WHO DOES THE BEST BFE IN NYC

[Luv2play]

From the videos I accept the guy can fuck. But his own ad says his English is very limited. Unless you can speak Spanish I doubt you can have a bfe since words exchanged are crucial to fulfilling the experience of being with a boyfriend. 

[GLEE]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

From the videos I accept the guy can fuck. But his own ad says his English is very limited. Unless you can speak Spanish I doubt you can have a bfe since words exchanged are crucial to fulfilling the experience of being with a boyfriend. 

My text exchanges went pretty well, and he was already kinda flirting with me while texting. But I also noticed a significant delay in his response every time I sent a message (like maybe 5 minutes or so) so I wonder if he needed to translate my text messages first before he could respond… I’m still intrigued but I agree with @Luv2play; I’d genuinely have a hard time interacting with him if his English ability is limited. I didn’t see any reviews on RM mentioning any language barrier though, so maybe I’m just overthinking…

[Luv2play]

4 hours ago, GLEE said:

My text exchanges went pretty well, and he was already kinda flirting with me while texting. But I also noticed a significant delay in his response every time I sent a message (like maybe 5 minutes or so) so I wonder if he needed to translate my text messages first before he could respond… I’m still intrigued but I agree with @Luv2play; I’d genuinely have a hard time interacting with him if his English ability is limited. I didn’t see any reviews on RM mentioning any language barrier though, so maybe I’m just overthinking…

It wasn’t in the reviews but in the text of his ad. He says his English level is very low. But he communicates otherwise, he says. Well we know what that means. At least he is being honest about his language skills.

[Whatsupandstuff]

BUMP 

[Whatsupandstuff]

On 12/26/2025 at 11:38 AM, BKK212 said:

https://rent.men/MattColombia

 

Hands down the best BFE in NYC god can this guy fuck in most passionate way.

He is soooooo my type but the smoking is a no way for me to. 

[Midtownm4m]

1 hour ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

He is soooooo my type but the smoking is a no way for me to. 

And the PNP…

[Whatsupandstuff]

3 hours ago, Midtownm4m said:

And the PNP…

oh yeah and that 

[Jacob_b]

On 9/22/2025 at 4:49 AM, savantsav said:

He's delivered every time we've met. I've tried a few NY guys in between and all I find is guys on drugs, not being able to perform, or just ghosting me all together.

How can we tell if the person we intend to hire is a drug addict?

[savantsav]

6 minutes ago, Jacob_b said:

How can we tell if the person we intend to hire is a drug addict?

Easiest way to find out:

* Any mentions to "Party" "Fiesta" and even "Long Sessions" is sus on their profiles

* Has PNP in their profile. 90% of the time is GHB and/or Meth. 

[Luv2play]

57 minutes ago, savantsav said:

Easiest way to find out:

* Any mentions to "Party" "Fiesta" and even "Long Sessions" is sus on their profiles

* Has PNP in their profile. 90% of the time is GHB and/or Meth. 

I think long sessions has to be taken in context. In some cases the providers are prioritizing sessions longer than 1 hour. I also prefer longer sessions but not to get stoned on. 

[kaboom35]

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

[savantsav]

2 hours ago, kaboom35 said:

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

"Hey, I noticed on your profile you have PNP and wanted to know what you mean. I am only comfortable with <>, anything other than that is a no for me"

[DMonDude]

3 hours ago, kaboom35 said:

If a provider mentions PNP on their profile,  and the client isn't interested, however it never comes up when discussing details of your upcoming session - are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?   or should the client acknowledge the PNP on the profile and make it clear to the provider they aren't interested in that being part of the session?  

Me personally, i don't PNP and never want a provider doing that in front of me. I've never needed to specifically ask a provider not to do it. It's always seemed to me like something that a provider wouldn't do (or at the very least would keep to themself) unless the client specifically asks for it.

But maybe i've just been lucky, i've also seen the stories on this forum of guys unexpectedly showing up clearly high and such. So maybe it does need to be said 🤷‍♂️. Definitely would make it more of a guarantee to avoid it if it's explicitly stated.

Edited June 24 by DMonDude

[kaboom35]

12 minutes ago, DMonDude said:

Me personally, i don't PNP and never want a provider doing that in front of me. I've never needed to specifically ask a provider not to do it. It's always seemed to me like something that a provider wouldn't do (or at the very least would keep to themself) unless the client specifically asks for it.

But maybe i've just been lucky, i've also seen the stories on this forum of guys unexpectedly showing up clearly high and such. So maybe it does need to be said 🤷‍♂️. Definitely would make it more of a guarantee to avoid it if it's explicitly stated.

I was just curious of other people's experiences.  As long as I've been doing this,  it's only happen to me twice when I arrived at providers home, they were smoking pot and their apartment reeked - clearly not casual smokers but hardcore potheads.   Neither experience was good.   

[Nicedice]

To each their own, but I’m immediately suspicious of any provider who lists PNP in their profile regardless of what they say. I had a terrible experience earlier this year with a provider who showed up to a session clearly high on street opioids of some sort despite being very well-reviewed on this site. He flatly denied it when I sent him a text message a few days later urging him to get help, but he also clearly had no recollection of who I was or which day he had seen me. 

I normally ask providers unknown to me do a very brief 5-minute video chat (which I always offer to pay for) to make sure they pass the vibe test. I didn’t screen the above provider this way based on his overwhelmingly positive reviews, which was a big mistake in retrospect. Most providers have been willing to do it, and the ones who refuse to do it usually have mixed to negative reviews . So yeah, consumer beware.

Edited June 28 by Nicedice

[muscmtl]

On 6/24/2026 at 4:59 PM, DMonDude said:

Me personally, i don't PNP and never want a provider doing that in front of me. I've never needed to specifically ask a provider not to do it. It's always seemed to me like something that a provider wouldn't do (or at the very least would keep to themself) unless the client specifically asks for it.

But maybe i've just been lucky, i've also seen the stories on this forum of guys unexpectedly showing up clearly high and such. So maybe it does need to be said 🤷‍♂️. Definitely would make it more of a guarantee to avoid it if it's explicitly stated.

Total opposite.I don't PNP, but it's an absolute plus if the provider does, gimme a high escort anytime

[boinllanview]

Quads.I have seen this stud over a dozen times and he always delivers Yes Quads is a definite for BFE.

[j r]

Looks like my regular provider in Brooklyn is out of the game. Haven't seen in him in a few months because of travel, but he seems to be off the radar now that I'm back. Would love any recs on guys 30+ in nyc/brooklyn who are great at BFE, kissing, sensual play. open to all types of guys but prefer someone who can also have a good conversation. thanks in advance and feel free to dm if you'd rather keep it private. 

[j r]

7 hours ago, j r said:

Looks like my regular provider in Brooklyn is out of the game. Haven't seen in him in a few months because of travel, but he seems to be off the radar now that I'm back. Would love any recs on guys 30+ in nyc/brooklyn who are great at BFE, kissing, sensual play. open to all types of guys but prefer someone who can also have a good conversation. thanks in advance and feel free to dm if you'd rather keep it private. 

Bumping this up since it was merged and lots of the previous thread is about Pnp and/or providers no longer available. Would love some suggestions! Thanks 

[pubic_assistance]

On 6/24/2026 at 1:26 PM, kaboom35 said:

....are we, as the clients, naive to assume that the provider will not attempt to partake in festivities while with the client?  

Maybe not while he's with you..but you are surely naive if you think a meth-head isnt already gonna be high when you get there. For those bottoms in the crowd, a provider with crystal dick, ain't gonna provide...and for the top oriented gentlemen here: fucking a meth-head is an experience too close to necrophilia for most top-daddy tastes. A rubber doll will have the same empty stare.

[Dchotasianguy]

Matty West provides the best BFE in based on my experience...

 

https://rent.men/Mattywestxx

[NYC_BTM_321]

11 hours ago, j r said:

Looks like my regular provider in Brooklyn is out of the game. Haven't seen in him in a few months because of travel, but he seems to be off the radar now that I'm back. Would love any recs on guys 30+ in nyc/brooklyn who are great at BFE, kissing, sensual play. open to all types of guys but prefer someone who can also have a good conversation. thanks in advance and feel free to dm if you'd rather keep it private. 

check out JacobNYC

[j r]

3 minutes ago, NYC_BTM_321 said:

check out JacobNYC

Thanks for the tip. He ticks a lot of my boxes. Do you know our he is really strictly a top? Usually into guys more open to vers. Not a dealbreaker. Just curious of you know. 

[Roger Smith]

On 9/21/2025 at 9:28 AM, Niceguyfinishedlast said:

Jimmy Troy. #1

Can you guys help me understand this one?  JimmyTroy gets universal praise here, but I'm skeptical looking at his profile.

I have a regular guy who I see for BFE, and, if you ask me, he's hands-down the best BFE in NYC.  I'm all about a vers piggy bareback connection, and a guy who's genuinely invested in the moment and in me, regardless of how attractive he thinks I am.  But like anybody, I love a little variety, a little spice, once in a while.  So maybe 1 time in 5 I'll try somebody new.  I always go back home to my regular guy, but I love to sample.  

I do tend to shy away from the super extreme fitness guys, no matter how perfect their aesthetics are.  They tend to be primarily interested in their own aesthetics, rather than any client.  And they tend to think their body aesthetics are an adequate stand-in for any connection/piggery.  Add "straight identifying" to the mix, and my skepticism grows.  Add "safe only" to the mix, and it's all but a deal breaker. 

But can all these testimonials be wrong?  I'm genuinely dying to understand this one.  And I can only imagine his price tag makes it a high stakes roll of the dice. 

Can anybody share details to make me understand?  DM is okay, if it's inappropriate for public sharing.  

 

[Whatsupandstuff]

28 minutes ago, Roger Smith said:

Can you guys help me understand this one?  JimmyTroy gets universal praise here, but I'm skeptical looking at his profile.

I have a regular guy who I see for BFE, and, if you ask me, he's hands-down the best BFE in NYC.  I'm all about a vers piggy bareback connection, and a guy who's genuinely invested in the moment and in me, regardless of how attractive he thinks I am.  But like anybody, I love a little variety, a little spice, once in a while.  So maybe 1 time in 5 I'll try somebody new.  I always go back home to my regular guy, but I love to sample.  

I do tend to shy away from the super extreme fitness guys, no matter how perfect their aesthetics are.  They tend to be primarily interested in their own aesthetics, rather than any client.  And they tend to think their body aesthetics are an adequate stand-in for any connection/piggery.  Add "straight identifying" to the mix, and my skepticism grows.  Add "safe only" to the mix, and it's all but a deal breaker. 

But can all these testimonials be wrong?  I'm genuinely dying to understand this one.  And I can only imagine his price tag makes it a high stakes roll of the dice. 

Can anybody share details to make me understand?  DM is okay, if it's inappropriate for public sharing.  

 

 

its worth the investment in the hobby to roll the dice. trust the forum