Medical eroticism quandary?

[jlgdrd]

I’m not sure this is appropriate for this gathering but here goes. I have this excitement when it comes to digital prostate exams. I should add that I once saw a doctor (great guy) and never had any worries about eroticism. It wasn’t there. But twice. Some time ago and and yesterday, I went to the doctor with arousal in mind. But yesterday, there was cause for real concern. In that regard the visit was legitimate, but I anticipated the event. I didn’t lie about the facts, but actually doubted there was any serious problem. Again though, the reason was legit. Erring on the side of caution. So I went, three guys there, handsome, two interns and the primary physician. This was for ethical reasons, to guarantee the examination was on the up and up, from their side. These guys were congenial and kind. Dropped my shorts and he slipped in his finger and checked my prostate. No boner, but definitely half mast. When I got home I jerked off. Is this repugnant and seriously, immoral? I mean I'm not ashamed of being aroused, but acting on it when I got home? Is this egregious? I don't want to act in any way that’s devious and disgusting. Honestly I don't. Like I’m perving to get digital exams. Am I making sense? Need clarity here.

Edited July 24 by jlgdrd

[Becket]

Strange things go through one's head when a handsome guy has his finger(s) in your ass. It reminds me of changing into gym clothes in high school PE class. I had to get undressed/dressed quickly because I knew I'd pop a boner if I lingered too long. The straight jock types would walk around neeked, chatting with one another without a care in the world. Drove me crazy. 

Yea, if there were three handsome doctors in the room with me, one performing the digital exam and the other two "observing," that could make many guys come to attention. The gay medical fantasy is a common one. Lots of porn based on that theme. Which is a round about way of saying don't sweat it mate.

[Nightowl]

Could the witnesses testify in court that you were getting an erection or might they have thought your penis normally aimed in the half-mast direction?  If the latter, I wouldn’t worry.  I wouldn’t worry anyway because I’m pretty sure they’ve seen that kind of reaction before.  As for jerking when you got home—not devious or disgusting in my book.  Something happened, you became aroused and got some enjoyment out of it when you got home.  I wouldn’t be concer unless you find yourself scheduling frequent prostate exams just so you can get someone to put his finger in your ass…Be glad that your problem is that thinking about erections might bring them on.  I used to be that way—I spent half of my college years with a hard-on—but now, if I think too much about getting hard, it doesn’t happen.

[Charlington]

My urologist is very attractive. I just see him to monitor my t-shots. He hasn’t seen my dick yet, but I just know if he had to perform a testicular exam on me, or feel my balls, I would probably get an embarrassing hard on. Though I know getting a hard on at the doctor's office is nothing to be embarrassed about.

[Nightowl]

1 hour ago, Charlington said:

Though I know getting a hard on at the doctor's office is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Especially at a urologist’s office.  A hard-on is a sign that your plumbing is working.  

[+ SirBillybob]

You describe the arousal as reflexive and involuntary, even though it can resemble the type of response we usually associate with consensual, intentional erotic experiences. That similarity can understandably feel unsettling, but it doesn’t make it pathological or immoral.

If the practitioner has experience initiating tripleP for a male patient with ED, for example, or on Emergency Room rotation has executed triage for priapism secondary to PDE5i uptake, robust erections will have already been witnessed in clinical practice. The observation itself is innocuous. 

Tumescence is an imperfect marker for true arousal and is not a strict prerequisite for the next stage in sexual response, orgasm. 

Edited July 23 by SirBillybob

[Rudynate]

I haven't ever found physical contact with a doctor to be erotic -the contact is so brief and the setting is so non-conducive that it just would never work for me. 

[jlgdrd]

I like to think I'm an appropriate and not indiscriminate horndog. I mean, I'm not looking for sex at a doctor's clinic. For a long time I  wasn't aroused when I saw a particular doctor, and he always did a DRE, but then, I knew him pretty well. For some reason it's different this time.

Edited July 24 by jlgdrd

[BigDMike]

On 7/23/2026 at 11:22 AM, Becket said:

Strange things go through one's head when a handsome guy has his finger(s) in your ass. It reminds me of changing into gym clothes in high school PE class. I had to get undressed/dressed quickly because I knew I'd pop a boner if I lingered too long. The straight jock types would walk around neeked, chatting with one another without a care in the world. Drove me crazy. 

Yea, if there were three handsome doctors in the room with me, one performing the digital exam and the other two "observing," that could make many guys come to attention. The gay medical fantasy is a common one. Lots of porn based on that theme. Which is a round about way of saying don't sweat it mate.

EXACT same experience in High School

Of course my locker was next to one them.....he never wore underwear...and puberty hit him early......drove me wild

 

Edited Monday at 02:56 AM by BigDMike