wsc Posted December 23, 2025 Posted December 23, 2025 Can't really be sure of course, but I'm suspecting my concerns about what others will learn and think of me will plummet precipitously upon my death. Also, I doubt many would be shocked and even fewer surprised. + José Soplanucas, thomas, + Charlie and 3 others 3 1 2
+ JEC Posted December 26, 2025 Posted December 26, 2025 On 12/20/2025 at 6:16 PM, SidewaysDM said: Really glad you addressed this topic. As an older (64) closeted, married man of 25 years, nobody but my providers are aware of my double life. So, I need to make sure to use a secure password manager for all of data. Frankly, I do NOT trust any of my family or friends to keep my secret. BitWarden is a great, free password manager - both online (web) and app (phone).
marylander1940 Posted December 26, 2025 Posted December 26, 2025 Once I'm dead I couldn't care less about what others find out about me. + Charlie, + Vegas_Millennial, wsc and 3 others 3 3
d.anders Posted December 26, 2025 Posted December 26, 2025 It saddens me to hear that some gay men still live in secrecy. I hope it's less true with younger folk. + Charlie 1
EZEtoGRU Posted December 26, 2025 Posted December 26, 2025 Who cares about it if you’re already dead? Seriously though, I think only people that have something to hide would be concerned. Those folks would fit into two categories: 1. People that are assumed to be straight yet live a hidden gay life that those around them know nothing about. The person in question may wish to take that secret to the grave. 2. People that are involved in serious illegal activities that they wish to keep hidden forever. Take your pick of what those illegal activities might be. Outside of those situations, why would anyone be concerned about their on-line actions being discovered? marylander1940, + Charlie and Whoisyourdaddy 1 2
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 26, 2025 Posted December 26, 2025 3 hours ago, d.anders said: It saddens me to hear that some gay men still live in secrecy. I hope it's less true with younger folk. For some men, it's never really a secret: + Charlie, liubit, marylander1940 and 1 other 1 3
d.anders Posted December 27, 2025 Posted December 27, 2025 I have a few Karen Walkers in my life, but they're all gay men. + Vegas_Millennial 1
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