I have a luxury problem

[TonyDown]

Sounds like a script for a comedy at the Geffen.  The wheelchair character, the hot butler and so on.

Reminds me why I stay in Cali during the holidays instead of flying 1000 miles to be with family.

Edited May 16 by TonyDown

[viewing ownly]

1 hour ago, soloyo215 said:

Well, considering that I am half Dominican, I think that you should check your American self-serving shit before insulting a country that chances are you've never been to. So feel free to stop talking out of your ass and go fuck yourself, asshole.

Nobody's asking for it.

Stop right there, not worth addressing so many erroneous presumptions about my or my husband's family, nor my vacations, my traveling, nothing.

Thank you. BTW, my in-laws are normally lovely people. just not great travel companions. They have thrown surprise birthday parties for me, they have been there when my husband has been sick or when I've been sick, we get together for Easter, Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc, and as I said before, they get along among themselves much better than my own family. Also one of them does have a disability that affects her cognition. They're just not the best people to vacation with.

Here are a few pictures of the "shithole" where I'm staying.

Glad to see that she went from complaining about walking to get a wheelchair ride to being a supreme diva in front of her demanded pink rental car!

[Thelatin]

7 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

You're judging someone else for having sex on an escort message board dedicated to these very discussions?

100% - I have zero problem judging.  Especially as I'm the same way, like that vacation booty. 

[edinbrooklyn]

18 hours ago, nycman said:

 

My advice? Be insanely nice, calm, and friendly with the husband’s family.
They are all just waiting for you to be a C-unt. Don’t give them the satisfaction.
Swallow your pride, dignity and self worth until you are safely out of there.
Chalk it up to a "lesson learned". Do NOT bring it up with your husband…..
He’s just waiting for you to be a C-unt. Don’t give him the satisfaction.

Smile until it feels like your face will break, then smile some more.
Drink the shitty "all inclusive wine" and try not to choke. 

Then schedule the trip of your dreams when you get home.
Give it to your husband as a gift. If he has any intelligence at all, he’ll get the drift.

Great advice. But I’d try to avoid being in the situation to begin with. There are truly toxic people who get off on that at some level, for some reason. I don’t share my travel plans with my siblings. We’ll meet for a dinner because I’m “passing through.” I’ll have a very stiff drink beforehand. Many of these meets are part of a “business trip.” Theatre and the opera are great ways not to have to talk with the wretches. Avoid, control and minimize.

[+ DynamicUno]

This vacation sounds like the perfect setting for one of those locked-room murder mystery movies, the OP can decide which of the in-laws plays the corpse. Perferably Daniel Craig reprises the lead role as Benoit Blanc again (Knives Out).

[soloyo215]

For those who care, an update:

I didn't get Malaria, no murders, and no nightmare stays, no kidnapping, no terrorist attacks, no paying bribes (if that's how you think things are there). Knowing what I know about how things are in countries like this (not my first time), all I had to do was look closer and trust my gay inctinct to find what I wanted.

First, the sex part of the vacation is just one piece of it. So are the annoying traveling habits of my inlaws. The rest was quite enjoyable. The resort has an amazing spa, one of the best facilities I've seen, but sadly with female-only staff. The event of using those facilities was amazing, had all the bells and whistles oand a great pampering.

Outside the resort there is this mini-mall type of place where they have merchandise for sale, eateries, a bank, etc. They have a barber shop, so I went to treat myself with a haircut. I ended treating myself with the barber too. Lovely gentleman with a beautiful smile, classic dominican charm and sexy as hell. Had a great time with him.

As for my inlaws, my oldest sister in-law did the same thing I did, which was to explore on my own, step outside of the resort and go on by myself.

All in all, this is not my preferred type of vacation, but considering that this is already the third time that I travel this year, and that there are two more trips coming, I don't see a burden in one vavacation where some of my loved ones want to share, even if they are bad travelers. My hypocondriac sister in law kept up with the act all the way through, but she became the burden of our assigned butler, definitely not mine nor my husband's. My disabled sister in law found her way of having fun by the pool playing games with the staff in charge of the activities for guests.

The rest, I just don't have to justify myself to anyone. Next year I'm going to Santo Domingo, though for a specific purpose and with one of my brothers.

[soloyo215]

On 5/16/2024 at 12:27 AM, TonyDown said:

Sounds like a script for a comedy at the Geffen.  The wheelchair character, the hot butler and so on.

Reminds me why I stay in Cali during the holidays instead of flying 1000 miles to be with family.

If she looked like those girls, I'm sure the Butler would have carried her personally.