.

[robberbaron4u]

In my own experience, no; simply "grit your teeth and bear it" to the moment you can kiss your fingertips and wave the rentbody goodbye. As Alice made remark in Wonderland, the "situation", and that is what this date constitutes, can only become "worser and worser". . .In fact, I would want to see some money on the table from the escort in compensation of his having wasted my time; given that pigs ain't going to fly, I would make certain that his time with me was a "living purgatory" for him to evidence my displeasure, a "learning experience" for the escort for the need of "professional behaviour" in his profession.

[jjkrkwood]

My reply might be the unconventional and unpopular one, but personally, I dont have tolerance for "professionals" that act "unprofessionally".... OK, so you are already in the hole for the travel expenses.. I would cut my losses and send the guy packing, no SECOND chances as some others have suggested he is entitled to. He SHOULD know better. And NO fee. He forfeited that when he decided to indulge "himself" and NOT you.... At least the guy got a nice plane ride, and maybe coming away "empty handed" will send a message and actually teach him a lesson ?

It SHOULD be a learning expierience for everyone.

[BaronArtz]

I agree with that. Wake him up, send him packing and above all NO FEE. Makes a lot of sense to me.

[robberbaron4u]

The time for "sending him packing" has passed; the rentboy has nested in the client's hotel room. At this point in the date, the client has a "situation" on his hands, and, if the rentboy is savvy, he knows it and he will play the thing to his advantage.

[jjkrkwood]

The time for "sending him packing" has passed; the rentboy has nested in the client's hotel room. At this point in the date, the client has a "situation" on his hands, and, if the rentboy is savvy, he knows it and he will play the thing to his advantage.

 

And that is EXACTLY why the OP needs to kick that Loser to the curb, and let him fend for himself....

[robberbaron4u]

I reread the intial post, and, I have to understand that the rentboy is in the client's residence? If that is the case, by all means, put the boy on the curb for pickup without delay; the rentboy is, in fact, using the client's home as a free accomodation, a "crash pad".

[seeker630]

There's really only one reason he wouldn't have slept for DAYS. And that alone is a reason to kick him to the curb with a review and call to the agency.

 

Untrue, and a big jump to a conclusion.

[Guest Magnus]

OceanTraveler, I'm hoping from your silence that everything turned out ok for you. I had a situation where a well reviewed guy on this site came over for a multi-hour session, and he was obviously high. It was so bad he started dozing off in mid-sentence while we were having a "get to know you" chat. As soon as I realized it, I told him it wasn't going to work out. I paid him for one hour (he had been at my place for all of 45 mins), and walked him to the elevator (just to make sure he didn't pass out in my hallway).

[jimboivyo]

not shocked at the negative responses here. everyone assumes the worst. and you wonder why more escorts don't chat here. heh.

 

all of you have no clue what the real situation is (including me). let's hope it was worked out and that both people are having a good time now.

[RexAll]

One point no one has made- I have to assume if this is an agency, that it is probably Man to Man, Premier, Maximum, possibly Chelsea guys if still in existence, Planet Jockboys, Windy City Guys, or maybe one of the few others I may not be aware of. If Ocean decides not to pay or cause a lot of problems- he will probably never be able to use that agency again.

 

Rex

[Kevin Slater]

If Ocean decides not to pay or cause a lot of problems- he will probably never be able to use that agency again.

 

Why would he want to?

 

Kevin Slater

[RexAll]

not shocked at the negative responses here. everyone assumes the worst. and you wonder why more escorts don't chat here. heh.

 

all of you have no clue what the real situation is (including me). let's hope it was worked out and that both people are having a good time now.

 

If we take the situation as stated- then there really is no excuse for the escort behavior. Unless we find out the escort is ill, some type of medical problem, death in the family etc, had to do an overnighter for school, or a regular job- then there is not much the escort can say in his defense.

 

Rex

[RexAll]

Why would he want to?

 

Kevin Slater

 

Well if it were Maximum or Man to Man- they get some awfully hunky guys.

 

Rex