WHO DOES THE BEST BFE IN NYC

[Luv2play]

From the videos I accept the guy can fuck. But his own ad says his English is very limited. Unless you can speak Spanish I doubt you can have a bfe since words exchanged are crucial to fulfilling the experience of being with a boyfriend. 

[GLEE]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

From the videos I accept the guy can fuck. But his own ad says his English is very limited. Unless you can speak Spanish I doubt you can have a bfe since words exchanged are crucial to fulfilling the experience of being with a boyfriend. 

My text exchanges went pretty well, and he was already kinda flirting with me while texting. But I also noticed a significant delay in his response every time I sent a message (like maybe 5 minutes or so) so I wonder if he needed to translate my text messages first before he could respond… I’m still intrigued but I agree with @Luv2play; I’d genuinely have a hard time interacting with him if his English ability is limited. I didn’t see any reviews on RM mentioning any language barrier though, so maybe I’m just overthinking…

[Luv2play]

4 hours ago, GLEE said:

My text exchanges went pretty well, and he was already kinda flirting with me while texting. But I also noticed a significant delay in his response every time I sent a message (like maybe 5 minutes or so) so I wonder if he needed to translate my text messages first before he could respond… I’m still intrigued but I agree with @Luv2play; I’d genuinely have a hard time interacting with him if his English ability is limited. I didn’t see any reviews on RM mentioning any language barrier though, so maybe I’m just overthinking…

It wasn’t in the reviews but in the text of his ad. He says his English level is very low. But he communicates otherwise, he says. Well we know what that means. At least he is being honest about his language skills.

[Whatsupandstuff]

BUMP 

[Whatsupandstuff]

On 12/26/2025 at 11:38 AM, BKK212 said:

https://rent.men/MattColombia

 

Hands down the best BFE in NYC god can this guy fuck in most passionate way.

He is soooooo my type but the smoking is a no way for me to. 

[Midtownm4m]

1 hour ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

He is soooooo my type but the smoking is a no way for me to. 

And the PNP…

[Whatsupandstuff]

3 hours ago, Midtownm4m said:

And the PNP…

oh yeah and that 

[Jacob_b]

On 9/22/2025 at 4:49 AM, savantsav said:

He's delivered every time we've met. I've tried a few NY guys in between and all I find is guys on drugs, not being able to perform, or just ghosting me all together.

How can we tell if the person we intend to hire is a drug addict?

[savantsav]

6 minutes ago, Jacob_b said:

How can we tell if the person we intend to hire is a drug addict?

Easiest way to find out:

* Any mentions to "Party" "Fiesta" and even "Long Sessions" is sus on their profiles

* Has PNP in their profile. 90% of the time is GHB and/or Meth. 

[Luv2play]

57 minutes ago, savantsav said:

Easiest way to find out:

* Any mentions to "Party" "Fiesta" and even "Long Sessions" is sus on their profiles

* Has PNP in their profile. 90% of the time is GHB and/or Meth. 

I think long sessions has to be taken in context. In some cases the providers are prioritizing sessions longer than 1 hour. I also prefer longer sessions but not to get stoned on. 

[kaboom35]

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

[savantsav]

2 hours ago, kaboom35 said:

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

"Hey, I noticed on your profile you have PNP and wanted to know what you mean. I am only comfortable with <>, anything other than that is a no for me"

[DMonDude]

3 hours ago, kaboom35 said:

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

Me personally, i don't PNP and never want a provider doing that in front of me. I've never needed to specifically ask a provider not to do it. It's always seemed to me like something that a provider wouldn't do (or at the very least would keep to themself) unless the client specifically asks for it.

But maybe i've just been lucky, i've also seen the stories on this forum of guys unexpectedly showing up clearly high and such. So maybe it does need to be said 🤷‍♂️. Definitely would make it more of a guarantee to avoid it if it's explicitly stated.

Edited Wednesday at 09:01 PM by DMonDude

[kaboom35]

12 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

Me personally, i don't PNP and never want a provider doing that in front of me. I've never needed to specifically ask a provider not to do it. It's always seemed to me like something that a provider wouldn't do (or at the very least would keep to themself) unless the client specifically asks for it.

But maybe i've just been lucky, i've also seen the stories on this forum of guys unexpectedly showing up clearly high and such. So maybe it does need to be said 🤷‍♂️. Definitely would make it more of a guarantee to avoid it if it's explicitly stated.

I was just curious of other people's experiences.  As long as I've been doing this,  it's only happen to me twice when I arrived at providers home, they were smoking pot and their apartment reeked - clearly not casual smokers but hardcore potheads.   Neither experience was good.