When a masseur’s personal life overlaps with yours

[+ sniper]

5 hours ago, 7829V said:

Thanks for the feedback. 

Yeah, he’s a personal trainer and massage therapist, so I’m sure she knows about that part of his work. Whether she knows about the extras, I have no idea, and honestly I’d rather not know. 😂

Did you initially find him through something like rentmasseur, or at a legit spa looking for normal massage and he took you private and things just progressed?

[+ 7829V]

23 minutes ago, sniper said:

Did you initially find him through something like rentmasseur, or at a legit spa looking for normal massage and he took you private and things just progressed?

I originally found him on Thumbtack, back when they still allowed massage therapist ads. They don’t anymore. Things just gradually progressed over time, and now our sessions are pretty sensual and almost border on sexual.

[Becket]

8 hours ago, sniper said:

I presume this guy is actually licensed and thus his gf knows he does that. But unless she is "in the biz" herself she probably doesn't know about the extras. And if she does she doesn't seem to care, so don't worry about it.

I once had an erotic massage at the home of the therapist and the girlfriend/wife/SO was in the other room with the baby. Since neither of them had any problem with it I tried not to be totally weird-ed out. But I did feel awkward. Still had a good time, though.

[Thelatin]

Everyone is different.  I've seen a new guy a few times, super nice.  Last weekend we partied with his sister and her husband lol.  I look forward to meeting up with everyone again.