Two escorts that "only" work together.....isnt that "dangerous"?

[BtmBearDad]

3 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

If you meet a couple you have to be smart about it and show interest in both of them. You may like one more than the other one but if one of the two feels it, it can go south and you can say goodbye to see them again. 

I have to disagree. In this hobby, both providers need to leave their jealousies at the door. If they can’t, they shouldn’t be offering 3somes, period. There are some provider couples that are absolutely fantastic at the 3some experience, while there are others where one of the couple can’t seem to separate the personal from the professional. Chances are the client will for all sorts of reasons prefer and concentrate more on one of you over the other, same way a professional provider will always concentrate more on the client vs his partner. If you can’t handle either scenario without pouting with a scowl, you shouldn’t be offering 3somes because you clearly can’t handle them. It’s not my job, or any other client’s job, to soothe wounded egos, make sure both providers feel equally sexy. 

[ChasingGirth]

8 hours ago, BtmBearDad said:

I have to disagree. In this hobby, both providers need to leave their jealousies at the door. If they can’t, they shouldn’t be offering 3somes, period. There are some provider couples that are absolutely fantastic at the 3some experience, while there are others where one of the couple can’t seem to separate the personal from the professional. Chances are the client will for all sorts of reasons prefer and concentrate more on one of you over the other, same way a professional provider will always concentrate more on the client vs his partner. If you can’t handle either scenario without pouting with a scowl, you shouldn’t be offering 3somes because you clearly can’t handle them. It’s not my job, or any other client’s job, to soothe wounded egos, make sure both providers feel equally sexy. 

I agree with you but if you concentrate too much on one of the two, it can have consequences.

Do you you like feeling like the third wheel? Wether or not the guy is professional or not it’s just not nice if someone feels excluded, in a situation if they are getting paid or not. 

I’m not talking about jealousy situations, I’m just talking about liking more one than the other. And some guys will only meet if their partners is part of it. if one of the two feels excluded you can say goodbye of seeing them again.

I just value how people feel when I meet them. I’m happy if everyone is having a pleasurable time. 

[starman05]

On 2/8/2023 at 9:20 PM, DWnyc said:

Reminded me of a bizarre experience: 

As a provider takes me up to his hotel room he asks “do you like groups?” And while opening door the I see he has a friend there … I say I’m not donating more than agreed and I’m told the other guy is free as they’re sharing a room and it’s late and he has nowhere else to go. I ran out claiming I felt ill and it was nothing to do with them (my gut said this was weird and scary so get out without angering them). I got abusive texts the whole night saying I owed him double the amount discussed (for 2 people).

 

 

listening to your gut might have saved your life that night. 

how unnerving; you clearly did the right thing. stay safe. 

[BtmBearDad]

1 minute ago, ChasingGirth said:

I agree with you but if you concentrate too much on one of the two, it can have consequences.

Do you you like feeling like the third wheel? Wether or not the guy is professional or not it’s just not nice if someone feels excluded, in a situation if they are getting paid or not. 

I’m not talking about jealousy situations, I’m just talking about liking more one than the other. And some guys will only meet if their partners is part of it. if one of the two feels excluded you can say goodbye of seeing them again.

I just value how people feel when I meet them. I’m happy if everyone is having a pleasurable time. 

I understand what you’re saying, and do agree to an extent. If this was a 3some outside of this hobby, I think making sure everyone is getting equal attention is a valid argument. But given the nature of this hobby, I don’t think that should be a valid concern. Many hobbyists engage here to live what is unavailable to them in real life - whatever that may be. Both in this hobby, and n real life a good bit of what happens is organic. You may click better with Guy A, you may enjoy what Guy A is doing better, Guy A may be more your type, etc.. It just happens - no harm, no foul. In real life 3somes, I know I have been more mindful of this, and do make efforts if it happens to include Guy B more. In this hobby tho, when it has happened, it’s much more a “just go with” type of thing, at least for me. In the overwhelming majority, the couple are perfectly fine with how that plays out. In fact, I have found couples get off a bit on the whole voyeuristic aspect of watching their partner/being watched by their partner when with another man. 

The jealousy that I think is a problem is when one partner gets jealous over the attention the other is giving or receiving from the client. That partner cannot separate the professional aspect from the personal. It’s those providers I think that should not then engage in or even offer 3somes. 

Two examples - one couple I had played with separately multiple times with each knowing of course, before we engaged in a 3 some. As things progressed, I did give more attention to, and wanted more attention from Guy A. Guy B got off on it, and a fun time was had by all. Another couple, I had engaged with Guy B on his own, and enjoyed our encounters. He suggested a 3some with his partner, and I was down for it. While Guy B was hot and fun, his partner was a bit more my type, and Guy A picked up on it and returned the attention. Mind you, Guy B was kept involved throughout, but it was clear he did not like the attention Guy A was paying me. Lesson learned. Thereafter, with this couple, it was only one on ones which worked well, provided if it was a one on one with Guy A, I hosted at his suggestion, as I came to find out Guy B would “linger”. 

Again, just my tuppence based on experiences.  

[misterhumphries]

On 2/9/2023 at 1:05 AM, ChasingGirth said:

I have met 2 guys together before and most of the time it’s because they are a couple and only agree to play if they are together.

And believe it or not everytime it was almost the same price as hiring 1 guy alone. 

You just have to pick an ad that has good reviews. 

I would ask for more photos and photos without filters if you are interested in these guys. 

But they aren't "playing" they are charging you several hundred dollars. I don't hire duos. They can work out their trust issues in other ways. I've been in three-ways but no cash exchanges hands.

[nycl4escort]

I've had good luck so far the two times I hired a duo. My apartment building has a doorbell camera  -if I'm hosting I use that as my first screening process to determine the person arriving is who I am expecting, and noone else if hiring a single person. 

 

Worse experience was traveling to a hotel to meet a provider and finding they had 3 "friends" in the room, likely to rob me or worse. I got out of dodge right quick!

[dbar123]

I’ve done a lot of 3-somes but ONLY if I’ve met one of the partners previously.

[Luv2play]

In the past 12 months I’ve had 4 threesomes. Only in one case were the two providers both unknown to me but they advertised in RM as working together and when I contacted one of them he indicated they were roommates but often worked singlely. There ads in RM were single ads but referenced the other as work mates.

Since I was in town for only a weekend and had a date for the next night with an old escort friend of mine, I hired the two for that night and they came to my hotel. I met them in the lobby and took them in the keyed elevator to my room. Everything was fine and exciting. They delivered exactly what we had discussed. 
 

The Uber was a bit of an issue though. Since they didn’t know me they wanted me to send them one at their residence. I demurred and they didn’t push it. When they saw me in the lobby waiting for them I guess they were relieved that I wasn’t a scammer.

After our session, I paid them $500 each for an hour and a half. They were going to the Beyoncé concert in town and were very happy with the fee (maybe it paid for their tickets). Said the Uber was on them and left. I gave them a good review on RM.

Edited January 23 by Luv2play

[BuzzLiteQueer]

@Luv2play IMHO, you handled that very well and generously compensated them.  Amazing to think they may have burned through all the $ at one Beyonce concert!