Be an escort?

[zeyfur]

I admire escorts. I don't think I could ever be one. I just won't be able to have sex with people I am not attracted to. I don't mean to say that's what happens with escorts all the time but it must surely happen some of the time and I don't think I would be able to overcome the lack of attraction.

[Phil_musc]

Back in my long-lost and wasted youth, I actually was occasionally paid for my favors - of course it was so long ago that the currency offered was buffalo nickels and silver dollars, but I guess it's the thought that counts. I worked in the town of Deadwood - boy, I guess that was prophetic. Fast forward now many years: I look in the mirror and I think if I were an escort I'd have to be ready to perform with someone that looks like the reflection I see in the mirror. Oh god, not sure I'm up for that - Dead wood of another kind now. In fact now sometimes it's so hard to get off that I lose interest and give up. Not much stamina in the profession, I'm afraid. But as a fantasy, hell yes. The opportunity to travel and meet a lot of maybe interesting guys - and look at all the times we've read here about clients who hire multiple guys for a session - just how bad can that really be? Yeah okay so maybe the client is a quasi-toad, but the other escorts can't be too bad, can they? Every profession has it's ups and downs.

[justaguy]

Epigonos, I think you've articulated everything I could have said.

[+ Shoreboy]

Looking back on my life and how scared I was when I first realized I was gay I don't think I would have had the nerve to ever be an escort.....although I really did go through a "free" pig stage

[RockHard]

How do you define UGLY?

 

we all know how you feel about unattractive...people

 

How I feel about unattractive people? Ah, the internet, where people shove their own words into other people's mouths.

 

With the word unattractive, we're talking beauty or behavior? I've always said beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Beauty is subjective. To each his own. Personally, I don't think people have ugly faces, unless they carry some other ugly attribute. Ugly attributes, such as an ugly attitude, tend to show up on faces.

 

Fat and ugly are two completely different things. Loving and fully enjoying someone is not the same as being sexually attracted. I may not be sexually attracted to seriously obese men but that has nothing to do with my ability to form loving relationships with chubs. Furthermore, if I fell in love with a fat guy, it wouldn't surprise me if I found myself sexually attracted to his fat. Like I've said, love breaks all our rules.

 

As for sex with a pretty face, I tend not to find pretty faces a turn on. Model looks don't make me swoon. Maybe I've been in casting way too long. I now like off-beat looks. Nuanced quirkiness. I'm picky but it has nothing to do with someone's standard definition of beauty.

 

do you ever take on clients for non-sexual encounters that would be considered unattractive or Fat ???

 

I'm not just an escort, I'm a *hore. At this stage in my life, business is all about the money (even though I LOVE my talents). If your deposit check clears, we can do business, no matter what you look like. I rarely find myself sexually attracted to a client. Some male and female clients have come onto me through the years but, in the most charming way, I reject those advances and always play the flattered card. I have pretty strong feelings about sex in the workplace. I don't tolerate unprofessional behavior. Clients know very little about my personal life. If you don't respect my work ethic, you can't work for me.

 

So, for me, the bottom line on the subject of beauty: there's no such thing as an ugly face. Everyone has the ability to smile a beautiful smile.

 

I am happy that you have managed to build up such an exclusive group of clients.

 

I wouldn't refer to all my clients as exclusive. Like I said, I'm a *hore. The service I offer is exclusive. Sure, other people offer it, too, but we have our own style, our own way of looking at things.

 

Your life must be very sweet indeed.

 

I built everything I have from the bottom up. Blood, sweat and tears. My parents were not wealthy. No rich relatives. IMO, money does not buy happiness. Money only buys comfort and fun things, like sex. Without good health and, hopefully, someone to love, unconditionally, all else is meaningless.

 

As for being an escort... There was a time when I was very shy about being naked in front of anyone. Boy are those days long gone.

[KMEM]

Back in my long-lost and wasted youth, I actually was occasionally paid for my favors - of course it was so long ago that the currency offered was buffalo nickels and silver dollars, but I guess it's the thought that counts. I worked in the town of Deadwood - boy, I guess that was prophetic. Fast forward now many years: I look in the mirror and I think if I were an escort I'd have to be ready to perform with someone that looks like the reflection I see in the mirror. Oh god, not sure I'm up for that - Dead wood of another kind now. In fact now sometimes it's so hard to get off that I lose interest and give up. Not much stamina in the profession, I'm afraid. But as a fantasy, hell yes. The opportunity to travel and meet a lot of maybe interesting guys - and look at all the times we've read here about clients who hire multiple guys for a session - just how bad can that really be? Yeah okay so maybe the client is a quasi-toad, but the other escorts can't be too bad, can they? Every profession has it's ups and downs.

 

Some buffalo nickels and all (real) silver dollars are relatively valuable now. I hope you hung on to some of them.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

If I was in my early 20's today (rather than in the 80's) I would probably give escorting a shot - being self employed would have great benefits and it would give me the motivation to keep up a steady exercise regime that my current career gets in the way of at times.

[trooperbill2000]

There is a great difference in the midset of men. I frankly never understood how anyone could be an escort because I could not perform sexual activites with an unattractive stranger if someone held a gun to my head. I would live in dread fear of what might show up at the door and anxiety would overwhelm me. An overnight of cuddling up to most strangers would be exceptionally difficult. I coudn't even fake it.

[+ purplekow]

There is a great difference in the midset of men. I frankly never understood how anyone could be an escort because I could not perform sexual activites with an unattractive stranger if someone held a gun to my head. I would live in dread fear of what might show up at the door and anxiety would overwhelm me. An overnight of cuddling up to most strangers would be exceptionally difficult. I coudn't even fake it.

 

I agree that the gun to the head would be distracting, but as I recall my 20s, I spent most of my time rearranging my cock to try to keep it from peaking out of my pants. I mentioned one time previously that I spent two hours standing on a corner in Chelsea, waiting for the escorts I had hired to return from the beach. Ultimately that was a worthwhile wait beacause of the escorts and because I decided to try and find something attractive about each many who passed. Initially it was a bit difficult, but then as I expanded my viewpoint, I was able to find something, a sexy smile, a kissable neck, strong hands, thick thighs, smoldering eyes, munchable ears, thick hair, nice forearms, which made the man physically attractive. I must admit to an occasional stretch to find something (a man with a very elegant engraved cane for example) but for the most part, once i found something, other aspects of the appearance started to take a back seat. So if the back seat was not big enough or muscular enough, well there was something else of appeal.

I think, as a result or these two things, one a natural level of horniness and responsiveness in my 20's to my 40's and two, the ability to find and focus on something attractive in almost everyone, would have led to my doing a good job as an escort. Now for those who would have hired me, well I would have filled a niche market probably.

[Phil_musc]

So, PK, I guess what I always suspected about you is true you have the soul of a slut! lol! Actually, I like your spirit. In my 20's I might have been able to do it too, but I was pretty limited in my taste after all, and as a result, a lot of freebies passed me by while I spent endless hours waiting for the perfect catch for the evening. Ah youth (and hormones) is wasted on the young. I'm more willing to see merit in more types now than I was back then. But sometimes what they say is true: the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

[Racketjock]

I will come clean. When I was a fresh faced southern boy, all innocent, freckled, fresh from the farm, and studying abroad in Europe, I was certainly in a different place. I was taught to be kind and gracious, but my circumstances were far from unusual and sufficient. In my long ago past and early youth, I lived what would be called the escort life, between two different older French men. To me they were sexy and sophisticated and generous to a poor kid from rural TX struggling through school, and to them, I was enthusiastic, thankful, and had a grand time full of memories I appreciate for how they shaped who and what I am today.

[jjkrkwood]

In my youth, pre-lover, I had sex with many an unattractive man, who was attaractive to me ONLY because of his endowment. Then came monogamy for a long spell, only to find myself single again in my Golden years and back to my old habits.. Looks not so important, the meat controls my decisions.... Shallow maybe, superficial YES, but it makes me happy. So be it....

[Dave]

I agree that the gun to the head would be distracting, but as I recall my 20s, I spent most of my time rearranging my cock to try to keep it from peaking out of my pants. I mentioned one time previously that I spent two hours standing on a corner in Chelsea, waiting for the escorts I had hired to return from the beach. Ultimately that was a worthwhile wait beacause of the escorts and because I decided to try and find something attractive about each many who passed. Initially it was a bit difficult, but then as I expanded my viewpoint, I was able to find something, a sexy smile, a kissable neck, strong hands, thick thighs, smoldering eyes, munchable ears, thick hair, nice forearms, which made the man physically attractive. I must admit to an occasional stretch to find something (a man with a very elegant engraved cane for example) but for the most part, once i found something, other aspects of the appearance started to take a back seat. So if the back seat was not big enough or muscular enough, well there was something else of appeal.

I think, as a result or these two things, one a natural level of horniness and responsiveness in my 20's to my 40's and two, the ability to find and focus on something attractive in almost everyone, would have led to my doing a good job as an escort. Now for those who would have hired me, well I would have filled a niche market probably.

 

yet another reason why i'm a fan of purplekow

[Bosguy]

yet another reason why i'm a fan of purplekow

 

I totally agree Dave. He has a positive attitude on life and would be a great escort. PK, you're a credit to the Forum. Keep it UP.

 

PS You have great taste in MEN!!

 

Boston Bill

[Michael Wayne]

alot of my clients over the years have told me that they used to escort or they hustled to put themselves through school. There are more stories like this than we will ever realize unless you are on the inside. Most of them I believe but a good number of them were obvious fantasies and fiction. I think it is easier for a former escort to hire because he knows the nature of the biz. I also have some hot younger clients who could actually pull it off and who are thinking about doing it if money gets any tighter. They always ask detailed questions about the biz. Those calls are FUUUUUUUUUUUN!