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On 8/8/2026 at 7:22 AM, JockFeet said:

Hello all,

There seems to be a fair amount of confusion and misinformation in this thread about me. I invite anyone with lingering questions to read my earlier reply in the thread, reach out directly, read my 30+ 5-star reviews, contact those reviewers, and/or ask me anything here. 

Thanks for the interest,

JFTB

Instead of creating the obvious confusion and suspicion in the marketplace, why not have two identical pages and a note on why you have them? 

Posted
5 hours ago, StLouisOct said:

Instead of creating the obvious confusion and suspicion in the marketplace, why not have two identical pages and a note on why you have them? 

Fair question, and I don’t disagree with the instinct. Worth noting though: both profiles already point to the same FAQ (labeled JFTB), which makes no attempt to hide that they’re both mine. So there’s a single, disclosed hub tying them together, not two pretending to be strangers.
As I noted back in April, the two ads exist because they serve pretty different client preferences, and I’ve said openly (here and elsewhere) that they’re one provider.

That said, your underlying point is a good one — the disclosure shouldn’t require a click to find. I’ll add a line to each profile pointing to the other, so it’s clear up front rather than only in the FAQ. Appreciate the nudge.

  • 4 weeks later...
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Communication with him was extremely unpleasant. he’s picky, which fine, he has every right to choose his clients. however, he got really serious about the deposit when I talked to him. mind you, he wasn’t even gonna be town for another few weeks. i felt uncomfortable giving him so much up front. I would’ve preferred locking in plans closer to the date he’d be in town, but he was super difficult about getting the deposit upfront. Overall, pick your poison. If he seems worth it to you, go ahead. However, his rates are high and the deposit is a bit of a hassle.

Posted
10 hours ago, confusionsense said:

Communication with him was extremely unpleasant. he’s picky, which fine, he has every right to choose his clients. however, he got really serious about the deposit when I talked to him. mind you, he wasn’t even gonna be town for another few weeks. i felt uncomfortable giving him so much up front. I would’ve preferred locking in plans closer to the date he’d be in town, but he was super difficult about getting the deposit upfront. Overall, pick your poison. If he seems worth it to you, go ahead. However, his rates are high and the deposit is a bit of a hassle.

Sigh. This prospective client reached out from three accounts over the course of a few hours, lying about their screen names twice. It was I who labeled the communication with them as “difficult and unpleasant” before passing on their attempted change to my terms of engagement. I know most of you already realize that phrases like “picky,” “really serious about the deposit,” “super difficult,” and “rates are high” are subjective; one person’s perspective is not always another’s. The facts are: this prospective client either chose not to read my FAQ which plainly details my deposit and rate requirements, or thought they could bargain some flexibility. It’s not beyond possibility that I’d bend… I have before and I may again… but when one smells a pic collecting rat, one smells a rat. If anyone would like further details about this brand new member of the forum’s unsuccessful tactics to change a provider’s stated terms, feel free to DM. In the meantime, I continue to welcome any and all to read my FAQ and contact me with any follow-up questions. While I am currently booked for the next two weeks (all at my listed rates and with 20% deposits), I welcome  new clients who recognize providers’ boundaries and know how to approach in a respectful way. 😎

Posted (edited)
15 hours ago, confusionsense said:

Communication with him was extremely unpleasant. he’s picky, which fine, he has every right to choose his clients. however, he got really serious about the deposit when I talked to him. mind you, he wasn’t even gonna be town for another few weeks. i felt uncomfortable giving him so much up front. I would’ve preferred locking in plans closer to the date he’d be in town, but he was super difficult about getting the deposit upfront. Overall, pick your poison. If he seems worth it to you, go ahead. However, his rates are high and the deposit is a bit of a hassle.

 

welcome to the forum......

was only the deposit discussion what made this an "extremely unpleasant" and "super difficult" experience for you?.......it appears so and you may want to simply look for somebody else instead of allowing yourself to be "uncomfortable".....gee, I seem to be quoting you just as @JockFeet did in his post just above!......admittedly, paying a deposit is famously discouraged here in the forum, but providers can operate in the way that brings them business success and clients can pick and choose with whom they want to meet......18-year RM member Jockfeet's participation here in the forum has been professional and intelligent......your first post here (if you're not a reincarnation of an earlier forum member) is grumpy and cynical.....take a look around the forum and get a feel for the mood and tone......    

Edited by azdr0710
Posted

This isn't a comment about the provider TBrady /Jockfeet per se.  It's more a question about recent photographs in many profiles that show the provider as clean shaven in some photographs and bearded in others.  As someone who is partial to beards / men who keep their body hair....it can be confusing.  I've learned to be sure to ask the state of their beard up front.  It's incredibly disappointing to me if the provider shows up clean shaven when I'm thought I was meeting their facial hair version.  No shade to Mr. Jockfeet. He sounds amazing.  I just took this opportunity to bring this up to see if this is just my issue, or if others feel the same.  

It feels kinda awkward to contact a provider with a beard and show interest, only to be told the beard is gone.  I've passed because of the difference in the past.  It's just a strong personal preference. I'm curious if any providers who see this could answer if this makes them feel slighted.  

Posted (edited)
2 hours ago, SuperThrive said:

This isn't a comment about the provider TBrady /Jockfeet per se.  It's more a question about recent photographs in many profiles that show the provider as clean shaven in some photographs and bearded in others.  As someone who is partial to beards / men who keep their body hair....it can be confusing.  I've learned to be sure to ask the state of their beard up front.  It's incredibly disappointing to me if the provider shows up clean shaven when I'm thought I was meeting their facial hair version.  No shade to Mr. Jockfeet. He sounds amazing.  I just took this opportunity to bring this up to see if this is just my issue, or if others feel the same.  

It feels kinda awkward to contact a provider with a beard and show interest, only to be told the beard is gone.  I've passed because of the difference in the past.  It's just a strong personal preference. I'm curious if any providers who see this could answer if this makes them feel slighted.  

I appreciate this opportunity to address the beard question @SuperThrive. I post pics showing my facial hair in various states because… my facial hair varies. Sometimes it’s short, sometimes it’s longer, sometimes it’s somewhere in the middle. I think any provider in the same boat would welcome this simple approach: “I’d like to book you on [date], could your beard be [long/short/medium] like the [specific] pic then?” While we’re at it, let’s talk about head hair and color, too… some of us work other jobs (modeling/acting) which also pay us to have varying hair colors/styles/lengths, and others just like the variety that working for ourselves affords. Bottom line: ASK. It’s really that simple for me. Thanks again for the interest 

Edited by JockFeet
Posted
3 hours ago, JockFeet said:

I appreciate this opportunity to address the beard question @SuperThrive. I post pics showing my facial hair in various states because… my facial hair varies. Sometimes it’s short, sometimes it’s longer, sometimes it’s somewhere in the middle. I think any provider in the same boat would welcome this simple approach: “I’d like to book you on [date], could your beard be [long/short/medium] like the [specific] pic then?” While we’re at it, let’s talk about head hair and color, too… some of us work other jobs (modeling/acting) which also pay us to have varying hair colors/styles/lengths, and others just like the variety that working for ourselves affords. Bottom line: ASK. It’s really that simple for me. Thanks again for the interest 

@SuperThrive, this is what I was going to write.  Also- as someone who has been in touch with this provider, he doesn't take last minute bookings due to his popularity.  So- that said, with planning you can ensure he is in full beard mode for you.  ❤️ 

Posted

While I have not met @JockFeet (I think I chatted with him off his TBrady profile), I have communicated with him a few times relative to his visits to Boston.  While ultimately my schedule wouldn't cooperate and we haven't yet met, I can say unequivocally that he is a very kind and thoughtful individual in his communication.  To the extent he requires some advance notice to accommodate his schedule, I am not surprised given his demeanor and his looks.  

Posted
On 9/7/2026 at 6:52 AM, SuperThrive said:

This isn't a comment about the provider TBrady /Jockfeet per se.  It's more a question about recent photographs in many profiles that show the provider as clean shaven in some photographs and bearded in others.  As someone who is partial to beards / men who keep their body hair....it can be confusing.  I've learned to be sure to ask the state of their beard up front.  It's incredibly disappointing to me if the provider shows up clean shaven when I'm thought I was meeting their facial hair version.  No shade to Mr. Jockfeet. He sounds amazing.  I just took this opportunity to bring this up to see if this is just my issue, or if others feel the same.  

It feels kinda awkward to contact a provider with a beard and show interest, only to be told the beard is gone.  I've passed because of the difference in the past.  It's just a strong personal preference. I'm curious if any providers who see this could answer if this makes them feel slighted.  

I see this as an issue too. Same thing with photos that may contradict each other such as a pic of a provider in shape, shredded to the core, and another pic of them out of shape. It makes us (the client) do extra work to verify what they actually look like. There's been times where I ask a provider for current pics because of the pics that are not similar and I get a rude response or they ghost me, then proceed to block me. 

On 9/7/2026 at 8:52 AM, JockFeet said:

I appreciate this opportunity to address the beard question @SuperThrive. I post pics showing my facial hair in various states because… my facial hair varies. Sometimes it’s short, sometimes it’s longer, sometimes it’s somewhere in the middle. I think any provider in the same boat would welcome this simple approach: “I’d like to book you on [date], could your beard be [long/short/medium] like the [specific] pic then?” While we’re at it, let’s talk about head hair and color, too… some of us work other jobs (modeling/acting) which also pay us to have varying hair colors/styles/lengths, and others just like the variety that working for ourselves affords. Bottom line: ASK. It’s really that simple for me. Thanks again for the interest 

I really appreciate that you are open to changing your look based upon what your client wants. 

Posted

Of course your mileage may vary and past performance is no guarantee of future results.  Respectfully, I would not repeat.  This is not to throw shade on an escort whose company others enjoyed.  My personal preference is quality over quantity.

  • 2 weeks later...
Posted

To everyone who responded negatively to my comment, including the provider himself, are you okay? 

I think it’s alarming to flame someone for their honest review and practical, fair warning about a provider. 

I tried to be as respectful as possible by providing a disclaimer that he has every right to be selective about his clients. I also tried to be kind when I communicated with him. 

That being said, I don’t think it was okay for him to be rude and (not to mention) condescending towards me when I stated my age, which is <30 but 27<. I also was simply asking him about making alternative arrangements. I had planned to pay the deposit, but was skeptical about him asking to pay it so early before his actual travel date. 

It also says a lot about a provider who lurks in the forum and encourages this kind of behavior by feeding lies to save face. I don’t trust anyone who’s given a review of him, quite frankly. 

Take my experience with a grain of salt, move along, and try to have fun. I will, at least. 

Posted

This is an interesting discussion, and I appreciate @JockFeet and others' candor. I checked out his FAQs, and while I think he's very attractive, they showed we are not a fit. That's great! Neither of our time will be wasted. 

Why we're not a fit: 

  • His 90-minute rate is more than I'm willing to pay. 
  • My husband and I hire together 95% of the time, and we do not do overnights or sessions longer than 2 hours. 
  • We already have a couple of NYC-based regulars who really fit our needs and wants. 
  • I don't like facial hair on most men. Given the three factors above, I'm not going to waste his time asking what his face looks like right now. 

Overall, he's explained the two profiles, which makes total sense to me. I'd noted him as JockFeet, thought he was very handsome, but I am not into feet, and 95% of men (including a lot of gay men) do not take care of their feet aesthetically or hygienically. So that was a pass. Let him market as he chooses. 

As someone who does consulting, the most annoying outreach I get is from people who a) haven't read my website and b) have but want me to change the way I work, how I contract, etc., for them. If a pro requests a deposit and you don't want to send it, he's not the pro for you. 

I do not want to dismiss other posters' experiences, but his responses on here and his FAQs are very professional and very clear. I wish more providers had such thoughtful guidelines. It would save us all time. 

 

Posted
9 minutes ago, rojjodc said:

I still don't get the two profiles, one of which seems to be an obvious name play on the football play Tom Brady.

I can understand your confusion, but as I see it he has identified a distinct market segment for particular activities he is keen to offer his services in. If he wants to offer general services and also some that may be seen as a kink, having a separate ad for the kink avoids potentially allowing general clients to infer that the kink is the main thing he is offering. 

Posted
On 4/12/2026 at 9:38 PM, JockFeet said:

not everybody is into feet, in fact some new clients told me the Jockfeet profile name turned them off so they never contacted me

I agree. 

That screen name is an immediate turn off. I wouldn't have made it to the point to even look at the phots, let-alone read the profile. 

Thank you for your explanations of the suspicion here about your multiple accounts. 

Posted
On 9/7/2026 at 6:52 AM, SuperThrive said:

This isn't a comment about the provider TBrady /Jockfeet per se.  It's more a question about recent photographs in many profiles that show the provider as clean shaven in some photographs and bearded in others.  As someone who is partial to beards / men who keep their body hair....it can be confusing.  I've learned to be sure to ask the state of their beard up front.  It's incredibly disappointing to me if the provider shows up clean shaven when I'm thought I was meeting their facial hair version.  No shade to Mr. Jockfeet. He sounds amazing.  I just took this opportunity to bring this up to see if this is just my issue, or if others feel the same.  

It feels kinda awkward to contact a provider with a beard and show interest, only to be told the beard is gone.  I've passed because of the difference in the past.  It's just a strong personal preference. I'm curious if any providers who see this could answer if this makes them feel slighted.  

I have the opposite problem.  I like the clean shave look, so when I see a cute guy that has facial hair (or god forbid a soul patch) in only a few pics, it gives me pause. I should probably ask, but it seems inappropriate to ask someone to change their appearance for me.

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