Favorite club experience!

[Jeff224]

What is your favorite experience in a gay bar or a male strip club?

[AtlantaDude]

It's exciting when the dancer comes out with a hard dick in his underwear and it's visible sideways, then you tip them and they open the top of the underwear and let you wrap your fingers around the manhood.

 

[Danny-Darko]

Talking with dancers over a drink and then getting a private lap dance! 🤩

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Discussing Roth IRA investment options with young men just starting out as strippers

[Xavitv]

Are you referring to a specific experience or in general?

[Jeff224]

10 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Discussing Roth IRA investment options with young men just starting out as strippers

IRA investment options? That's so unexpected 😂😂

[Jeff224]

11 minutes ago, Xavitv said:

Are you referring to a specific experience or in general?

It could be a general or specific experience. Just something you had and felt was good

[Jeff224]

26 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

Talking with dancers over a drink and then getting a private lap dance! 🤩

It's always fun and erotic to get a private lap dance🤭

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Jeff224 said:

2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Discussing Roth IRA investment options with young men just starting out as strippers

IRA investment options? That's so unexpected 😂😂

I've had several young men at several strip clubs remember me and thank me for pushing them to open a Roth IRA when I visited them a year later.  I can't get past a 5th song during a private dance with someone without asking him how he's planning for his retirement.

Edited June 15 by Vegas_Millennial
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[Minneapolis]

I would have to say my first experience.  I was 20 years old and went to the only gay bar in town

.  They had a lit up martini glass on the outside to let you know this is the place. No windows (this was the 80's).  Went there with my fake id and they had a couple of strippers for the night.  Locked eyes with one of them right away.  He came up to me after their show and we left the bar to make out in his car.  So hot.  He was a couple years older than me and a Pizza Hut assistant manager.  He was such a good kisser and so good with his hands. 

[AtlantaDude]

12 hours ago, Minneapolis said:

I would have to say my first experience.  I was 20 years old and went to the only gay bar in town

.  They had a lit up martini glass on the outside to let you know this is the place. No windows (this was the 80's).  Went there with my fake id and they had a couple of strippers for the night.  Locked eyes with one of them right away.  He came up to me after their show and we left the bar to make out in his car.  So hot.  He was a couple years older than me and a Pizza Hut assistant manager.  He was such a good kisser and so good with his hands. 

More details!   Love this story. 

[jeezifonly]

My fave would have to be my very first.

Picture it... Nob Hill Theatre, 1978, me 22, midwestern and very closeted, visiting family in the East Bay, on a solo day trip to the city. Hopped off a cable car, mid afternoon, as the Bush St marquee was visible from Powell. Too shy and broke for serious engagement with dancers, but it was not just my first motion-picture porn, but more urgently, the first in-person sighting of an erection that was not my own. 🫪Devastatingly huge secret to hold for another two years til I moved west and got my hands on one. Never had that particular sort of adrenaline rush since. 

[Minneapolis]

On 6/17/2026 at 10:06 PM, AtlantaDude said:

More details!   Love this story. 

Not much more to the story.  We were young and everything happens a lot faster back then 😉.  I do remember after fooling around we went back into the club so he could get his bag.  Lights were full on and he was still beautiful.  We exchanged numbers, but never saw each other again. But I'll never forget it.  

There were other nights I went to this club when they had dancers.  I remember the lady who checked id's just knew I was underaged and would always say "be careful in there.  Don't let anyone buy you a drink".  Good advice.  Most guys in there were in their 30's and I was fresh meet.

There was one dancer who would come and he was super straight.  But I managed to talk him up and he invited me to an after bars party.  He was there to pick up girls, but he needed to bring beer to the party.  He was 19 or 20.  Well, I told him I'd buy a 6pack for him if he let me blow him. He agreed, but he said he didn't want to cum since he wanted to score that night with the ladies.  So outside of this house, we went against the back wall and I went at it. He kept saying, "ok, ok, that's enough, you are going to make me ... aw, fuck it" and shot his load.  Totally worth a six pack of bud light. 

 

[AtlantaDude]

Great stories.  I’m of similar age.  

[Guest]

1 hour ago, jeffla said:

Second-favorite club experience: The 20-man stripper shows at the Campus Theater (which really took things much further than the Nob)... Four times a year. I managed to fly to SF for a couple of those shows and you'd have to get there extra early because they'd be sold-out 2-3 hours before the show even began. All I can say is, wow!

 

All I can say is wow!  You had me glued to the screen.  Great stories.  I once stayed at the Mark Hopkins and entered the Nob, but I can only retrieve snippets of that experience.    Never heard of Campus Theater.  Do say more and how things went further there!

[kyleham]

Too many to tell

[afterfallhours1]

One or some nights when I go to a strip club I would get a private lap dance with two strippers. And one would slap me and spit in my mouth as I suck both cocks, and we sniff some “snow”. This happened during one of my favorite songs: Gameboy by Katseye. I love when they play Katseye. Then later one of my favorite dancers would follow me into the bathroom and we would snort more snow in the bathroom stall. I love nights like these. 

[Guest]

@jeffla You do not disappoint!  In fact I had to slow myself down to fully appreciate all that you were reporting. And I have started to retrieve more of my one-time experience at the Nob!  Your tales surely fill me with nostalgia for yesteryear.

Edited June 21 by claym
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