JesTwink

[+ PhileasFogg]

3 hours ago, Alchemy said:

I saw JesTwink about a year ago in NYC and had a nice time with him. I found him sexy, compassionate and  interesting. He's educated and articulate, well informed on current events and speaks multiple languages. (I tend to enjoy a little conversation with providers beforehand, probably more so than others.) Of course, none of this negates the other issues raised but I enjoyed my two hours with him.

Prompted by this reminder, it’s probably appropriate to point out that everyone has a bad day every now and then. As to JesTwink’s response to the situation, I’d note that it’s embedded in immaturity (in the same way I might have done decades ago), youthful exuberance, and delusions of invincibility.  Immaturity is not something uncommon to someone billing themselves as a twink.  

While he’s received quite the public flogging here and should feel embarrassed by his behavior,  maybe it’s time for us to be the greater men and let this one fade into oblivion?  As @Alchemy notes, there are those who found no fault with this guy.    I know I’ve doubled down on bad mistakes in my youth, I’ve learned from them, and adjusted my future behavior accordingly.  

I'm glad the internet didn’t exist when I was young. ( My first professional performance review said “Phileas needs to understand that sugar attracts more flies than vinegar”…criticism I learned from and took seriously for the next four decades)

Therefore, if it were a vote (and I deferentially note it’s NOT a vote), I’d favor letting this guy go from this endless loop of pinned criticism.

There, I clear my throat, look down at the podium, turn a little red as I swallow hard - and get off my soapbox. 🙃

[BuffaloKyle]

Jes must have been one happy camper when we were shut down for a few days there this past week. 😅

[+ DrownedBoy]

I just clicked the link here, blocked him on RentMen, and made the note, "Boycott by CoM."

No need to think about it. Out of sight, out of mind.

[wsc]

22 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Prompted by this reminder, it’s probably appropriate to point out that everyone has a bad day every now and then. As to JesTwink’s response to the situation, I’d note that it’s embedded in immaturity (in the same way I might have done decades ago), youthful exuberance, and delusions of invincibility.  Immaturity is not something uncommon to someone billing themselves as a twink.  

While he’s received quite the public flogging here and should feel embarrassed by his behavior,  maybe it’s time for us to be the greater men and let this one fade into oblivion?  As @Alchemy notes, there are those who found no fault with this guy.    I know I’ve doubled down on bad mistakes in my youth, I’ve learned from them, and adjusted my future behavior accordingly.  

I'm glad the internet didn’t exist when I was young. ( My first professional performance review said “Phileas needs to understand that sugar attracts more flies than vinegar”…criticism I learned from and took seriously for the next four decades)

Therefore, if it were a vote (and I deferentially note it’s NOT a vote), I’d favor letting this guy go from this endless loop of pinned criticism.

There, I clear my throat, look down at the podium, turn a little red as I swallow hard - and get off my soapbox. 🙃

You seem a good and compassionate man, and I both thank and admire you for it.

As for JesTwink, two things:

• We reap what we sow [brought it on himself]
• Confession is good for the soul [a sincere apology statement might go a long way]

[+ PhileasFogg]

5 hours ago, wsc said:

You seem a good and compassionate man, and I both thank and admire you for it.

As for JesTwink, two things:

• We reap what we sow [brought it on himself]
• Confession is good for the soul [a sincere apology statement might go a long way]

I don’t disagree.  Of course, your avatar has an interesting quote attributed to him

”never apologize. Never explain”

Maybe he should, maybe he will - but either way, we should make our own decisions based on principle and not on what he might or might not do.

I’ve said enough.  I’ll shut up now but strength comes from doing more than one must - dine in free will

Edited August 6 by PhileasFogg

[TJMS]

It almost sounds like there are two JesTwinks, kind of like Jeckle and Hyde. Sometimes you meet one, sometimes the other. Too complicated for me. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

19 hours ago, TJMS said:

It almost sounds like there are two JesTwinks, kind of like Jeckle and Hyde. Sometimes you meet one, sometimes the other. Too complicated for me. 

He wouldn't be the first manic-depressive escort I met.

[+ Twinkluvr]

On 8/4/2025 at 2:38 PM, PhileasFogg said:

Prompted by this reminder, it’s probably appropriate to point out that everyone has a bad day every now and then. As to JesTwink’s response to the situation, I’d note that it’s embedded in immaturity (in the same way I might have done decades ago), youthful exuberance, and delusions of invincibility.  Immaturity is not something uncommon to someone billing themselves as a twink.  

While he’s received quite the public flogging here and should feel embarrassed by his behavior,  maybe it’s time for us to be the greater men and let this one fade into oblivion?  As @Alchemy notes, there are those who found no fault with this guy.    I know I’ve doubled down on bad mistakes in my youth, I’ve learned from them, and adjusted my future behavior accordingly.  

I'm glad the internet didn’t exist when I was young. ( My first professional performance review said “Phileas needs to understand that sugar attracts more flies than vinegar”…criticism I learned from and took seriously for the next four decades)

Therefore, if it were a vote (and I deferentially note it’s NOT a vote), I’d favor letting this guy go from this endless loop of pinned criticism.

There, I clear my throat, look down at the podium, turn a little red as I swallow hard - and get off my soapbox. 🙃

This guy may have provided some good sessions, however, his extremely egregious behavior goes way beyond immaturity or having a bad day.  This guy is a menace and a risk for anyone who hires him as well as this website.  This level of warning, to be pinned to the top of the page by the primary moderator of this site is unprecedented from what I’ve seen on this site.  That fact alone should be evidence that this guy should be put out of business.  I hope this thread stays pinned and bumped until it comes up as the top google result for the search of Jestwink.

and while I double down on his cancellation as an escort, I do hope he gets mental health help and maybe use his education to find a new career path.

Edited Thursday at 08:25 PM by Twinkluvr

[+ PhileasFogg]

5 minutes ago, Twinkluvr said:

This guy may have provided some good sessions, however, his extremely egregious behavior goes way beyond immaturity or having a bad day.  This guy is a menace and a risk for anyone who hires him as well as this website.  This level of warning, to be pinned to the top of the page by the primary moderator of this site is unprecedented from what I’ve seen on this site.  That fact alone should be evidence that this guy should be put out of business.  I hope this thread stays pinned and bumped until it comes up as the top google result for the search of Jestwink.

and while I double down on his cancellation as an escort, I do hope he gets mental health help and maybe use his education to find a new career path.

I wish I could rebut your position, but what happened was indeed unacceptable.  And I’m sorry he treated you, and others, like he did