Just Chuck Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I've had more than one "sensual" or "erotic" massage where the massage itself was entirely a therapeutic massage (and a good one at that) but with no sexual tension or energy at all. Then, at the end, the masseur switches gears entirely and does something to provide a sexual release. I think I'd go back to those masseurs if they reversed the sequence. Get the sexual tension and energy out of the way first and I'll melt like butter in a technical therapeutic massage. Have you ever seen a masseur offer this type of session? + robear, + KensingtonHomo, jeezifonly and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
56harrisond Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I've had one massage where the release was essentially first then a massage. I prefer the build up throughout the massage, that's much more enjoyable. + bashful, + Italiano, PaulM and 8 others 6 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I had a massage therapist that was so beautiful and sexy that I had a hard time holding still and relaxing during the massage. On my third visit he said "I know how to fix this". We fucked like rabbits and then he gave me an amazing massage. Now there’s a man who knows men. MikeBiDude, JourneysEnd, + KensingtonHomo and 18 others 9 1 9 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ EVdude Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I’m more of an HM guy… happy middle! Love the thera-sensual build up to a nice release and then time on the table with more massage, particularly scalp and feet at the end. Andy at W Men Spa in NYC always puts me to sleep with an amazing foot massage. + bashful, rhh33, + robear and 6 others 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.E Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I once asked for both - a release at the start and another at the end with a build up for the second in between. It was a longer massage, like 90 minutes. Very nice. it is always a good idea to have a discussion about what you want. + LS299B, + robear, + bashful and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moke Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 Sounds like Hunter in SF would be perfect for you: https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?&q=MassagebyHunter&quick=1&search_and_or=or&sortby=relevancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcskill Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 I like happy beginning in certain occasion but I also do like the built up tension for happy ending as well. + APPLE1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrancisCA Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 Ive had a client request a happy beginning because he said he was too disctracted to relax and did his request. Afterwards we still fiished with a happy ending as well. No complaints on my end ha. If its something you want just request it with your provider beforhand Client1985, + robear, + bashful and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 Yes, I do this for a few clients. Usually those who struggle with premature ejaculation. One particular client would climax after 10 minutes laying on his front on the table (all I’d done was some head massage). So we agreed we would start his sessions with me giving him a bj. Then he can relax into it and build up to cum again towards the end of the massage. + robear, + KensingtonHomo, Njguy2 and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ APPLE1 Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 13 hours ago, nycman said: I had a massage therapist that was so beautiful and sexy that I had a hard time holding still and relaxing during the massage. On my third visit he said "I know how to fix this". We fucked like rabbits and then he gave me an amazing massage. Now there’s a man who knows men. Not my preferred order, BUT, I will give kudos to any provider who can read his clients that well! Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kniff Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Jake was great, nice massage with HE but then finished with scalp massage asked me to sit up and gave a nice shoulder massage. musclejake on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com + nycman, Simon Suraci, dfwmassagelover and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
queensboroboy Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I had one with a guy and he released a lot of tension. Ive never really enjoyed one until this guy showed me what a real massage was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Westsideguy Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 (edited) ARH on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com I’ve seen him a few times. First time he said “I believe in a happy beginning”. Made me laugh. Then made me happy. Very fun. Edited April 23, 2023 by Westsideguy RubMyThighs 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingLibra Posted April 23, 2023 Share Posted April 23, 2023 (edited) I go back and forth on this, as there are pros and cons for me, the least of which being it can be rather uncomfortable lying face down with a raging hard-on for 30-45 mins… I suppose there can be ecstasy in agony, after all… I have a provider who I have seen regularly for a few years and we have a lot of chemistry. He also gives and excellent, therapeutic massage, so sometimes, depending on how we are both feeling, we’ll start the appointment with lots of mutual touch and a release, to clear the air (so to speak). Then on to massage (typically 90 mins). He always tells/teases me that it ruins “the flow” to get straight down to the sensual, but he’s wise enough to let the client set the mood. Like others have said, there is something exciting about the anticipation of not knowing what form the ending of a massage will take, especially when you are feeling chemistry with the provider throughout the massage. Little hints here and there that more may be coming, can be very sexy and sensual, so I tend to prefer having the ending be the ENDING more often then not Edited April 23, 2023 by DCLibra82 Typo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairyfratdude11 Posted April 24, 2023 Share Posted April 24, 2023 +1 for Happy Middle! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted April 24, 2023 Share Posted April 24, 2023 Happy 3/4 is where it’s at! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moke Posted April 25, 2023 Share Posted April 25, 2023 0.78 is where it’s at + nycman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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