De-sensitized strippers, models, escorts

[+ friendofsheila]

I saw the documentary "All Male, All Nude".  ONe stripper said that when he went to bed with his girlfriend, he didn't awalways get an erection right away.  He thought it was becuase he was always around skin and rubbing flesh in his job.

That's the first time I'd ever heard aof that, of a stripper (or escort or model or something) being desensitized to being  aroused.  Have you heard anythign like that before?
 

Edited July 17, 2024 by friendofsheila

[Johnrom]

Simple Overstimulation. If you worked in a candy shop all day long, if someone offered you a chocolate bar in the evening you would probably be much less interested in it.  

[+ purplekow]

Maybe he needed to lie down next to his boyfriend.  

[CuriousByNature]

12 hours ago, Johnrom said:

Simple Overstimulation. If you worked in a candy shop all day long, if someone offered you a chocolate bar in the evening you would probably be much less interested in it.  

I should get a job in a candy shop.

[pubic_assistance]

12 hours ago, purplekow said:

Maybe he needed to lie down next to his boyfriend.  

Actually I knew a male dancer who identified as (mostly) straight.

He also suffered from over stimulation from his job.

So he would seek out sexual extremes/ dangerous sex and sex with men even though he claimed to not fully be homosexually inclined. "Normal" sex wasn't working for him always so the occasional extreme situation helped him gain a mental fantasy catalogue that he could pull from when engaging in same-old-same-old romantic encounters with his girlfriend. Don't know what happened to him over the years. But I do remember him sucking my cock and swallowing my load at a birthday party with 50 people in the room next to us.

[+ purplekow]

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Actually I knew a male dancer who identified as (mostly) straight.

He also suffered from over stimulation from his job.

So he would seek out sexual extremes/ dangerous sex and sex with men even though he claimed to not fully be homosexually inclined. "Normal" sex wasn't working for him always so the occasional extreme situation helped him gain a mental fantasy catalogue that he could pull from when engaging in same-old-same-old romantic encounters with his girlfriend. Don't know what happened to him over the years. But I do remember him sucking my cock and swallowing my load at a birthday party with 50 people in the room next to us.

Gives a new meaning for someone to blow the candle.  Did the group sing Happy  Birthday before he went down or perhaps He is a Jolly Good Fellow?