What gets you going in a massage?

[Nightowl]

Just curious but am wondering what gets fellow hobbyists going during a massage other than direct stimulation?  What just doesn’t do it for you?  

[Trick]

As soon as he touches the insides of my thighs and my nipples.  Also when he lays his dick on my waiting hands😂

[big-n-tall]

A few things... usually when they touch or rub around my lower back... can set me off. Also if they start rubbing their faces against mine. The other thing that not everybody does, is when they use their whole body to massage me... gliding from the top down and I can feel their dick slide between my ass cheeks as they slide down.

One guy drives me nuts just by a look. Usually when I'm already aroused and he would flip me over, he'd get this glimmer in his eye, smile devilishly, growl, and start touching my erection. Soon as he does this if he wasn't already erect, it usually made him hard instantly. A shame he is retired/on hiatus.

Edited January 23 by big-n-tall

[Guest]

Either when they get to my inner thighs, especially if I'm face down and they're reaching under the thigh to my pelvis.

or when they're standing in front of me massaging my upper back, leaning over me and letting their crotch (even clothed) brush up against my head. Fuuuuuuck.

And of course, when I feel their erection as they lean over my side and plant it in my hand.

I'm erect just thinking about those.

[Guest]

I just remembered, there we're two times that the man was naked and got on top of me as I lay face down. Just the body contact had me super hot.

Although then he started to rub his penis on my hole, and little by little, he pushed it inside me. I was really surprised that it went in so easily. I guess I just really wanted it;

[CuriousByNature]

4 hours ago, JD-Angel said:

and little by little, he pushed it inside me. I was really surprised that it went in so easily. I guess I just really wanted it;

[+ Just Chuck]

• When they brush their hands over my inner thigh.
• If they reach under my pelvis and caress either my balls or cock , just as a teaser or preview, while I'm lying face down.
• Body contact.  I've had a couple of massages from masters of body contact who would always position themselves to be working across and on the opposite side of my body from wherever they were positioned so they were in contact with me almost the entire time.
• If they spend some time massaging my glutes and apply the oil or lotion between my cheeks.  Some of the best even just spend some time with fingers just teasing around the edge of my hole without making entry or just making very gentle entry.  
• Gently drawing the tips of their fingernails across the underside of my scrotum and up across my taint.
• If I'm lying with my head face-down in a massage table's face cradle, standing naked above my head as they work my neck and shoulders so I watch their legs and cock while they work.
• If they straddle one of my thighs as they work on my back.
• If they slide their cock between my asscheeks with body contact.

[+ poolboy48220]

One masseur years ago would do light, almost tickling, strokes on my lower abs. He was strictly therapeutic but I have to think he knew the effect it had on guys. 

[+ Drew Collins]

Abdominal massage.  Almost without fail.  I can go from zero to 100 if I'm not paying attention and somewhat in control....  💦🔥

[PileDriver]

the palm of  hand gripping my chest/nipples...a good stroking of my feet...of course the hand gliding up the back of my leg to my butt...a slap or deep massage of my lower stomach on my groin...glute massage with a straying thumb...slow ear massage

[Nightowl]

Since I asked the question…

-used to go to a guy who would start at my ankles with two-handed up-and-down strokes, moving upward slowly.  The anticipation of waiting for those hands to reach my inner thighs and by-then raised hips was unbelievable. 

-very gentle touching around my hole. I’m not usually a bottom but gentle probing is great

-gentle stroking and cupping of my balls.  A lot of guys seem to ignore that area, unfortunately.

[+ Just966]

Love the feel of a guys beard slowly being rubbed up my crack and back followed by his body

[kniff]

A local (Chicago) provider has shoulder length hair and he starts each session with brushing his hair up and down the body (backside) and then again when I turn over to to brush the front - exhilarating and erotic. 

[KrisParr]

My “go to”  masseur guy always met me at the door in a jock, a smile, and a long, deep throat kiss. Bam! Every fucking time.

[pubic_assistance]

When a masseur works my glutes, spreads my legs a bit so he can get in around the taint, and casually caresses some lube across my asshole. Like @Nightowl said...I'm not a bottom...but the teasing gets me going.

Once I'm hard from the teasing..it's hot when they notice and adjust my cock so it's pulled out between my legs instead of tucked under my abdomen.

I'm already hard just typing this..🤣

[Nightowl]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

When a masseur works my glutes, spreads my legs a bit so he can get in around the taint, and casually caresses some lube across my asshole. Like @Nightowl said...I'm not a bottom...but the teasing gets me going.

Once I'm hard from the teasing..it's hot when they notice and adjust my cock so it's pulled out between my legs instead of tucked under my abdomen.

I'm already hard just typing this..🤣

So am I

[DunwoodyGuy]

On 1/25/2025 at 2:13 PM, pubic_assistance said:

I'm already hard just typing this..🤣

I'm already hard just reading it!

[polo20j]

bumping, this is such a hot thread!

[MuscleDaddyRWC]

There used to be a provider near me that, after massaging down my glutes,  would slide the entire side of his hand across my asshole and up through my crack.  It was so much more sensuous to me than having my asshole fingered.

[Gilfson]

9 minutes ago, MuscleDaddyRWC said:

There used to be a provider near me that, after massaging down my glutes,  would slide the entire side of his hand across my asshole and up through my crack.  It was so much more sensuous to me than having my asshole fingered.

If that’s you in your pic then I can see why he did your sexy🤤

[harlow]

On 1/22/2025 at 6:30 PM, big-n-tall said:

A few things... usually when they touch or rub around my lower back... can set me off. Also if they start rubbing their faces against mine. The other thing that not everybody does, is when they use their whole body to massage me... gliding from the top down and I can feel their dick slide between my ass cheeks as they slide down.

One guy drives me nuts just by a look. Usually when I'm already aroused and he would flip me over, he'd get this glimmer in his eye, smile devilishly, growl, and start touching my erection. Soon as he does this if he wasn't already erect, it usually made him hard instantly. A shame he is retired/on hiatus.

 

On 1/23/2025 at 4:33 AM, Just Chuck said:

• When they brush their hands over my inner thigh.
• If they reach under my pelvis and caress either my balls or cock , just as a teaser or preview, while I'm lying face down.
• Body contact.  I've had a couple of massages from masters of body contact who would always position themselves to be working across and on the opposite side of my body from wherever they were positioned so they were in contact with me almost the entire time.
• If they spend some time massaging my glutes and apply the oil or lotion between my cheeks.  Some of the best even just spend some time with fingers just teasing around the edge of my hole without making entry or just making very gentle entry.  
• Gently drawing the tips of their fingernails across the underside of my scrotum and up across my taint.
• If I'm lying with my head face-down in a massage table's face cradle, standing naked above my head as they work my neck and shoulders so I watch their legs and cock while they work.
• If they straddle one of my thighs as they work on my back.
• If they slide their cock between my asscheeks with body contact.

YES! YES! YES!  All of this!!!!!