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I've had a crush on this guy the past few years. I follow him on Instagram, where he has big following. I noticed porn star Sir Armas follows him. 

Anyways, good to know he's a provider now. I've never hired bottoms but I'll definitely make the exception in this case. One of, if not the best behind's I've seen. 

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1 hour ago, DMICS said:

I've had a crush on this guy the past few years. I follow him on Instagram, where he has big following. I noticed porn star Sir Armas follows him. 

Anyways, good to know he's a provider now. I've never hired bottoms but I'll definitely make the exception in this case. One of, if not the best behind's I've seen. 

yes. i believe it's historic.

  • 2 weeks later...
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9 minutes ago, nycman said:

Requested payment up front, but he was polite about it when I refused.

As a result, we never met. Sorry, I don’t have anymore information than that. 

he requested payment up front, but you never met him?

Did he ask you to pay him before you got to his place by text? Sorry It's not clear.

  • 3 weeks later...
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5 hours ago, Viking said:

Okay, guys. I was with him all afternoon.

Glad to hear you had a good experience.

Just curious, did he ask for payment upfront?

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He didn’t. But in the end we talked about it.
He’s had some really bad experiences with clients (I mean like REALLY bad—a reminder that this work is hard and unpredictable, and there are bad actors) so he typically does ask for payment upfront. I think it depends on vibe and prior communication and how he reads the meet up, leading up to it. 

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On 7/22/2025 at 10:30 PM, nycman said:

Yeah, the appointment was all set up.

We seemed like a good match, but then the dreaded "one last thing" text at the time we were supposed to meet.

The "one last thing" should've been the 'very first thing' mentioned to the client, to see if the client is interested and wants to move along further. That way, no time is wasted on either end. 

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Yeah, he was at the top of my list. But once I read upfront payment I moved on. 

I would've been super annoyed to mentally be prepared for a booking then last minute get hit with the "one last thing" text. Especially since I book hotels for outcalls in NY since my place to host is deep in the boroughs. 

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9 hours ago, Viking said:

He didn’t. But in the end we talked about it.

Thank you for sharing your experience and I’m glad it was different than mine. I will say, he seemed generally surprised and disappointed when I refused the "payment upfront" thing. My little head was telling me to take a chance, but thankfully my big head won out. If you find yourself talking to him about it again, please encourage him to just be upfront at the very beginning with his policy.

It’s easy to say "no" with no hard feelings at the very beginning. Waiting until the time of the scheduled meet up burns a little. 

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