vast discrepancy between available tops & bottoms

[viewing ownly]

Looking for a top is a cinch, but finding a bottom by comparison involves much more investigation. Why is that? Too many people say you're a fool if you think you need to donate to be a top, as there are apps galore that can assist in a hook-up to locate an eager bottom, but being topped for whatever reason isn't the same. 

Isn't people's preference of position around 50 /50, or have we become "bottom heavy" over time? Some say it's a regional thing - "Everyone in L.A. is a bottom", etc. 

My own preference, which evolves with time, are "bottom /verse" providers, which in general means I'll almost definitely get to be the top, and probably afterward, they'll top me back. These aren't all that easy to find compared to strict tops.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

In New York, there's always a perception that there are more bottoms than tops but not to the LA extreme. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

From what I can tell, deep down, most men are bottoms; they just learn to adapt due to the roughly 11:1 bottom:top ratio.

As far as on RentMen, I know providers who don't bottom as much (or )charge more to bottom since they need to prep beforehand.

[+ ApexNomad]

4 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

From what I can tell, deep down, most men are bottoms; they just learn to adapt due to the roughly 11:1 bottom:top ratio.

As far as on RentMen, I know providers who don't bottom as much (or )charge more to bottom since they need to prep beforehand.

Many providers who advertise as “top only” are bottoms/vers in their personal life. I’ve known a few. It’s the prep that’s the issue. They can see more clients as a top. And some frankly have really big dicks and they advertise/market well with that.

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve a big dick and I think that results in bottoms wanting to hire me. I’m not complaining because I’m vers and it’s fine either way for me but I do agree it’s much less preparation than bottoming.

It can get annoying though when bottoms become desperate for it. The worst ones just expect to offer up their hole and I’ll pump away at it. Guys that’s boring!  Interact a bit, suck me, kiss etc. I’m not a fuck machine. 

[+ ApexNomad]

2 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I’ve a big dick and I think that results in bottoms wanting to hire me. I’m not complaining because I’m vers and it’s fine either way for me but I do agree it’s much less preparation than bottoming.

It can get annoying though when bottoms become desperate for it. The worst ones just expect to offer up their hole and I’ll pump away at it. Guys that’s boring!  Interact a bit, suck me, kiss etc. I’m not a fuck machine. 

I don’t know if desperate’s the right word. You’re talking about lazy bottoms!! The worst kind for sure.

[Gilfson]

I’m verse bottom in my personal life but most of my clients hire me as a top. Which is nice cause it’s not something i tend to do often!