Best in NYC

[iluvgaystuff]

Where is the best strip clubs for gay gogos in NYC?  Is it Hush? Is it MonsterBar?  I don’t really need to see live sex acts, just hot guys dancing that might pull it out while dancing. Recently I was in Mexico and was shocked at how uninhibited it was. Men were just dancing with hard dicks bouncing around. It was great.  In all my years in NY it’s seemed to be a little hard to find the right place. Someone mentioned Jackson Heights.  

[Buff Daddy]

Buffdaddys Filthy Fridays at RedEye 

[Gerhardjack]

I know a amazing gay club in NYC. When I went for my vacation in NYC to visit Henrietta Hudson , it didn’t feel like just another bar — it felt like a whole vibe. The energy was electric, the music was on point, and the people? Absolutely amazing. Everyone was just being themselves, dancing, laughing, and living in the moment.

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

On 4/23/2025 at 12:59 AM, iluvgaystuff said:

Where is the best strip clubs for gay gogos in NYC?  Is it Hush? Is it MonsterBar?  I don’t really need to see live sex acts, just hot guys dancing that might pull it out while dancing. Recently I was in Mexico and was shocked at how uninhibited it was. Men were just dancing with hard dicks bouncing around. It was great.  In all my years in NY it’s seemed to be a little hard to find the right place. Someone mentioned Jackson Heights.  

Not sure if the previous post was serious or sarcastic, but Henrietta Hudson is a lesbian bar.
The odds of seeing male dancers/strippers/gogo boys performing are non-existent. 

BuffDaddy's events are usually lots of fun.....

BTC
🤡
 

Edited April 24 by BOZO T CLOWN

[Jasrb36]

On 4/23/2025 at 12:59 AM, iluvgaystuff said:

Where is the best strip clubs for gay gogos in NYC?  Is it Hush? Is it MonsterBar?  I don’t really need to see live sex acts, just hot guys dancing that might pull it out while dancing. Recently I was in Mexico and was shocked at how uninhibited it was. Men were just dancing with hard dicks bouncing around. It was great.  In all my years in NY it’s seemed to be a little hard to find the right place. Someone mentioned Jackson Heights.  

For actual nudity buff daddys events at Red Eye on most Fridays 4p-10p.  For the most gogo boys and a more dance like atmosphere Spunk at the monster Saturdays is always fun.  They do naked towel dances occasionally but rare to see more than ass at Spunk.  The guys at both venues offer lap dances as well.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

1 hour ago, Jasrb36 said:

For actual nudity buff daddys events at Red Eye on most Fridays 4p-10p.  For the most gogo boys and a more dance like atmosphere Spunk at the monster Saturdays is always fun.  They do naked towel dances occasionally but rare to see more than ass at Spunk.  The guys at both venues offer lap dances as well.

Spunk at Monster is also on Thursdays, and less crowded with patrons on Thursday vs Saturday

Edited April 24 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Other fun options is Macho Mondays at Nowhere Bar for fun lap dances, although no nude dancing. 

I've yet to make it to the Cock but have heard good things about the dancers there

[Jasrb36]

23 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Spunk at Monster is also on Thursdays, and less crowded with patrons on Thursday vs Saturday

Yeah ive gone both days as well as Pieces on Sundays.   All 3 days are good for different reasons lol.  

[pubic_assistance]

On 4/24/2025 at 8:04 AM, Gerhardjack said:

When I went for my vacation in NYC to visit Henrietta Hudson , it didn’t feel like just another bar — it felt like a whole vibe.

Yeah...it's called a dyke-bar.

VERY different vibe.

🙄

[Buff Daddy]

BUFFDADDYS NYC TONIGHT 

[TopTwinkyLower]

nice

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Hey @Buff Daddy can you explain which days are open for boy’s lap dances and where it is happening? I have seen multiple addresses on your posters and I am confused. 

[Buff Daddy]

Hi. Email me. We are only at RedEye.  Please email me [email protected] 

[+ Tarte Gogo]

2 hours ago, Buff Daddy said:

Hi. Email me. We are only at RedEye.  Please email me [email protected] 

That is what I mean:

• Google maps says that RedEye is at 355 W 41st St, NYC 10036.
• But your posters repeatedly say that Buffdaddy is at 232 W 37th street, NYC 10018.

If you changed location since these posters were created, just explain that and give the new address, how hard is it?

And no, I am not emailing you. Why would you tell me in private but not tell everyone else here about where your business is?

[Buff Daddy]

All my flyers have  dates, times, location.  We do Flyers every week. The two posters are from Aprril 27th.  If you're on my email list you get all the info on my events well in advance.  

[+ Tarte Gogo]

No interested in your mailing list.

[+ RyanDean]

@Tarte Gogo : you might check out the BuffDaddy instagram, where the current flyers are also posted.

And to address the uncertainty/confusion you mentioned upthread, BuffDaddy currently hosts NYC events at two locations: at RedEye and at a private space on 37th. 
 

Edited July 14 by RyanDean

[+ azdr0710]

2 hours ago, Tarte Gogo said:

No interested in your mailing list.

You expressed interest in Buffdaddy's events. The email list is the best way to keep up with these. 

[zzsan32nw]

On 7/13/2025 at 9:44 PM, Tarte Gogo said:

That is what I mean:

• Google maps says that RedEye is at 355 W 41st St, NYC 10036.
• But your posters repeatedly say that Buffdaddy is at 232 W 37th street, NYC 10018.

If you changed location since these posters were created, just explain that and give the new address, how hard is it?

And no, I am not emailing you. Why would you tell me in private but not tell everyone else here about where your business is?

Its not confusing, look at each ad.  It has a date, and an address.  So it means that on that date, it is at that address.  lol how hard was that to follow?  

[+ Tarte Gogo]

9 hours ago, zzsan32nw said:

Its not confusing, look at each ad.  It has a date, and an address.  So it means that on that date, it is at that address.  lol how hard was that to follow?  

On 7/14/2025 at 12:22 PM, azdr0710 said:

You expressed interest in Buffdaddy's events. The email list is the best way to keep up with these. 

thought it was a business at a fixed location, weekly schedule, like Pieces.
It is not for me. 

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

8 hours ago, Tarte Gogo said:

thought it was a business at a fixed location, weekly schedule, like Pieces.
It is not for me. 

RedEye is a business (a gay bar) at a fixed location... it is just like Pieces.
BuffDaddy has a weekly event with naked male strippers on most Friday nights....

BTC
🤡

 

Edited July 16 by BOZO T CLOWN

[Chris Miles]

Been to a few parties left with a smile, a well earned dent in my pocket and excitement for the next time. The 3-4 times I’ve been have all been amazing! The manager Prince is such a sweetheart super informative, not pushy and kind. I saw him take care of multiple customers including a heavily intoxicated one. Music is always a good mix with good oldies and current, no complaints about this place if you get a chance to go definitely have the experience

[Wickedsexy]

my only issue w/ RedEye is the lap dance area.   Basically its in a back room,.  there are just little chairs.    not comfortable and there's no speakers back there.  so not so great.  but I did enjoy it overall. 

[surferguy_1]

On 8/5/2025 at 3:13 PM, Wickedsexy said:

my only issue w/ RedEye is the lap dance area.   Basically its in a back room,.  there are just little chairs.    not comfortable and there's no speakers back there.  so not so great.  but I did enjoy it overall. 

There are two spacious bathrooms that more than make up for the back room

[Chris Miles]

Whoever runs the door at the BuffDaddy events (I’m assuming the owner) should pass the torch this past weekend seemed like it was supposed to be a great weekend of celebration for one of the lead dancers but the guy at the door seemed less concerned with providing a calm and chill atmosphere every time I saw the dancers all engaged with someone or making rounds he’d yell at the event manager to have someone get on the bar or boxes, it seemed like the dancers were trying to do the usual make sure customers have an experience but he just kept barking orders! there would be times the energy and vibe of the party were just going dancers busy, music good, bar jam packed and he was concerned with seeing someone on the bar instead of letting things roll. For me I’d prefer just enjoying my time and light convo with the guys. I don’t think anyone cares to see someone on the bar all night but that’s just my opinion!