Ali Gator Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 On 11/21/2024 at 8:47 PM, PhileasFogg said: Yes, Ellen and Portia are heading to England. Can’t wait for Whoopi, Joy, and Sunny to follow. Beyond that, nada. You missed the show this past week where these hosts had this discussion. As Whoopi pointed out - we are in a 'fight or flight' mode since November 5, and she (as well as the others) are opting to stay and fight for our country, and encourages everyone to do the same. As one host said, 'Why should anyone leave their country ? You stay and fight the wrong for what is right.' I believe they were discussing Eva Longoria who moved to Mexico and Spain this summer (she owns homes in both countries) and has rented out her American homes. Longoria said it had nothing to do with politics, but quality of life and business opportunities for her.
Ali Gator Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 This was rather interesting to read: This couple plan to return to the US after their dream life in France became a ‘nightmare’ | CNN WWW.CNN.COM They moved to France from San Francisco and planned to spend the rest of their lives there. But just 12 months later, Joanna McIsaac-Kierklo and her...
+ sniper Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 I have a mtf trans acquaintance who moved to Canada with her wife and children last year over the climate here.
BSR Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 (edited) 33 minutes ago, Ali Gator said: This was rather interesting to read: This couple plan to return to the US after their dream life in France became a ‘nightmare’ | CNN WWW.CNN.COM They moved to France from San Francisco and planned to spend the rest of their lives there. But just 12 months later, Joanna McIsaac-Kierklo and her... What struck me most about this couple's expat (mis)adventure is that they never bothered to become fluent in French yet were frustrated that they weren't able to make friends or adapt to the French way of doing things. DUH! What the hell did they expect? Edited November 23, 2024 by BSR Typo, wording thomas, + Vegas_Millennial, + Charlie and 3 others 1 4 1
+ José Soplanucas Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 (edited) 1 hour ago, BSR said: What struck me most about why this couple's expat adventure is that they never bothered to become fluent in French yet were frustrated that they weren't able to make friends or adapt to the French way of doing things. DUH! What the hell did they expect? This is quite typical, mostly with entitled US natives. I am currently planning for an "expat" life, I would never consider a destination where I would not be able to integrate with the locals. I could live for a long period of time in the Americas and in most of Europe, and perhaps in a few African countries where English is the first or second language. That's it. I could visit any place, but my possibilities to integrate are constrained to those regions. Edited November 23, 2024 by José Soplanucas thomas, CuriousByNature and rvwnsd 3
CuriousByNature Posted November 23, 2024 Posted November 23, 2024 (edited) 2 hours ago, José Soplanucas said: This is quite typical, mostly with entitled US natives. I am currently planning for an "expat" life, I would never consider a destination where I would not be able to integrate with the locals. I could live for a long period of time in the Americas and in most of Europe, and perhaps in a few African countries where English is the first or second language. That's it. I could visit any place, but my possibilities to integrate are constrained to those regions. 100% agree. If someone is moving away they shouldn't expect to replicate the life they have left behind. I think it's incredibly rude to move somewhere and expect others to adjust themselves for your comfort - but that seems to be the attitude of entitled people. The expectation that local people should be able to provide services to an expat in English is ridiculous, yet many people have that expectation when they move to non-English-speaking countries. And even when language is not a barrier, other cultural differences need to be respected. It will be interesting to see how long Ellen can manage living in the UK, since British society is not as focussed on individual freedoms compared to American society. It may not be as easy a transition as expected, but when you are worth hundreds of millions of dollars I suppose she doesn't need to care about integrating. For myself, there aren't a lot of countries I could realistically relocate to because I am only fluent in English - but if I did move to a non-English-speaking country, I would make every effort to learn the language and customs of the local population - even if it was a country like the Netherlands or Denmark, where the majority of people can speak English as their second or even third language. Edited November 23, 2024 by CuriousByNature thomas, + Charlie, + sync and 1 other 2 2
+ PhileasFogg Posted November 24, 2024 Posted November 24, 2024 8 hours ago, marylander1940 said: …because of the new circumstance… I’m beginning to wonder what exactly the feared “new circumstance” is when I see, nothwithstanding a couple of silly choices, the number of women, and even a married gay man, are being put up for influential roles. I’m not espousing a position since if one of us has something to fear, then we all do. But I’m wondering if some of these hyped high profile departures doth protest too much. + Vegas_Millennial 1
+ José Soplanucas Posted November 24, 2024 Posted November 24, 2024 13 hours ago, CuriousByNature said: I think it's incredibly rude to move somewhere and expect others to adjust themselves for your comfort - but that seems to be the attitude of entitled people. Rude, entitled, and unbelievably stupid. thomas 1
marylander1940 Posted November 24, 2024 Posted November 24, 2024 3 hours ago, José Soplanucas said: Rude, entitled, and unbelievably stupid. Unfortunately some give a pass to a certain religious group and think they need time.
+ Charlie Posted November 24, 2024 Posted November 24, 2024 Having been an ex-pat myself at one time, I think the distinction is that an immigrant normally moves to another country with the expectation of staying there and becoming a citizen of that country, whereas an ex-pat normally intends to retain his original citizenship even while living in another country. + Vegas_Millennial, MikeBiDude and rvwnsd 1 1 1
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