Providers not responding to inquiries

[NJF]

1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

Let's see if I  can remember this one chat dialogue:

 

Me: Hi <escort name>, I saw your ad on RentMen. Call me <my name>. Are you available this evening for a 1 or 2 hour outcall?

Escort: Hi

Me: Are you working tonight?

Escort: Hey

Me: Never mind....

You are either dealing with a bot or a foreigner who doesn’t know English 😂 . Or he may be too high

[Archangel]

4 hours ago, Archangel said:

I agree with you.

It’s good to remember that it’s a business, on both sides. Too many Clients can get personally attached to Providers as well. That’s a bit further along than the opening line of the exchange though. But it’s true. Some Clients seem to forget that, although respect for each other as persons is obvious, it isn’t a friendship or “relationship.” It’s a business, which is a relationship, but not like that.

The best Client-Provider relationship is one that can feel like a friendship or “relationship” but maintains the boundaries of business. 

Let me also say…a lot of Providers, especially the younger guys, seem to forget that they’re in a service profession, that they’re the “servant,” and Clients don’t exist to be their sexual slush funds.

Mutual respect and healthy understanding of boundaries is paramount! 

[Archangel]

On 4/28/2024 at 1:06 PM, NJF said:

Take the cue and move on 😂 

That’s what I said I do. 😉 

[jeezifonly]

It’s like a producer once said about box office slumps, “If they really want to not come see it, you can’t stop ‘em”

 

 

 

[buckguy]

For me, the non-response is cyclical, but it's always more common among younger guys, who are much more likely to lack life experience that helps in running a service business.

 

Sometimes you get a response, but it's delayed. Someone whose generally gotten a good reception was visiting, so I reached out early because I was only going to be here one day during his visit. No response---then on the day I'd requested, I get messaged in the afternoon saying he was available that day and the next--perhaps he thought plans might change, but by that point I was busy getting ready for my trip. There are other guys who will say yeah. sure but nail down a time, then pop-up when they're available. There have always been a few providers considered by some to be special enough for that kind of scheduling. Not for me, though.