Longer session clients are golden…wish there was more

[pubic_assistance]

2 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I'll be confident that any provider who’s done this work for any decent length of time will say the same. Client looks is irrelevant. Client behaviour is what matters. 

As I stated before...it's all theatre.

For example if an escort can't get a hard-on...then neither can I.  So you'd better tank up on Viagra if you can't actually get into the session. I'm not SO old and I'm still in pretty good shape for my age...but I'm aware none of these super hot guys would hit me up in Grindr for a freebie.

I suppose the more a provider is an actor the more likely a Lonely-Lenny will hire him just to hang out after he gets off.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

16 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Based on what he has shared with us we know he's in great shape and masculine. Certainly, a DILF! I think what he's trying to say is that he'd rather hire guys who are very hot by conventional standards like Instagram models, jocks, etc. 

Well, I could claim that I'm a dead ringer for Jacob Elordi and all you have to go on is my word. "Conventional standards" for what passes as hot - particularly Insta models - are actually guys who are taking steroids, HGH, and have eating disorders. Over the past 20 years, men have begun to show disordered eating and body dysmorphia at rates comparable to women. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

8 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

That’s it, from someone @Jarrod_Uncutwho knows. Ask most guys who do sex work and they’ll say similar. It’s got nothing to do with looks or whether the client is ‘hot’ (however that’s defined, here I’m using it conventionally as in someone most people would say is attractive) or not. 

I get hired by all sorts of guys, old, young, large, small, able bodied, disabled, hot and not hot. In most instances I don’t know until they walk the door. If they’re attracted by me (and they’ve seen my advert, my pics, read about me etc so I’m assuming there’s at least a superficial attraction otherwise they wouldn’t be here) then that’s a turn on for me. If they become more turned on during the session, by what I’m doing then that’s even more of a turn on. And so the more fun they have with me the better it is.

While I'm conventionally attractive (not super-hot) for my age, the providers who I most enjoy bring the energy and generosity that @Jamie21 and @Jarrod_Uncut both espouse. I went for a massage yesterday, and the provider was much more attractive than his photos, which were just cute. The session went much further than a typical sensual massage because we had chemistry. Sexual chemistry is much more than appearance. It's pheromones, voice, personality, and countless other factors. We had a nice chat before and at the beginning of the massage. Afterward, we talked about how far it went, and he said he's attracted to older guys and what we liked about each other from our conversation and interaction. This was not romantic, but it was enjoyable for both of us.  

For me, if clients hire only "10s" who are likely obsessed with appearance and also go in thinking, "A guy that looks like this would never fuck me," then that will be your experience. If you hire attractive guys who also enjoy their work, love providing pleasure and find a variety of types attractive, your experience will be different.

[marylander1940]

30 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Well, I could claim that I'm a dead ringer for Jacob Elordi and all you have to go on is my word. "Conventional standards" for what passes as hot - particularly Insta models - are actually guys who are taking steroids, HGH, and have eating disorders. Over the past 20 years, men have begun to show disordered eating and body dysmorphia at rates comparable to women. 

Do you consider obesity is caused by an eating disorder? 

Elordi has a cute face but he's too slim for my taste. 

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

As I stated before...it's all theatre.

For example if an escort can't get a hard-on...then neither can I.  So you'd better tank up on Viagra if you can't actually get into the session. I'm not SO old and I'm still in pretty good shape for my age...but I'm aware none of these super hot guys would hit me up in Grindr for a freebie.

I suppose the more a provider is an actor the more likely a Lonely-Lenny will hire him just to hang out after he gets off.

Providers always enjoy meeting someone in great shape! I know young folks who could easily get laid on Grindr but with all the flakiness they prefer to just hire and get what they want whenever they want. No drama! 

Edited March 29 by marylander1940

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 minute ago, marylander1940 said:

do you consider obesity to be a form of body dysmorphia? 

Elordi has a cute face but he's too slim for my taste. 

I consider obesity to be a public health issue resulting from a combination of agricultural policy, which has made inexpensive food extraordinarily calorie dense, and disordered (over) eating due to stress, lack of exercise, and chemicals put in food to make them addictive. Treating obesity as a personal failing is ahistorical, as we've seen rates skyrocket along with changes in work, food policy, closure of public space for exercise and recreation and - most importantly - Western governments disciplining labor so most people are doing far worse than their parents.