Having to decipher “size” in ads…

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, nycl4escort said:

The thing that I always find amusing is when providers talk about girth with some I've seen stating they have 12" girth, lol. 

I assume the following:

Age - If listed as: 20-25 add 5 yr, 25-30 add 10yr, 30-35 add 5-10yr, 35-45 add 10yr

Weight - Add 10-20

Penis Length - Subtract 1.5 inches

Penis girth - Subtract 3 inches

In the end @KensingtonHomo makes the best point: SKILLS are far more important than dimensions. 

Unless you come across a provider with a peanut dick, the exact dimensions are a mere fetish in your mind where bigger is always better. (Its not).

 

[Asterisk]

On 1/23/2026 at 3:14 PM, azdr0710 said:

just remember there are 7.5 oz. cans of soda now in addition to the standard 12 oz. cans

Indeed.  And AI search engines reveal the dimensions of whichever household product is used to compare ("What are the dimensions of a 170g can of Arrid deodorant?" ~5.5").  Of course, a tape measure is the most obvious -- if they don't use one, presume size and claim are unequal, but you may be nicely surprised.

On 1/23/2026 at 1:47 AM, LuckyLechon said:

I’m new to hiring providers. I have been duped a couple times about size claims, naïveté on my part for sure. Any tips on getting an accurate telling of size?

I am bit particular but I would just like to get what I’m expecting and paying for than to be left disappointed. 

Assume they're showing it to its best advantage, but remember we're not always at our very best.  (Ignore those criticizing your interest. Providers post pics, and RM includes a filter, because legions of men (probably the vast majority) are interested.  It's perfectly normal, and very common.  Providers exaggerate because it's so common, just like real-life bottom-vers claim to be top on profiles -- it's what the market demands.)

You know what your own hard cock looks like in your own hand.  It's a rough guide: if provider's hands don't close around his girth, or his cock barely peeks out the closed fist, you have an idea that he's super girthy or pretty short.

Beware dick pics taken from below -- favored because it looks bigger from that angle.  Equally, ignore any dick pic without context (the disembodied cock, without hand or other comparand).

[LuckyLechon]

On 1/24/2026 at 9:14 PM, pubic_assistance said:

In the end @KensingtonHomo makes the best point: SKILLS are far more important than dimensions. 

Unless you come across a provider with a peanut dick, the exact dimensions are a mere fetish in your mind where bigger is always better. (Its not).

 

Mere fetish and other subtle shady comments like these crack me up quite a bit.
 

Many people hire (and pay a premium) for particular fetishes, desires and specific types of men. I don’t see the problem with seeking out specific things when hiring providers, MANY/ALL here do. Whether it is age, body type, etc. - people have an idea what they are looking for. To explain further, to me if a provider lies about size I wonder what else they would misrepresent, to me it isn’t just about a preference but it’s a bit of a litmus test of personality/vibe. 

[pubic_assistance]

6 hours ago, LuckyLechon said:

I don’t see the problem with seeking out specific things when hiring

There is never a problem with seeking out your sexual interests.

What was being commented on was that a top does not ACTUALLY NEED a huge cock when he has SKILL.

That's where I commented that for most people the demand for SIZE is an emotionally driven fetish, not an actual physical necessity to get a good ass fucking. 

We are all here to find the scratch to our itch. 

[AtlantaDude]

On 1/24/2026 at 4:55 PM, Nightowl said:

Just carry a tape measure with you.  If he doesn’t measure up demand a discount.

For fun, I once took a tape measure and measured my regular (at the time) guy.  I already knew it was large, but as he said he had never measured, I wanted to. He happily obliged.  It was 8.5, thick cut white meat.  

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, AtlantaDude said:

he said he had never measured,

Nor have I . ..because I dont know what people measure. (Nor do I really care).

Everyone says they are 8 inches and my thought when I meet them is 8 inches ?FROM WHERE ? Your asshole ?

[AtlantaDude]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Nor have I . ..because I dont know what people measure. (Nor do I really care).

Everyone says they are 8 inches and my thought when I meet them is 8 inches ?FROM WHERE ? Your asshole ?

I measured from where his cock met his abs (zero fat, thin guy) along the top of the cock.  

[Asterisk]

16 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Nor have I . ..because I dont know what people measure. (Nor do I really care).

Everyone says they are 8 inches and my thought when I meet them is 8 inches ?FROM WHERE ? Your asshole ?

It's neither a mystery nor complicated.  There are scientific studies which depend on a set standard, and literally thousands of pages online that explain and demonstrate.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

[Asterisk]

On 1/26/2026 at 11:58 AM, LuckyLechon said:

I don’t see the problem with seeking out specific things when hiring providers, MANY/ALL here do.

No problem at all.  

Some, puzzlingly, take issue with others' preferences, but they're not spending their money, time, or pleasure.  Ask their cat its opinion.

Or, rather -- go fuck women.  Because your sexual desire is determined by a stranger's baseless philosophy, so, make it easy.  🤷‍♂

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, Asterisk said:

It's neither a mystery nor complicated.  There are scientific studies which depend on a set standard, and literally thousands of pages online that explain and demonstrate.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

If they are using THIS format, then I would say 99% of the men I've been with are lying.

I am after all an architect...so I KNOW 6 inches when I see it, and NOBODY ever tells me that they are anything under 8 inches.

[RayK]

Frankly, I'm a bit more attracted to the guys whom claim 7 and under.   I can only open my throat so far...