Be an escort?

[Bosguy]

This topic is meant to be FUN! Not reviews or competitions, JUST FUN

 

If you could relive your life, would you have ever considered being an escort? If No. Why? If yes, Why? and what one of our contemporary guys would you want to replicate and Why?

 

For me, I would have loved it only going by the plus parts of this profession. The guy I would love to have been like is Romann. Hot guy, but with a marvelous personality and super organization skills and astute business skills.

 

Boston Bill

[josephga]

I wish I had started out giving massages at a earlier age like 18 vrs 30 I also wish I had worked as a stripper while doing it during the younger years but to answer the question no I have never desired to be a escort. I can massage anyone regardless of age, weight, race, looks, disability's. I could strip for those same reasons.imo Escorting doesn't just take looks and A big dick. It takes great acting skills and the ability to turn on or turn off something inside to find something desirable inside everyone to get through a session.

[doitb4ugo]

Being such a submissive personality, I could never even imagine taking charge and being an escort....My highest fantasy would be to be a slave to someone like Tyger, so I could be used and bring him pleasure in any way he wanted....

 

To quote a very wise poster on Tumblr....

Surrender is also, and simply, the cessation of resistance. It can be an act of acceptance or an embrace; not a failure to assert, but an action motivated by the desire to explore or...

I would also like to be a better typist....

[+ Charlie]

I was a horny little bastard, and could cum multiple times per day when I was 21, so I decided to try escorting. I quickly discovered that more credentials were needed: I couldn't perform credibly with men I wasn't attracted to. If I could relive my life, I'd rather make a lot of money and be a professional client.

[Steven_Draker]

If I had to do it all over again and relive my life I wouldn't chose doing anything else. No regrets here.

 

Looking back probably I would have done certain things differently, however I'd chose again being who I am today.

[+ Charlie]

Being such a submissive personality, I could never even imagine taking charge and being an escort....My highest fantasy would be to be a slove to someone like Tyger, so I could be used and bring him pleasure in amy way he wanted....

 

To quote a very wise poster on Tumblr....

Surrender is also, and simply, the cessation of resistance. It can be an act of acceptance or an embrace; not a failure to assert, but an action motivated by the desire to explore or...

I wonder how Tyger would use a slove?

[Bosguy]

Being such a submissive personality, I could never even imagine taking charge and being an escort....My highest fantasy would be to be a slove to someone like Tyger, so I could be used and bring him pleasure in amy way he wanted....

 

To quote a very wise poster on Tumblr....

Surrender is also, and simply, the cessation of resistance. It can be an act of acceptance or an embrace; not a failure to assert, but an action motivated by the desire to explore or...

 

Doit,

 

That certainly does not disqualify you from being an escort. I'm sure there are a large number of Dom-type clients out there that look for these qualities. They certainly won't be Tygers, but do you know anyone who comes remotely close to TB?

 

Boston Bill

[Epigonos]

If I had my life to live over I would NOT be an escort, even though I find MANY aspects of the life style appealing. My reasoning is a bit crazy.

 

I have always insisted that if I do something I must be great at it. To be a great escort one must be accepting and non-judgmental. I am neither of those things. I simply could NOT see past the physical defects of the clients who hired me. In many ways I wish this wasn’t true but it is. When I look at and play with GREAT escorts like Aaron Mark, A.J. Irons, Dane Scott, Jaime Lee, Kasin Knightly, Raul Manzo, Ricardo, Rod Hagen, Steven Kesslar, and Todd I simply marvel at their ability to relate to and connect with so many diverse clients. I truly envy them that ability.

[jjkrkwood]

No escorting for me because I am the type that needs a familial emotional connection with a person in order to perform, so I wouldnt be Very good or successful at it. BUT I have always wanted to THIS day to be a "Fluffer". Yes at this late stage of my life, it aint happening, but it always intrigued and aroused me. Now-A-days, just pop a little blue pill and you are "Fluffed"....No mouth required.

[KMEM]

Epig-

 

Your reasoning is not crazy, I understand it completely. However, I would not have minded being a top rated escort considering what I think I know now. Traveling around the world, seeing all the top sights, being in all the top places (does that make me sound like a top only?) and doing what I want to do in my off time. Wait a minute, that is what I do now in my job. Therefore, what might be really important is seeing other folks and being in their lives aka being a "real" person and interacting with same.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[leigh.bess.toad]

I wonder how Tyger would use a slove?

 

The possibilities boggle the mind.

 

In thinking about it, it would be a fun fantasy, but never having had the body or looks necessary, it would never have been more than that -- a fantasy.

[gcursor]

no

 

No I wouldn't consider being an escort because I don't look good enough

gc

 

This topic is meant to be FUN! Not reviews or competitions, JUST FUN

 

If you could relive your life, would you have ever considered being an escort? If No. Why? If yes, Why? and what one of our contemporary guys would you want to replicate and Why?

 

For me, I would have loved it only going by the plus parts of this profession. The guy I would love to have been like is Romann. Hot guy, but with a marvelous personality and super organization skills and astute business skills.

 

Boston Bill

[Guest]

I never considered being an escort, or even a porn star (though I did get offers). That being said, I had given serious thoughts to being an anonymous "stunt dick" for porn movies. Men have always marveled at my beautiful "cum shots"... Tee hee.

[justaguy]

I'm much like Epigonos--while the idea has an appeal, especially in terms of travel, I lack the personality it takes to be any good at it. To make good money, anybody who works in a service industry needs to be a people person. It comes with the territory. That's not me.

[jjkrkwood]

I'm much like Epigonos--while the idea has an appeal, especially in terms of travel, I lack the personality it takes to be any good at it. To make good money, anybody who works in a service industry needs to be a people person. It comes with the territory. That's not me.

 

This is NOT a disagreement, but I have come across MANY people in service related businesses that Werent personable. friendly people-people YET their business did not suffer for it. And there are MANY an escort that DONT have personality, yet they might be young, built, beautiful boys with whom many men want to spend sexual-time with. Although THIS may be the controversial part of my comment, I dont think clients are picking guys off Rentboy for their "personalities". Surely after you meet them, this may become a factor in your repeat hiring of them if they did not WOW you with witty remarks, a friendly smile, and chatty demeanor, but I dont think thats why you were there in the first place. Personality may ONLY be a major factor if you are looking for that BF experience. I also think that some guys that hire the escort simply for "social" time, might just want a piece of eye-candy on their arm, at their table, or in a theatre seat and dont care about personality as long as he's a head-turner. YES, of course there are exceptions to this and people who will disagree, so Please dont start the fire-storm attacking....

[+ Cash4Trash]

I was working in central Pennsylvania and one evening was out for drinks with friends. An unattractive truck driver kept hitting on me and I kept rejecting him but then the subject of money for sex came up.

We headed back to my place and it was bad. After an hour or so I went to the bathroom, he robbed me and split. I decided that escorting wasn't a good career choice for me.

[down_to_business]

I would not chose to be an escort because I would have a big problem playing with clients emotions and making them think that there was even the hint of a possibility of something when there is really nothing just to have repeat business. Or making them think we are friends when in reality they are just a source of income.

[jjkrkwood]

I would not chose to be an escort because I would have a big problem playing with clients emotions and making them think that there was even the hint of a possibility of something when there is really nothing just to have repeat business.

 

DTB, I dont think ESCORTS do that, I think that comes directly from the client. I do believe that the escort does try to give the client the most enjoyable experience he can, and hopes for repeat business, but I doubt an escort would ever try to give the client the impression the session could lead to something more.... That could really proves disaterous for him and hurt his clientelle and word of mouth.

[down_to_business]

DTB, I dont think ESCORTS do that, I think that comes directly from the client. I do believe that the escort does try to give the client the most enjoyable experience he can, and hopes for repeat business, but I doubt an escort would ever try to give the client the impression the session could lead to something more.... That could really proves disaterous for him and hurt his clientelle and word of mouth.

 

Its not so much they go into it trying to intentionally mislead anyone. Also I agree almost all of the misinterpretation is done on the client side. But if you think they don't do at least some of this, well let's just say some of them know that their actions are being misinterpreted by the client yet they choose to do nothing about it because (as long as a client doesn't cross certain boundaries) they benefit greatly from either encouraging or at least not discouraging those feelings.

 

I know a few active escorts currently that actively pursue the ' I want to be friends' angle from before the appointment is made up until they ensure the appointment is kept and then they drop that client like a rock until the next appointment is made and all of a sudden the friendship is back.

[RockHard]

Suck this.

 

I am an escort. I just don't include sex with the expensive, exclusive service I sell.

 

The joys of self-employment far outweigh any experience I had as a corporate suit. I loved working in a fun, high-end, highly creative corporate environment but I LOVE working for myself more. Not everyone is good at being his own boss. It requires discipline and a tolerance for financial insecurity. I feel lucky that I discovered long ago that I'm much better suited being the master of my life.

 

I've never been a horn-dog so getting it up "on demand" is not one of my talents. And given that fatties, bad breath, and closeted, dysfunctional behavior are a sexual turn-off, I could never be an escort who provides a sexual service.

 

But I admire the healthy, sexy men who have the talent and the desire to please and share. If you like people and you enjoy sex with all types, I can't think of many jobs that can be as much fun or more financially rewarding.

[jjkrkwood]

Its not so much they go into it trying to intentionally mislead anyone. Also I agree almost all of the misinterpretation is done on the client side. But if you think they don't do at least some of this, well let's just say some of them know that their actions are being misinterpreted by the client yet they choose to do nothing about it because (as long as a client doesn't cross certain boundaries) they benefit greatly from either encouraging or at least not discouraging those feelings.

 

I know a few active escorts currently that actively pursue the ' I want to be friends' angle from before the appointment is made up until they ensure the appointment is kept and then they drop that client like a rock until the next appointment is made and all of a sudden the friendship is back.

 

Thats simply "entrapment" and those escorts should be exposed. And I do understand the concept of doing things to ensure Repeat business, afterall the job pays their rent, however intentionally misleading a client for monetary gain is unconscienable, and to me akin to "robbery"...

[jjkrkwood]

I am an escort. I just don't include sex with the expensive, exclusive service I sell.

 

The joys of self-employment far outweigh any experience I had as a corporate suit. I loved working in a fun, high-end, highly creative corporate environment but I LOVE working for myself more. Not everyone is good at being his own boss. It requires discipline and a tolerance for financial insecurity. I feel lucky that I discovered long ago that I'm much better suited being the master of my life.

 

I've never been a horn-dog so getting it up "on demand" is not one of my talents. And given that fatties, bad breath, and closeted, dysfunctional behavior are a sexual turn-off, I could never be an escort who provides a sexual service.

 

But I admire the healthy, sexy men who have the talent and the desire to please and share. If you like people and you enjoy sex with all types, I can't think of many jobs that can be as much fun or more financially rewarding.

 

So then you are more like a "cute little lap dog" ???? And I am just curious Rockhard, since your service does not put the demands of sex on you, and we all know how you feel about unattractive and fat people, do you ever take on clients for non-sexual encounters that would be considered unattractive or Fat ???

[Epigonos]

JJ I agree with you completely that a drop dead gorgeous escorts can make it on his looks alone. He will, however, have difficulty building a large cadre of repeat clients. Physical appearance alone will definitely bring in the first time clients but what it won’t do is turn those clients into repeat regulars. The escorts who are seriously lacking in people skills MUST be on a constant quest for new one time clients. Many escorts who fit into this category do a great deal of traveling in order to expose themselves to the widest market possibly. I know several escorts who fit into this group and actually prefer meeting clients only once. Likewise I know a number of escorts who have outstanding people skills and who, over the years, have developed a large clientele of regulars. They do fewer and fewer one hour appointments. They travel less. They tend to spend extended periods of time with their clients and some even stop advertising on sites like rentboy and men4rent.

Both of these approaches to escorting can and do work. Which of these approaches an escort selects is totally dependent on his basic personality and his escort vision.

[gcursor]

very sweet

 

That is very interesting RockHard. I am happy that you have managed to build up such an exclusive group of clients. Your life must be very sweet indeed.

gcursor

 

I am an escort. I just don't include sex with the expensive, exclusive service I sell.

 

The joys of self-employment far outweigh any experience I had as a corporate suit. I loved working in a fun, high-end, highly creative corporate environment but I LOVE working for myself more. Not everyone is good at being his own boss. It requires discipline and a tolerance for financial insecurity. I feel lucky that I discovered long ago that I'm much better suited being the master of my life.

 

I've never been a horn-dog so getting it up "on demand" is not one of my talents. And given that fatties, bad breath, and closeted, dysfunctional behavior are a sexual turn-off, I could never be an escort who provides a sexual service.

 

But I admire the healthy, sexy men who have the talent and the desire to please and share. If you like people and you enjoy sex with all types, I can't think of many jobs that can be as much fun or more financially rewarding.

[Decatur Guy]

I have a cock and ass that guys like, but never had the face for this line of work. I'm not drop-dead ugly, but I'm simply not good-looking face-wise. If I had been more handsome, hmmmmmm .... yeah, I'd be open to the idea of being one.