D21howie Posted March 2 Posted March 2 Good morning. We recently had a thread regarding abusive clients. Has anyone encountered an escort who was abusive or displayed very bad behavior? MikeBiDude, Venite, Danny-Darko and 1 other 1 1 2
Venite Posted March 2 Posted March 2 (edited) Was this sarcastic? Edit: Actually, it might have been upper level sarcasm that I didn’t even catch lol. Referencing that escorts are regularly talked about on here. Edited March 2 by Venite Asterisk, pubic_assistance and + azdr0710 2 1
BrickBuilder Posted March 2 Posted March 2 2 hours ago, D21howie said: Has anyone encountered an escort who was abusive or displayed very bad behavior? I sorta feel like this should be a full Jeopardy Board with 5 or 6 topics. Can I have "Verbal/Text Abuses" for $100 Can I have "Physical Intimidations" for $200 Can I have "Lies about Showing up" for $300 Can I have "I Never Agreed to That" for $400 Can I have "How Late Will I be and Why" for $500 The Final Jeopardy Category is "Things an Escort says to make sure you know he feels superior to you since you have to hire him". Hmmmmm.....I am guessing these topics could possibly go either way. 56harrisond, Harryinny, thomas and 12 others 2 1 12
56harrisond Posted March 2 Posted March 2 7 minutes ago, AtlTopGuy said: I sorta feel like this should be a full Jeopardy Board with 5 or 6 topics. Can I have "Verbal/Text Abuses" for $100 Can I have "Physical Intimidations" for $200 Can I have "Lies about Showing up" for $300 Can I have "I Never Agreed to That" for $400 Can I have "How Late Will I be and Why" for $500 The Final Jeopardy Category is "Things an Escort says to make sure you know he feels superior to you since you have to hire him". Hmmmmm.....I am guessing these topics could possibly go either way. Daily double: takes deposit and then stops responding/blocks communication peter831, Ricanjackal, + DrownedBoy and 6 others 1 1 3 4
D21howie Posted March 2 Author Posted March 2 2 hours ago, Venite said: Was this sarcastic? Edit: Actually, it might have been upper level sarcasm that I didn’t even catch lol. Referencing that escorts are regularly talked about on here. No was just asking the other side of the question Venite and CuriousByNature 2
+ azdr0710 Posted March 3 Posted March 3 21 hours ago, D21howie said: No was just asking the other side of the question we are being a bit snarky here because there are hundreds of forum threads about providers not coming through with promises or service......you've been a forum member for over four years and surely must've seen one or two of these! CuriousByNature and DC Guy 92 1 1
D21howie Posted March 3 Author Posted March 3 4 hours ago, azdr0710 said: we are being a bit snarky here because there are hundreds of forum threads about providers not coming through with promises or service......you've been a forum member for over four years and surely must've seen one or two of these! A lot of times I might glance at a post but if it is not interesting I do not read it Danny-Darko and Yukon21 1 1
CuriousByNature Posted March 3 Posted March 3 1 minute ago, D21howie said: A lot of times I might glance at a post but if it is not interesting I do not read it There are a lot of posts about disappointing encounters, but not as many about providers specifically being abusive, from my recollection. I think it's a fair question to ask, though it seems the term 'abusive' means many things to many people. + azdr0710 1
Danny-Darko Posted March 3 Posted March 3 (edited) On 3/2/2025 at 11:13 AM, D21howie said: Good morning. We recently had a thread regarding abusive clients. Has anyone encountered an escort who was abusive or displayed very bad behavior? Dude. Honestly. What can you or any of us do about that when it happens? Report them to the Better Business Bureau? Call the police and file a complaint? Knock their teeth out? Huh??? Walk away and have nothing to do with them again. Don't give them your business and hard-earned money and move on. There are other nice people out there you can spend your time and money on. One important factor I have learned the hard way is, don't EVER get emotionally involved in any way! No sob stories of hard luck, personal issues, affections, confusing their "paid for attention" for "friendship" and so on. You hire and pay for your hour, get down to business and then thanks and goodbye! So you got burned, wasted some money... well move on. If you don't like what somebody say or how they say it, say "Thank you, but no thank you" and walk away! We live, we learn and hopefully they will to, but if not, it's not our problem. Edited March 3 by Danny-Darko Yukon21, MikeBiDude and + azdr0710 1 2
+ DrownedBoy Posted March 3 Posted March 3 40 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said: Dude. Honestly. What can you or any of us do about that when it happens? I plead the Fifth.
DavidNY Posted March 3 Posted March 3 Blackmail, extortion, threatening to “ruin your life” in one way or another. I don’t agree with the ‘accept it and move on’ mentality. Sure, with a poor performance, maybe give them a bad review or don’t patronize again. but absolutely, don’t be a victim. Be smart, but hold them accountable to scamming and abuse. There are plenty of ways to do that without assaulting them (although they should be wary that not all clients would keep to that line). If you let them get away with it 1) they perceive you as someone they can take advantage of, and 2) you keep bad guys out there to hurt more people. gdphilly, + DrownedBoy, DC Guy 92 and 1 other 1 3
CuriousByNature Posted March 3 Posted March 3 I'm confused why some people seem so taken aback by the question the OP asked. Some of the responses seem to be a bit over the top, to be honest. Talk about dissuading someone from asking a simple question on this board! And yes, just like Norma Desmond being ready for her close-up, I'm ready for the eye-roll emojis that will no doubt be given for my reply here jimbosf 1
steve10025 Posted March 4 Posted March 4 1 hour ago, CuriousByNature said: I'm confused why some people seem so taken aback by the question the OP asked. Some of the responses seem to be a bit over the top, to be honest. Talk about dissuading someone from asking a simple question on this board! And yes, just like Norma Desmond being ready for her close-up, I'm ready for the eye-roll emojis that will no doubt be given for my reply here I agree! It seems to me one of the uses of this forum is for us to warn each other about bad experiences, what's wrong with that? It's a kindness. + DrownedBoy, + glutes, DC Guy 92 and 2 others 3 2
DC Guy 92 Posted March 4 Posted March 4 2 hours ago, DavidNY said: Blackmail, extortion, threatening to “ruin your life” in one way or another. I don’t agree with the ‘accept it and move on’ mentality. Sure, with a poor performance, maybe give them a bad review or don’t patronize again. but absolutely, don’t be a victim. Be smart, but hold them accountable to scamming and abuse. There are plenty of ways to do that without assaulting them (although they should be wary that not all clients would keep to that line). If you let them get away with it 1) they perceive you as someone they can take advantage of, and 2) you keep bad guys out there to hurt more people. This. + glutes 1
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