Do you take your wallet with you?

[nomad]

When meeting with guys, what do you take with you other than your phone and money?  If I go to them, I avoid taking my wallet. If I host at hotel, it's out away in a secure place and out of sight. 

I almost never have cash on me anyhow except when meeting guys.  The pain of having to cancel all the cards and getting 🆔 isn't something I want to endure.

Is it just me?

[Peter Eater]

No, it’s not just you. 

[maninsoma]

I never carried my wallet when I went to meet providers (escorts or masseurs) -- just my license, enough cash for the agreed upon fee, enough extra cash should I decide I wanted to extend my appointment or tip, and maybe one credit card in case I wanted to stop off somewhere on my way home.  

I stopped carrying my wallet several years ago.  The only time I bring a wallet is when traveling by plane, and when I get to my destination I leave the wallet in the safe.  There's not really a reason to have a wallet on one's person -- ID, insurance card, maybe one debit card and one credit card are typically all I need.

[AtlRob]

I take just my burner phone, an envelope with cash for the donation and my car key. 

Once, I rode the train when the provider was hosting near a station, so I took my rail pass, parked at a nearby station and rode to the appointment. But when I exited the train, I saw that I had no more trips on my pass (even though I had added more value earlier)!  When we finished the appt, and I paid the donation (in $100 bills), I had to ask the provider for train fare! He said I should just reload it in the train app on my phone, but it's a BURNER and has no apps! Anyway, he scrounged up $5 for me to use.

MORAL: always take some extra cash because you may need it! 

[DMonDude]

If it's the first time meeting a guy and i haven't vetted them here/they have no reviews here and i am taking a chance on them. I do leave my wallet in my car and i only take my phone/cash/car keys in with me if i'm meeting the guy at their place. Once i get a second phone, in this scenario i'd leave my main phone in the car too. If i'm hosting at a hotel, i hide my stuff.

Once i know the guy is cool/safe after a couple meets, or if it's a guy who is well reviewed/recommended here. I admittedly get much more lax though and don't really bother.

[Chien Andalou]

I have been hiring men for years. I always put away the valuables when I host, but I have never lost anything when I have met at the provider’s location. Not once, not even when I went to use the shower. There is always a risk, but my experience is that it is minimal. 

[Wings246]

4 hours ago, DMonDude said:

I do leave my wallet in my car and i only take my phone/cash/car keys in with me if i'm meeting the guy at their place. Once i get a second phone, in this scenario i'd leave my main phone in the car too. If i'm hosting at a hotel, i hide my stuff.

This has always been my struggle.  Which is riskier, leaving my stuff in my car that is parked on the street or keeping my stuff with me when I'm inside the provider's home/hotel room?  To me, both options are equally risky, for different reasons.

Edited 3 hours ago by Wings246