It's Me... Hi, I'm the Problem It's Me!

[+ MysticMenace]

There's 2 main sections in the forum where the community reviews and provides feedback on masseurs and escorts. This thread is to discuss your retrospective review of how you have been a great or horrible client (back in the day). Hopefully, community members new to hiring can learn from us on what or what not to do when hiring.

 

[+ José Soplanucas]

I love your idea.

In the US, when I was giving my first steps, I used to contact until 5 escorts at the same time and negotiate contract simultaneously, to take only the one more convenient for me.

As a traveler, until very recently, I used to take photos of saunas GPs in Brazil. I would not trick them, I would offer them money and honestly tell them what the pictures were for. However, I have learned that they always take the offer without really realizing what they are doing. I have been doing this as recently as my previous trip to Rio. Not any more. I should have learned this a long time ago, but I have been an entitled selfish asshole, thinking only of the clicks in my blog and social media. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 4/18/2024 at 10:48 PM, MysticMenace said:

Hopefully, community members new to hiring can learn from us on what or what not to do when hiring.

When hiring a masseur who you think may be available for extras. Hire for an erotic massage and let them do their thing. Tip well and then inquire about extras on the NEXT visit.

Masseurs appreciate a regular customer and are more inclined to take it up a notch for a gentleman who is a good tipper and a nice person.

[LaffingBear]

I was not an easy client for the screening and arranging process.   I asked ALOT  of questions.   Screened for very specific things.  I have no doubt that many, perhaps a majority, of rentguys decided that I wasn't worth the effort; it was worth it to me to not arrive and have a hassle.  I may have missed out on some potentially excellent experiences.  

Examples: I informed guys that I was experienced.  That if they didn't match their pictures, we wouldn't continue.  And, I walked away from several sessions for a variety of reasons.  I've written this before; I'm just wired to go to great lengths to not feel taken advantage of, duped, or cheated.  And to not feel victimized. 

I'm still shocked when I read "I knew it was a problem when he arrived... but I continued.  It was bad."

All things considered, I'd say I was a pain in the ass during arrangements.  However, I don't have many negative reviews of sessions that went the scheduled time; I can't think of anyone I spent 60 minutes or more with that was an unpleasant experience. 

And nowadays, I'd be even worse.  I travel.  Until 2023, I'd look, go through rent men.  But one by one, I'd find reasons to eliminate one person after another.   So the Ah hah moment is exactly as this thread is titled: It's me, I'm the problem.  Or at least, I'm the issue - my head is simply not in the right place to be hiring, and I'm too old and experienced to let my crotch force a mistake.