Kissing

[lifeofbrian88]

I have some questions about kissing and hope you all can answer. 

1. Do most escorts kiss? Not kiss? 

2. Do you just ask if it's something you want upfront when booking? 

3. Besides bad breath is there is any other serious issues about kissing I should worry about? 

 

Thanks! 

[RXO96]

1. All of the guys I’ve been kissed, you can see on their ads if they do it or not but it’s something you clearly can ask like any other stuff, I personally found not kissing kind of mood killer but that’s on me. 
 

2. yes you do, try to be as straightforward as possible and after the introduction you can ask what would you like and what to expect, the kissing is usually very light deal ( I have found guys that don’t kiss are either bisexual or straight doing gay for pay), extreme sex  (WS, fisting or similars) require a specialized provider and time so it’s extremely important to communicate this, rimming is another usual deal breaker ! 
 

3. There shouldn’t be any issue from the provider part or your part when it comes to personal hygiene or oral care, you do your standard cleaning ( brush teeth, tongue and cheeks, flossing and mouthwash), some of the guys smoke or vape and found that nicotine mouth a little obnoxious but doable, most of the guys had have an amazing hygiene and I have tried to meet them there ( specifically for the douching) one fun fact is that in the past I used to offer Gatorade or Powerade to the guys and one time he had the red Gatorade before the kissing and could taste it on his mouth, I only offer water now hahaha 

[56harrisond]

Some good thoughts from another thread

On 3/23/2026 at 11:52 PM, BuffaloKyle said:

I love to kiss and always ask a provider if they are cool with passionate making out. A provider I hired once, who had kissing listed even on his page, said in person when I wanted to kiss that he doesn't kiss. Also a provider once didn't have kissing listed but I reached out to ask anyway and they said they would. They actually were great at it too and I'm so glad I asked. So I make it a habit to verify and hopefully get some first hand knowledge from guys on here about a provider and their kissing skills and willingness.

Another quick & easy tip is to reach out to a provider who posts right in their ad they love to kiss. I don't think I have ever been burned when they state right in their ad that they are into it.

 

[jmichaeliii]

5 hours ago, lifeofbrian88 said:

I have some questions about kissing and hope you all can answer. 

1. Do most escorts kiss? Not kiss? 

2. Do you just ask if it's something you want upfront when booking? 

3. Besides bad breath is there is any other serious issues about kissing I should worry about? 

 

Thanks! 

From my experience I would say it is plus or minus a 50/50 split.  And I put no value into whether they state in their profile that they are into it or not.  I have hired providers that state they are into it, then turn their head away if you make a move on them.  

I have one regular that does not have it listed, and I made a move to kiss him during our second session, and before we were done my tonsils were nearly removed he was so good!  And I am very happy he is a regular.

I have another regular that I always felt was a little shy.  We would massage and play, but there always seemed like there was a boundary.  Then one session, things got a little extra heated and before I knew it, he made the move on me.  

Bottom line is it is hard to tell unless you try.  I tend to not ask, but I will make a subtle move to try it and see where it goes based on the providers reaction.  I also think there are other providers that will open the door to more things, kissing being one of them, once you have seen them a few times and are comfortable with one another. 

[MaybeMaybeNot]

As for issues, you can get Gonorrhea in your throat just from kissing.  I don't know from experience or anything.  

[DunwoodyGuy]

It's one of those questions I like to ask, politely, in advance, since I am very oral. If the answer is no, I might still make the booking, but I won't be longing for something that won't happen. If the answer is yes, I will STILL allow the provider to take the lead, since I don't want to be "that guy" pushing for something that some people reserve for more intimate or romantic encounters. 

[DunwoodyGuy]

2 minutes ago, MaybeMaybeNot said:

As for issues, you can get Gonorrhea in your throat just from kissing.  I don't know from experience or anything.  

And you can get hit by a car crossing the street. 

[big-n-tall]

As has been mentioned, some will… some won’t. Some will say they will, but won’t. Some say they don’t, but do.

If you’re into kissing the best you can do is find a provider that says in their ad copy that they love kissing and also list it in their intos. If there is a guy you’re interested in, check and see if he’s mentioned on this site. DM a poster for details if they said they’ve met.

You can ask upfront, but just because you ask, it doesn’t mean they’ll do it once you actually meet. Some guys will say they will just to get you in the door and bank on you won’t leave once you’re there. Some may decide to kiss only in the moment (in the heat of passion, only greeting you or saying goodbye, or once they see what you look like) even though they say they are into it from the get go.

There are communicable diseases from kissing. I couldn’t tell you what the transmission rates are. Personally I never have had an issue. The other issue may be the guy just isn’t a great kisser even if he claims to be. And yes, bad breath can be an issue. Although honestly, I haven’t met a provider who kissed me with bad breath.

I’ve met a lot of great kissers over the years. A number were just ok… with a sprinkling of bad ones. One of the most recent best kissers was with a masseur. I wrote about it here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170106-your-experience/#comment-2631376

Edited Friday at 02:09 PM by big-n-tall

[Rod Hagen]

Definitely ask, and be very specific.  Instead of asking about "passionate" kissing I would ask specifically "Deep open-mouthed kissing with lots of tongue, is that something you like to do too, cause I sure do?" because there are people out there who will pretend that barely opened-mouth kissing is "passionate" kissing.   It's intimate, it may be preferred, but it's more than a stretch to call it passionate.

Edited Friday at 03:06 PM by Rod Hagen

[dutchal]

Before hiring an escort, I usually have researched the kissing issue from his ad and here.  If there's any doubt I ask, usually asking if he French kisses.  No kissing is a definite pass for me.

As for masseurs, it's unusual, but it sometimes happens as part of the "extras", and seems mostly to be a YMMV situation.

[rickster]

5 hours ago, MaybeMaybeNot said:

As for issues, you can get Gonorrhea in your throat just from kissing.  I don't know from experience or anything.  

From what I can tell on the internet, that seems to be a fairly minimal risk, if one at all.  

[Heart It Deep]

Def check beforehand so you can mange your expectations.  I've opted not to book some providers who don't kiss, but tick all my other boxes.  There are also instances where a provider does kiss, but they don't want to make out.... but claim  BFE...  just be honest about what you want. 

[Wings246]

12 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

As has been mentioned, some will… some won’t. Some will say they will, but won’t. Some say they don’t, but do.

 

11 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Definitely ask, and be very specific.  Instead of asking about "passionate" kissing I would ask specifically "Deep open-mouthed kissing with lots of tongue, is that something you like to do too, cause I sure do?" because there are people out there who will pretend that barely opened-mouth kissing is "passionate" kissing.   It's intimate, it may be preferred, but it's more than a stretch to call it passionate.

This is so very true.  Even for those who claim they do kiss, the intensity varies widely.  It can range from a polite, perfunctory goodbye kiss on the lips to the most lustful and animalistic, devour-you-alive French action.  And the exact same person can behave very differently depending on his horniness and willingness during a particular encounter.  So you will never know unless you try.

[56harrisond]