Low Key Escorts

[Roger Smith]

I’ve had a lot of luck low key approaching hot guys on social media and hiring them for sex.  It’s surprising how many guys out there don’t have a rent men profile but are willing to be hired for sex.  Something about it feels a little less businesslike and a bit more of a low key financial arrangement between men. 

Wondering if this might be a space where we can direct each other to those kinds of guys?

Speaking specifically about New York City but I’m sure they’re everywhere 

[Roger Smith]

Not sure if this is the right forum to ask this but I’ll give it a shot…

I’ve had a lot of luck low key approaching hot guys on social media and hiring them for sex.  It’s surprising how many guys out there don’t have a rent men profile but are willing to be hired for sex.  Something about it feels a little less businesslike and a bit more of a low key financial arrangement between men. 

Wondering if this might be a space where we can direct each other to those kinds of guys
 

Speaking specifically about New York City but I’m sure they’re everywhere 

 

[soloyo215]

This might belong in the "questions about hiring" section.

Just my thoughts and nothing more: that's kind of like the good old fashion way of approaching men for hire. I don't think that that's new. Rentmen provides the convenience of the lower risk of getting arrested for soliciting or getting catfished, as well as reviews that might or might not be useful.

Reaching out to men in other social media settings is not uncommon (in my opinion).

[Wozgau]

Can you share who you've had luck with?

[Roger Smith]

2 minutes ago, Wozgau said:

Can you share who you've had luck with?

Yeah, a nude model I found on Adonismale named Damian.  I managed to connect to his Instagram and just stared chatting him. 

[soloyo215]

7 minutes ago, Roger Smith said:

Yeah, a nude model I found on Adonismale named Damian.  I managed to connect to his Instagram and just stared chatting him. 

In that case, what I posted might not apply if it's not mainstream social media.

[+ DrownedBoy]

I'd be happy to.

I never hired off Grindr, but during my vacation in Rural Wisconsin I've encountered several young men who go under that pretense,  especially twinks who are "into guys in their 40s and 50s."

It makes for interesting conversation. After I turned down a twink because he was obviously a hustler, we ended up speaking about business, and he claimed to have made 20K on Grindr.

Another guy had a really good technique of acting like he was in a hurry to come over, then at the last minute asking for gas money via an.app. I complimented his skills (EDIT after calling him on the obvious scam), and we ended up having a humorous discussion on how easy some Grindr men are, and how Grindr tries to stop it.

Fun conversations,  but I'd prefer someone who'd come over. Grindr has become stricter. You can't even use the word "roses" in your profile,  let alone "sugar daddy," "generous," etc.

Edited October 6, 2023 by DrownedBoy

[Roger Smith]

Just now, soloyo215 said:

In that case, what I posted might not apply if it's not mainstream social media.

Well, to be fair I found him on a non mainstream site.  Someone had posted his images there.  Then I chatted him on Instagram, very mainstream 

[+ keroscenefire]

I had luck once with a local OnlyFans guy. Rent.Men can be expensive and a lot to deal with on the escort's side so I think some guys get off it every once in a while and just focus on existing clients and OnlyFans. But if you reach out through the right platforms, they definitely can be down.

[+ DrownedBoy]

When looking on social media, my biggest problem is finding out if they escort while avoiding insulting people or getting scammed. Between Scylla and Charybdis.

[Roger Smith]

Yeah I was perusing nude models on Adonismale.   Found one I recognized, found him on Instagram, started chatting from there.  Turns out he was very happy to be a bottom for rent.  
 

Serendipitous for me! 

[Roger Smith]

10 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

When looking on social media, my biggest problem is finding out if they escort while avoiding insulting people or getting scammed. Between Scylla and Charybdis.

Yeah, which is why it seemed nice to compare notes on guys we’ve encountered other places who are open to it. 

[Roger Smith]

16 minutes ago, keroscenefire said:

I had luck once with a local OnlyFans guy. Rent.Men can be expensive and a lot to deal with on the escort's side so I think some guys get off it every once in a while and just focus on existing clients and OnlyFans. But if you reach out through the right platforms, they definitely can be down.

Yeah this was the situation with the guy I found.  He had a stable of regulars so he got off rentmen.   But then was looking to add new clients, and restarting rent men seemed too much of a hurdle. 

[Roger Smith]

https://www.adonismale.com/gallery/album/60398-damian-effler/

Had excellent luck with this 

[Muscleaddict333]

A few of Those Thunder arenas guys are open to escort arrangements! You just have to be discreet and kind of patient! If that turns you on I’d also hit up some of those bodybuilders from the South and Midwest that aren’t that popular… please don’t ask me for names, sorry🤕

[Marc in Calif]

2 hours ago, Roger Smith said:

I’ve had a lot of luck low key approaching hot guys on social media and hiring them for sex.  

Be careful about using the phrase "social media." To most of us, that implies Facebook, Instagram, X/Twitter, and other apps. It would be against the forum rules to disclose someone's social media account.

If you approached a guy on AdonisMale, that is not social media! They're already kinda in "the business," and they're public figures who are searchable.

[Roger Smith]

Just now, Marc in Calif said:

Be careful about using the phrase "social media." To most of us, that implies Facebook, Instagram, X/Twitter, and other apps. It would be against the forum rules to disclose someone's social media account.

If you approached a guy on AdonisMale, that is not social media! They're already kinda in "the business," and they're public figures who are searchable.

Good note!

[Roger Smith]

13 minutes ago, Roger Smith said:

Good note!

And to be fair, I didn’t approach him on Adonismale.  Cause I don’t think he actually owns that page.  (I don’t think there are many actual models on Adonismale.)  

I did my homework about finding him, and I approached cautiously and respectfully 

[pubic_assistance]

I have met several young men via Twitter after leaving a "hungry" message on their thirst-trap postings.

Comments like: "What I wouldn't give to be inside that amazing ass" are often followed up with a private message asking "and what WOULD you give ?

I hooked up with a couple OnlyFans models this way. None of them have an escort listing anywhere. But I figure if they're getting fucked on camera they aren't shy about sex..so doesnt hurt to flirt.

[MikeBiDude]

I merged @Roger Smith's duplicate posting from the Deli to here. No need to double post same topic.

Also a gentle warning as @Marc in Calif wisely mentions above, let's not post social media links that provide personal information. I quote the rule below:

7.     No personal information may be posted about other posters, escorts, and/or masseurs. This includes all information that does or could identify a person, including photographs, links to social media, or specific information such as addresses and phone numbers.

[+ keroscenefire]

Definitely don't post social media. Does that include OnlyFans type accounts if they don't have a RentMen account? I'm fine either way, just curious about that as some guys do have the Twitter/OnlyFans combo that kinda connect to each other.

[+ DrownedBoy]

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I have met several young men via Twitter after leaving a "hungry" message on their thirst-trap postings.

Comments like: "What I wouldn't give to be inside that amazing ass" are often followed up with a private message asking "and what WOULD you give ?

Good advice.  I'll try that .

[ericwinters]

41 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Good advice.  I'll try that .

I'm clueless. What's a thirst trap? 🤔 😆 

[+ jessmapex]

"Generous" , "G4P" (gay for pay) were the codewords that connected amateur providers with clients on Craigslist personals. We need to come up with and popularize new codewords to use on the new media and help break Rentmen's monopoly.

Any suggestions?

Edited October 6, 2023 by jessmapex

[ICTJOCK]

Sounds like an intriguing business arrangement!