Buddy15 Posted May 2, 2023 Share Posted May 2, 2023 10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Jarrod. You do nothing but complain about your business. Lots of people have read your long posts and tried to offer suggestions to your many gripes. I am just one of them. But it seems you don't want answers. You just need to vent and keep repeating the same problems and never adjusting your approach. I'm sure plenty of other members agree. The "comprehending" and "listening" are advice you may (or may not) take for yourself. People are trying to help you but you don't hear anything because you always get defensive instead of listening and learning. No one is attacking you, so you should lower your armor for a minute and think about the things people are saying more carefully. Best of luck. You've nailed it but I have to admit I find his rants entertaining! DWnyc and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted May 2, 2023 Author Share Posted May 2, 2023 (edited) 13 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Jarrod. You do nothing but complain about your business. Lots of people have read your long posts and tried to offer suggestions to your many gripes. I am just one of them. But it seems you don't want answers. You just need to vent and keep repeating the same problems and never adjusting your approach. I'm sure plenty of other members agree. The "comprehending" and "listening" are advice you may (or may not) take for yourself. People are trying to help you but you don't hear anything because you always get defensive instead of listening and learning. No one is attacking you, so you should lower your armor for a minute and think about the things people are saying more carefully. Best of luck. The “gripe” that I have isn’t with the advice given: it’s the presentation. I’ve said this before. Ask yourself: are you really invested in helping, or do you just want to nitpick and see me shut up? That’s the thing. You aren’t coming to me in a helpful or constructive manner, you’re using demeaning, belittling, and condescending tone to get me to submit and scare me off from sharing the truth. That’s the problem, and that’s why we don’t see eye to eye. You also keep using general language and answers that is incorrect. Such as: “that’s why I don’t get any clients, or claiming I reject everyone’s advice”. You rarely come to me with respect and understanding, you come at me throwing flares: and that’s why I will never agree to your assessments. You come with a bitchy, sarcastic tone in every reply…and I can’t respect you for that. I know I’m spending way more time than any escort would arguing with you, but part of my duty to create a better hiring space, is talking to people like you: who can’t aren’t cognitive to the behavior and treatment of sex workers that doesn’t better the industry. Do you ever just agree with anything I post? You always have to come trying to prove me wrong or correct me. Everything you saying I do, you are doing exactly that. You literally make an argument out of everything I post. Edited May 2, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 2, 2023 Share Posted May 2, 2023 1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said: You aren’t coming to me in a helpful or constructive manner, you’re using demeaning, belittling, and condescending tone to get me to submit and scare me off from sharing the truth Actually several members have offered you constructive criticism and you consistently view their responses as demeaning, belittling and condescending. So you should probably just stop asking questions if you don't like the answers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted May 2, 2023 Author Share Posted May 2, 2023 1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said: Actually several members have offered you constructive criticism and you consistently view their responses as demeaning, belittling and condescending. So you should probably just stop asking questions if you don't like the answers. Did I ask a question though? No: I just stated a comment. As I’ve said before: you don’t have to like what I post. In case you’re wondering, or if there’s any doubt in your mind: I’m not posting to appease to your tastes or say what you want to hear. There’s plenty other threads here to read. Why you feel a need to keep coming around to what I say, and trying to gaslight me into believing I have no reason to expect, ask or suggest better from people: is very narrow minded on your part. See your way out, please. Block me if you need to. I’m done talking with you. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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