411 on MaxME in SF/LA/NYC

[Tay]

Has anyone met him lately 

[Oakman]

On 12/1/2023 at 2:43 PM, dan631 said:

I can believe this. When I met him recently we didn’t really do much. But maybe he wasn’t attracted to me, or maybe he’s had so many bad experiences with clients that he viewed me as another number. I did ask him if he liked what he does for a living, he said he gets paid well. When I said I was asking about the work and guys he meets, not the money, he paused, grimaced at me, then changed the subject.

I’ve met multiple escorts who’ve said that they’ve fallen out of love with their line of work because of abuse or rudeness when meeting clients; clients who ask for one thing beforehand and want something totally different upon meeting; men who reach out to make plans only to never show up/constantly postpone/give them the wrong address/block after making plans. I met another escort recently and we got along well and I asked how his work was and how busy he’d been; he told me that last month in October he had about 40 guys reach out to him. Of those, 32 seemed serious because they kept texting him and made plans. But most of them ended up ghosting or blocking him out of nowhere. He said he only ended up meeting five guys. I can’t imagine putting so much time into meeting so many guys only for most of them to not be serious. Maybe that’s why Max, and most escorts I’ve met, have been so mechanical and jaded. I do wish him the best.

He would probably have a much easier time communicating efficiently if whatever it is he’s selling wasn’t such a goddamn mystery. His profile is basically “I’m hot, I want you to pay a premium and a deposit, and I’m not going to tell you what you’ll get for that because I’m ‘discrete.’” I’d fork over $500 if I thought he was dynamite in the sack, but it sounds like the fee is just to look at him in person. Hard pass. 

[CAdude34]

Bump… any recent experiences?

[+ azdr0710]

Clients are evidently honoring his discretion request. Good for them and good for him!

[Jeeper84]

I met MaxME a little over a week ago in Los Angeles.  This is how it went:  I contacted him via text and he was pretty responsive.  I was upfront about what I was looking for and he was cool with it.  I asked him a few times how much he charges for his time and he always seemed to dodge the question.  Finally the day came for us to meet at an agreed upon time.  I texted that morning to confirm and he said he had other plans at the prescribed time and could I shift the time?  I explained that I was unable to do so, so he then agreed to the original time.  He then asked me if I knew the fee for his time (I felt like saying, "No because every time I ask you don't tell me," but I let it slide.  He quoted me a price of $1000.  I promptly told him that that was more than I was looking to spend.  He asked how much I was prepared to spend and I told him as much as $500.  He promptly agreed to it and then asked if I would add $60 for his travel cost.  Stupidly, I agreed.  He arrived right on time and I will say unequivocally that he is breathtaking.  Very tall, really handsome, and a flawless, muscled physique.  The experience itself sucked.  He was quite robotic and detached.  I actually had to imagine I was with someone else to get myself off.  It was awful.  He has a ton of great reviews on RM and a lot of positive commentary here as well so I am willing to accept that maybe I was the problem (although I'm not bad to look at and I know my way around a bedroom)... but it was definitely not a good experience... markedly worse that any I've had.  Fortunately, I rebounded and met up with a Colombian guy who goes by Salomonn on RMasseur: PHEE-nomenal experience and a great guy to hang with... and a body of death that he was all to happy to share with me.  He has a RMen  profile under the name YourFav.https://rent.men/YOURFAV

[Newtdad]

On 3/18/2024 at 9:03 PM, Mercfan said:

The experience itself sucked.  He was quite robotic and detached.  I actually had to imagine I was with someone else to get myself off.  It was awful.  He has a ton of great reviews on RM and a lot of positive commentary here as well so I am willing to accept that maybe I was the problem (although I'm not bad to look at and I know my way around a bedroom)... but it was definitely not a good experience... markedly worse that any I've had. 

It was never about how you look or how you are in the bedroom. We are hiring these guys to do work for us. They're doing this as their job, and they only have one job: that is to "provide" sexual services. They are "sex providers". This guy sadly chose not to do the job properly when he was with you.

[traveling]

Stunning and okay guy and just okay experience.  Would not repeat.  Pretty good top.  Once I came, he was ready to leave well before the end of the one hour.  

[guru68]

It sounds like a lot of varying mileage.

[Newtdad]

11 hours ago, traveling said:

Stunning and okay guy and just okay experience.  Would not repeat.  Pretty good top.  Once I came, he was ready to leave well before the end of the one hour.  

What if you wanted Round 2 while still have the extra time?

[traveling]

37 minutes ago, newdad said:

What if you wanted Round 2 while still have the extra time?

He was ready to go…. felt his job was completed.  

[guru68]

Maybe he was double-booked and needed to get going.

[traveling]

12 minutes ago, guru68 said:

Maybe he was double-booked and needed to get going.

I don’t think so.  He seemed to feel his job was done.

Edited March 23, 2024 by traveling

[traveling]

Most of my experiences with escorts are great…. This one was okay.  

[Rod Hagen]

On 3/22/2024 at 7:52 AM, newdad said:

...they only have one job: that is to "provide" sexual services. They are "sex providers". 

Two things are true, based on an apparently honestly reported account, MaxME in SF/LA/NYC behaved poorly. 

Also, NewDad, you are being reductive and we're not your fucking slave.   Good people have requests and expectations.  Assholes have demands.

Edited March 26, 2024 by Rod Hagen

[LA90046]

Looks like someone is using his pic to cat fish on Scruff.

Beware!

[Newtdad]

8 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Two things are true, based on an apparently honestly reported account, MaxME in SF/LA/NYC behaved poorly. 

Also, NewDad, you are being reductive and we're not your fucking slave.   Good people have requests and expectations.  Assholes have demands.

You are not slaves because Slaves do not get paid and they are doing the work unwillingly.

On the other hand, you are doing the work on your own free will and are getting paid, so it's not slavery (unless it involves human trafficking, which is a different story).

Anyway, I was pointing out that the this entire thing is a business transaction. Escorts provide a service, and clients pay them in return. It's literally the same relationship you have with a barber, a gardener, or a cellphone company. If you're unhappy with the provided service, take your business to a different provider

Edited March 27, 2024 by newdad

[acks0104]

On 3/18/2024 at 7:03 PM, Mercfan said:

I met MaxME a little over a week ago in Los Angeles.  

He had a negative review on RM a few months back, but my guess is that he complained about it to RM and was able to get it taken down. It basically gave a similar account to yours where he was hot but just kind of middling and not really into it. Thank you for sharing so others can know.

[Rod Hagen]

17 hours ago, newdad said:

You are not slaves because Slaves do not get paid and they are doing the work unwillingly.

Fine then, wise-ass, indentured servant. 

You know this is not a standard business, that this is not the same as hanging Sheet-rock, right?  That the person your gagging with your cock is an actual person and the intimacy that the job entails makes both of you, not just you, vulnerable and insecure, right?  Be kind.  Be gentle in how you talk about us.

After all, how would you feel if your son were an escort and people talked about him in the same, entitled, you-will-do-what-I demand tone you seem to prefer because it's "a job"?

Edited March 27, 2024 by Rod Hagen

[Newtdad]

8 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

Fine then, wise-ass, indentured servant. 

You know this is not a standard business, that this is not the same as hanging Sheet-rock, right?  That the person your gagging with your cock is an actual person and the intimacy that the job entails makes both of you, not just you, vulnerable and insecure, right?  Be kind.  Be gentle in how you talk about us.

After all, how would you feel if your son were an escort and people talked about him in the same, entitled, you-will-do-what-I demand tone you seem to prefer because it's "a job"?

1) I had look up the definition of your chosen term, so I do not confuse it with other political terms: "An indentured servant refers to an individual who entered into a labor contract, known as an indenture, typically for a specified period, in exchange for transportation, food, lodging, and other necessities. This practice was prevalent during colonial times and into the early years of American history, particularly during the 17th and 18th centuries."

I don't think escorts are like that because you're not in a labor contract, which is known as indenture. Like I said above, the escort-client relationship is a business relationship similar to a barber-customer relationship. Either party (whether client or provider) can have requests/demands. And if the other party is not willing to to meet these demand/requests, they should take their business elsewhere.

 

2) It is not a standard business, but it is still a business because there's money involved. One definition of business is exchanged of goods (eg, money) for services (eg., sex). I guess, you can call it sex business. I understand that there's intimacy involved in escorting because you're literally emotionally trusting someone to put their cock in you (or vice versa).  However, escorting is not the only business that involves "intimacy". Have you seen someone go surgery? The patient has to literally trust the surgeon and anesthesiology to the fullest because the patient will be put to sleep and then receive incisions. It can't be anymore "intimate" than that. And guess what? Surgery is still a business when it's all said and done.

 

3) If my son is an escort and he's not comfortable performing the requirements of the client, I will tell my son to find other customers that are a better match for what my son has to offer. It's a free market.

Edited March 27, 2024 by newdad

[Rod Hagen]

Just now, newdad said:

I had look up the definition of your chose term, so I do not confuse it with other political terms: "An indentured servant refers to an individual who entered into a labor contract, known as an indenture, typically for a specified period, in exchange for transportation, food, lodging, and other necessities. This practice was prevalent during colonial times and into the early years of American history, particularly during the 17th and 18th centuries."

I don't think escorts are like that because you're not in a labor contract, which is known as indenture. Like I said above, the escort-client relationship is a business relationship similar to a barber-customer relationship. Either party (whether client or provider) can have requests/demands. If neither party is willing to agree to each other's demand/requests, they should take their business elsewhere.

You type fast!  :-) I changed my post a bit in the short time it took you to reply, please look above and see.  Ok, sorry to hijack thread.

[Newtdad]

10 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

You type fast!  🙂 I changed my post a bit in the short time it took you to reply, please look above and see.  Ok, sorry to hijack thread.

I just edited my response, so it can match your edits.

[MikeBiDude]

Moderator thought: let’s get back on topic, Maxme. You’ve been warned.

[epicuru]

Quoted me 750 for an hour. That's insane.

[+ azdr0710]

I presume he has found his supply/demand equilibrium by now. 

[Muscle Lover 2]

18 hours ago, epicuru said:

Quoted me 750 for an hour. That's insane.

Looking the way he looks, if the reviews suggested to me that he provided a decent service, I'd pony up that much.   From what I'm hearing on this thread, he has exited my wish list.