wsc Posted Tuesday at 10:29 PM Posted Tuesday at 10:29 PM Can't really be sure of course, but I'm suspecting my concerns about what others will learn and think of me will plummet precipitously upon my death. Also, I doubt many would be shocked and even fewer surprised. + Act25, + Vegas_Millennial, + JamesB and 3 others 3 1 2
+ JEC Posted Friday at 01:03 PM Posted Friday at 01:03 PM On 12/20/2025 at 6:16 PM, SidewaysDM said: Really glad you addressed this topic. As an older (64) closeted, married man of 25 years, nobody but my providers are aware of my double life. So, I need to make sure to use a secure password manager for all of data. Frankly, I do NOT trust any of my family or friends to keep my secret. BitWarden is a great, free password manager - both online (web) and app (phone).
marylander1940 Posted Friday at 01:06 PM Posted Friday at 01:06 PM Once I'm dead I couldn't care less about what others find out about me. + Charlie, liubit, + sync and 3 others 3 3
d.anders Posted Friday at 01:54 PM Posted Friday at 01:54 PM It saddens me to hear that some gay men still live in secrecy. I hope it's less true with younger folk. + Charlie 1
EZEtoGRU Posted Friday at 02:33 PM Posted Friday at 02:33 PM Who cares about it if you’re already dead? Seriously though, I think only people that have something to hide would be concerned. Those folks would fit into two categories: 1. People that are assumed to be straight yet live a hidden gay life that those around them know nothing about. The person in question may wish to take that secret to the grave. 2. People that are involved in serious illegal activities that they wish to keep hidden forever. Take your pick of what those illegal activities might be. Outside of those situations, why would anyone be concerned about their on-line actions being discovered? Whoisyourdaddy, marylander1940 and + Charlie 1 2
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted Friday at 04:56 PM Posted Friday at 04:56 PM 3 hours ago, d.anders said: It saddens me to hear that some gay men still live in secrecy. I hope it's less true with younger folk. For some men, it's never really a secret: + Charlie, liubit, BSR and 1 other 1 3
d.anders Posted Saturday at 08:32 PM Posted Saturday at 08:32 PM I have a few Karen Walkers in my life, but they're all gay men. + Vegas_Millennial 1
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