thenightaway1 Posted November 9 Posted November 9 Thinking hiring a masseur for the first time off Rentmasseur. Not sure what the expectations are. Are most sessions just actual massages or will there be more action? I'm looking to hire this one masseur. In addition to actually getting a relaxing massage, I would be interested in seeing him shirtless, mutual touching, a little bit a muscle worship and giving head. That's the extent of "other fun" that I'd pursue. Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Or are these are within reasonable expectations?
SecretProvider Posted November 9 Posted November 9 24 minutes ago, thenightaway1 said: Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Yes. Ask him. big-n-tall 1
ProudWhore Posted November 9 Posted November 9 1 hour ago, thenightaway1 said: Thinking hiring a masseur for the first time off Rentmasseur. Not sure what the expectations are. Are most sessions just actual massages or will there be more action? I'm looking to hire this one masseur. In addition to actually getting a relaxing massage, I would be interested in seeing him shirtless, mutual touching, a little bit a muscle worship and giving head. That's the extent of "other fun" that I'd pursue. Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Or are these are within reasonable expectations? You don't want a masseur. You want a escort. Sucking a dick is considered sex by many. You also want mutual touch. Yeah, pretty much a escort. Unless you are willing to pay the price for an escort when hiring. pubic_assistance and + claym 1 1
ProudWhore Posted November 9 Posted November 9 1 hour ago, thenightaway1 said: Thinking hiring a masseur for the first time off Rentmasseur. Not sure what the expectations are. Are most sessions just actual massages or will there be more action? I'm looking to hire this one masseur. In addition to actually getting a relaxing massage, I would be interested in seeing him shirtless, mutual touching, a little bit a muscle worship and giving head. That's the extent of "other fun" that I'd pursue. Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Or are these are within reasonable expectations? There are different types of massages: Erotic Sensual/Sexual Therapeutic I'll let others explain because I've never hired neither. But this is my understanding.
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted November 9 Posted November 9 (edited) 1 hour ago, thenightaway1 said: Thinking hiring a masseur for the first time off Rentmasseur. Not sure what the expectations are. Are most sessions just actual massages or will there be more action? I'm looking to hire this one masseur. In addition to actually getting a relaxing massage, I would be interested in seeing him shirtless, mutual touching, a little bit a muscle worship and giving head. That's the extent of "other fun" that I'd pursue. Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Or are these are within reasonable expectations? Edited November 9 by Vegas_Millennial pubic_assistance 1
LookingAround Posted November 9 Posted November 9 (edited) You're asking for two things. Is a HE usually expected on RM? Yes. Is a blow job expected? No. When I hire I usually state "nude with release?" Almost 100% of the time they say yes. But I don't request oral. That would be escort territory. Edited November 9 by LookingAround simongayx, + JamesB, pubic_assistance and 2 others 2 3
Nightowl Posted 11 hours ago Posted 11 hours ago If the masseur advertises sensual massage, there’s a good chance there will be an HE. He’s going to touch you in areas therapeutic-only masseurs don’t. In my view, getting me all hot and bothered and *not* finishing the job would be cruel. He might allow some MT but don’t expect much beyond that. I’ve hired for massages off of both Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder and it’s a crapshoot what you’re going to get. I’ve been topped, bottomed, sucked, and fucked by guys I’ve found on both of them. For me, the not knowing is what makes it fun. If guaranteed sex is the main goal, hire an escort, not a masseur. + KensingtonHomo, jeffla, + Vegas_Millennial and 2 others 5
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted 6 hours ago Posted 6 hours ago On 11/9/2025 at 8:49 AM, thenightaway1 said: Thinking hiring a masseur for the first time off Rentmasseur. Not sure what the expectations are. Are most sessions just actual massages or will there be more action? I'm looking to hire this one masseur. In addition to actually getting a relaxing massage, I would be interested in seeing him shirtless, mutual touching, a little bit a muscle worship and giving head. That's the extent of "other fun" that I'd pursue. Is this something we can communicate to the masseur beforehand? Or are these are within reasonable expectations? Yes, always expect oral sex and touching of genitals during a massage. If you don't receive these, report the masseur or massage establishment to the State Massage Board immediately, complaining that you WEREN'T provided sex. Disclaimer to Generation Z: The above was sarcasm. + Drew Collins, + Act25, Nightowl and 1 other 4
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