Those beautiful men from "Rentmen" keep breaking my heart

[balinn]

I'm just venting here, but it drives me nuts when a really attractive guy pops up on the Rentmen web site in my area and they are only staying for 1 or 2 days and I'm not  able to make it there in time, or they have the car symbol next to my city which means that they are willing to travel there, but I have to host!

[Spikeguy]

If you have to host and can’t you could get a hotel room.

[maninsoma]

Unless someone is a flight attendant or your nearest city is just a layover for them, I question why a traveling escort would only be available for a day or two.  In fact, unless it's a well established escort (i.e., he's gotten good reviews here), I would question the legitimacy of the ad.  Maybe it's someone who's just trying to drive Only Fans subscriptions or, worse yet, a con man looking to rack up deposits from suckers willing to send money to a complete stranger who has no verified history of legitimacy. 

At any rate, I'm sure the world is filled with beautiful men who could break your heart because you cannot meet them.  Just enjoy the ones you can meet. 

[Ali Gator]

@balinn I feel your pain. 

There's one particular guy I have had my eye on for nearly a year - he pops up in my city every few months as his 'home location' around 10 am on any given weekday, and when I text him that same  day (usually from my lunchbreak at work around 12 noon) he let's me know he's leaving at 11 am the next day. If I can't make that night when he has a couple of appointments open (I never can - I have a very active schedule after work, so I need to plan ahead) or the next morning (I can't - I have to work), I'm out of luck.  I've asked him a few times to text me the day before he's headed here or the night before, so I can arrange my schedule to accommodate his travel - he agrees, but never does. He's a sexy guy and polite enough in his texts, but it just doesn't seem to mesh.

I find it frustrating that when I go onto Rentmen or Rentmasseur, I'll find a dozen or so ads, and many guys catch my eye. I then click on their ad and they're 'near travel' to my city - anywhere between 50 miles to 300+ miles away. Like you, I'm not able to host and in addition, I have no desire to book a hotel and wait and see if the guy will even show up (or cancel five minutes earlier, as they don't want to leave where they are). 

[balinn]

29 minutes ago, Spikeguy said:

If you have to host and can’t you could get a hotel room.

Good point, but I'd rather not pay for that. But if the right one pops up on the site in my area.....I may have to do just that.

[balinn]

15 minutes ago, Ali Gator said:

@balinn I feel your pain. 

There's one particular guy I have had my eye on for nearly a year - he pops up in my city every few months as his 'home location' around 10 am on any given weekday, and when I text him that same  day (usually from my lunchbreak at work around 12 noon) he let's me know he's leaving at 11 am the next day. If I can't make that night when he has a couple of appointments open (I never can - I have a very active schedule after work, so I need to plan ahead) or the next morning (I can't - I have to work), I'm out of luck.  I've asked him a few times to text me the day before he's headed here or the night before, so I can arrange my schedule to accommodate his travel - he agrees, but never does. He's a sexy guy and polite enough in his texts, but it just doesn't seem to mesh.

I find it frustrating that when I go onto Rentmen or Rentmasseur, I'll find a dozen or so ads, and many guys catch my eye. I then click on their ad and they're 'near travel' to my city - anywhere between 50 miles to 300+ miles away. Like you, I'm not able to host and in addition, I have no desire to book a hotel and wait and see if the guy will even show up (or cancel five minutes earlier, as they don't want to leave where they are). 

I know what you mean about the messaging Ali. I hate it when I send a private message through the rentmen site, and they simply don't respond. I mean, I'm not asking for free photos or anything.....my message might be something like......."will you be available next Tuesday at 3pm for a 60 minute session"?......that kind of message.

[Yukon21]

Maybe Ive been doing this too long but I dont let these guys get me upset anymore.  When I see an ad I like I contact them. They reply or dont reply, in town one day or a week.  If we meet, we meet.  If not, so what.  I wait for the next one to show up that looks good and inquire.  Rinse and repeat.  Youll live longer and enjoy life more if you dont get wrapped up on the next hot one that comes to town thinking hes a must have.  Its just a guy and this should be fun, not driving you "nuts".

[Ali Gator]

Just now, balinn said:

I know what you mean about the messaging Ali. I hate it when I send a private message through the rentmen site, and they simply don't respond. I mean, I'm not asking for free photos or anything.....my message might be something like......."will you be available next Tuesday at 3pm for a 60 minute session"?......that kind of message.

I text them directly through 'What'sApp' - I usually have good luck with that.

 

I find tracking a traveling provider is like tracking a hurricane. Sometimes it hits your location, other times it goes off track and 'out to sea'. 

The other day, I saw another traveling masseur advertising in a location about an hour away. He's another sexy guy I have texted back and forth, but last time I caught him at the end of his visit here  (he was here for three or four days). Anyhow, last time he said he'd be back in my area (Providence) in mid-March. I've been tracking his travel (like a hurricane coming up the coast) to see if he was heading this way in mid-March.

So when I saw his New London, CT location on Thursday, I texted him - asking if  RI was next. He politely responded back with 'Yes I'm in New London, CT until Sunday morning - should be there on Sunday afternoon, staying until Wednesday, then off to Boston Thursday - Sunday (the 23rd).' I told him I'd text on Sunday morning so we can make arrangements for Sunday night - he responded 'definitely'. (He even asked for some hotel recs, as he doesn't like the hotel he usually books in my area - so I provided him with a few better options, which he was thankful for).

I checked his ad again today (sometimes he posts sexy new photos for a few days then takes them down), and now he's in Buffalo, NY. So it sounds like 'this hurricane' turned around and went the opposite way. Hmmmm. 

[MikeThomas]

Can you post a link?

[Ali Gator]

2 minutes ago, Yukon21 said:

Maybe Ive been doing this too long but I dont let these guys get me upset anymore.  When I see an ad I like I contact them. They reply or dont reply, in town one day or a week.  If we meet, we meet.  If not, so what.  I wait for the next one to show up that looks good and inquire.  Rinse and repeat.  Youll live longer and enjoy life more if you dont get wrapped up on the next hot one that comes to town thinking hes a must have.  Its just a guy and this should be fun, not driving you "nuts".

It sounds like you have a plethora of hot guys traveling through your area on a regular basis - consider yourself lucky, because that certainly doesn't happen in my area. The frewuency here is usually every 6-8 weeks (and sometimes there will be three hot guys who are visiting over the same couple of days).

[Yukon21]

Well then I shall consider myself lucky.  Theres usually a couple hot ones visiting most of the time.  An occassional dry week but not too often.  Another word from experience is many of the hottest ones Ive thought I had to have and eventually met never lived up to the dreams and fantasies I had about them.  Ive left many of those meetings thinking I let the wrong head make the decision on meeting.  

[excelntsvc]

if i see ssomeone i like and they are in my town for only a short time, i message them and ask for a heads up for their next planned visit ... it's worked well on several occasions

 

[Ali Gator]

7 hours ago, excelntsvc said:

if i see ssomeone i like and they are in my town for only a short time, i message them and ask for a heads up for their next planned visit ... it's worked well on several occasions

 

I do that regularly - then when it's nearing the time they planned on returning, I return to their ad and start 'tracking them' like a hurricane moving up the coast. Sometimes we do meet, other times they don't return as planned. 

[Ali Gator]

The provider I've been tracking and texted the other day (who was less than an hour away from me in CT, then said he'd be returning to RI from today - Wednesday), made an about-face and went to Buffalo for Friday - Saturday. OK, so maybe he will be here still from Sun - Wed, as he said he would be? I check his progress today, and he's in Philly. Maybe he has one of those AI self-driving cars, and lands wherever the car takes him that day ? 

[+ DrownedBoy]

Yes, that's a thing. It's especially annoying when my favorite travelling provider comes in for a couple days in the middle of the week, when I'm working and don't have time to meet.

A lot of escorts have a long list of 1-day stopovers (like 1 day in NYC, followed by 1 day in Boston, etc). When I've contacted them, several say that they only plan on going to said city if they book a customer ahead of time. So, you might ask them about that.

[BuffaloKyle]

I only hate when a provider doesn't post he's in my city until the day of and is only here one night. Even as a top I like a day's notice so I can be freshly groomed and to make sure I haven't just eaten a nice spicy bean burrito. 🌮

Edited March 16 by BuffaloKyle

[Thelatin]

In town for a few days is code for,  they aren’t in town.   It means they are feeling out potential leads.  If they don’t get enough hits, they aren’t coming.  And neither are you.