Dchan Posted April 21, 2023 Author Share Posted April 21, 2023 10 hours ago, Bargara Leatherboy said: I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did . Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them. Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during Thank you! Yes I’m really going to go and try and go with the flow. I’ve watched some videos and got some idea that I’ve shared with them without being too prescriptive. Ultimately I’m paying for the experience so hope I won’t feel left out! + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dchan Posted April 21, 2023 Author Share Posted April 21, 2023 22 hours ago, 56harrisond said: Definitely this 👆 Is that a “thing”…? The top vers guy I’ve been has mostly topped me but happily bottomed for me on several occasions! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 3 minutes ago, Dchan said: Oh that is sad but I’m glad you had fun at the time. Thanks. There was no hint of what was to come. I prefer to think that the overdose was accidental. He had so much to live for. Dchan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 40 minutes ago, Dchan said: Thanks Jamie! Never been to a sex party and feels quite out of my comfort zone. Maybe I’ll try after this weekend 😉 They’re great fun (with the right crowd) but yes you do need to be comfortable with being watched 🙂 JourneysEnd, + Vegas_Millennial and Dchan 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JourneysEnd Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 The threesomes I've had as hookups (always with couples) have always ended up with one person left on the sidelines a bit. Mostly it's one of the couple who's more into it, but sometimes it's the couple who are most into themselves. With escorts, I've done a three way twice. One, in Birmingham, was with a couple who were mostly into each other and it was pretty unsatisfying. Another, in London, was great. We talked about what I wanted beforehand and they did everything on my wishlist and more, after starting with an amazing 4 handed massage. I was definitely centre of attention and it was a great experience. Dchan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dchan Posted April 21, 2023 Author Share Posted April 21, 2023 1 hour ago, JourneysEnd said: The threesomes I've had as hookups (always with couples) have always ended up with one person left on the sidelines a bit. Mostly it's one of the couple who's more into it, but sometimes it's the couple who are most into themselves. With escorts, I've done a three way twice. One, in Birmingham, was with a couple who were mostly into each other and it was pretty unsatisfying. Another, in London, was great. We talked about what I wanted beforehand and they did everything on my wishlist and more, after starting with an amazing 4 handed massage. I was definitely centre of attention and it was a great experience. Thank you! That’s a good way to break the ice! + keroscenefire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted April 21, 2023 Share Posted April 21, 2023 2 hours ago, Dchan said: Thank you! That’s a good way to break the ice! Communication beforehand is key to getting what you wish. JourneysEnd and Dchan 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I've typically had pretty successful threesomes. The main thing I'd suggest is the power of the reset. If things are kind of not going the way you would like (or one person likes), feel free to just take a break. Sometimes I like to have porn playing and just have a little moment where we're all just jacking off and kind getting hyped again. + Vegas_Millennial and Dchan 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dchan Posted April 23, 2023 Author Share Posted April 23, 2023 Thanks for the advice gentlemen! It went very well indeed - was quite an interesting dynamic as you have to spread your focus across multiple people! Some vers play and we all got a turn so it was super fun! At the beginning, was super nervous but things escalated quickly and became quite relaxed! MaybeMaybeNot, Luv2play, TorontoDrew and 8 others 3 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaBagel Posted June 5, 2023 Share Posted June 5, 2023 On 4/21/2023 at 1:42 AM, Pensant said: I’ve only done three. The first was with an at that time regular. Super cute Latino UCLA student and his hung, but submissive, bf. We tied the bf up and topped him. The whole night was fabulous, really. They decided to stay the night since they lived in WEHO and I was by Laguna Beach. Great brunch the next day. The second was with two blonds at the Ritz Carlton Marina del Rey. Dylan, from NYC, and Dakota, an OC boy. Another shockingly hot time. Dakota left his chrome cock ring on overnight and woke up with a throbbing 8” boner. I obviously had to satisfy him so he could get it off. All three of us were in the king bed when the nice man delivered our breakfasts while we were drinking Veuve. The third time was at my place with a provider that I’d gotten quite close to and one who’d recently come by for a session. The newer boy pounded my blond and I did feel a bit left out until he gave me the best blow job in my life and drank every last drop. So, yeah, my experiences have been nonpareil, although it’s been a long time. Do you have a link for Dylan in NYC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted June 5, 2023 Share Posted June 5, 2023 On 4/20/2023 at 1:24 PM, Jamie21 said: Lots of people giving advice here, risks you having all sorts of expectations. I’d say don’t overthink it or have unrealistic expectations about how it ‘should’ feel. There’s no right or wrong group sex experience. Sometimes it’s great, sometimes it isn’t. If I think about why that is, it’s usually because of my expectations about the event beforehand. I just had my first 3 way sex of the year. Nothing planned, it just happened. We met at a park during a gay picnic, and shared an Uber to my hotel for some 3 way fun afterwards. It was great! No plans, no discussions. Just fun 😊 Dchan and Jamie21 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted June 6, 2023 Share Posted June 6, 2023 8 hours ago, BananaBagel said: Do you have a link for Dylan in NYC? Oh, that was in 2005! Dylan is a CPA on Long Island now! BananaBagel 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted June 7, 2023 Share Posted June 7, 2023 On 4/20/2023 at 11:34 AM, Dchan said: Any advice from members welcomed! be the third, if playing w a couple If you’re in the couple, hire the third expect that attention/attraction/dynamics will not be evenly shared - handle it like an adult, it’s temporary Dchan and dbar123 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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