Snowballing/cumswapping

[cruiserdude1234]

I’m looking to experiment with snowballing with an escort.   I know some would not necessarily want to use my cum, but wondered if they would see any concerns with them shooting in my mouth and then sharing it?   Is this too strange of a request to ask the guy I’m going to be with.   I don’t want them to freak out.   Just something I’m curious about trying.

[Luv2play]

Well timed enquiry as just last week I was in a situation with an escort I know quite well and after he came in my mouth I asked him if he wanted to share his cum. The answer was no. He is mostly a top and certainly with me but lists vers with top on his RM ad.

So I would advise ask. All he can say is no. Btw it helps if he kisses. Mine does so even that didn't change things.

[cruiserdude1234]

1 minute ago, Luv2play said:

Well timed enquiry as just last week I was in a situation with an escort I know quite well and after he came in my mouth I asked him if he wanted to share his cum. The answer was no. He is mostly a top and certainly with me but lists vers with top on his RM ad.

So I would advise ask. All he can say is no. Btw it helps if he kisses. Mine does so even that didn't change things.

Would you suggest I ask before we meet or wait until we are in the moment?
 

[+ glennnnn]

Ask!!!

And report back if he agrees.😋

[Luv2play]

5 minutes ago, cruiserdude1234 said:

Would you suggest I ask before we meet or wait until we are in the moment?
 

Not knowing the guy you are going to see makes it hard to answer. But from his ad (assuming thats how you came across him) do you get the feeling he is into raunchy activity? 

Things like rimming, watersports, anything goes are indications he is open to a lot. Some guys state in their ads they are very open minded. Use your intuition. 

Also only ask in advance if its a deal breaker for you. Otherwise go with the flow.

Edited January 29, 2023 by Luv2play

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

6 minutes ago, cruiserdude1234 said:

Would you suggest I ask before we meet or wait until we are in the moment?
 

Ask beforehand if it's something he's into.

In the moment is never a good idea with an escort.

[cruiserdude1234]

Here is from his ad.

 

Available For 

Gay Escorting | Modeling | Erotic Massage | Bodywork | Boyfriend Experience 

I Am Into:

Anal | Body Hair | Kissing | Nipples | Role Play | Spanking | Bears | Fisting | Jocks | Muscle | Rimming | Shaving | Verbal | WS | Oral | Twinks | Bondage

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Just now, cruiserdude1234 said:

Here is from his ad.

 

Available For 

Gay Escorting | Modeling | Erotic Massage | Bodywork | Boyfriend Experience 

I Am Into:

Anal | Body Hair | Kissing | Nipples | Role Play | Spanking | Bears | Fisting | Jocks | Muscle | Rimming | Shaving | Verbal | WS | Oral | Twinks | Bondage

I contend that It doesn't usually matter what an 'I'm into' states. That's not a free pass for most escorts.

If it's a kink, you'd be smart to discuss it beforehand so you're both on the same page.

[cruiserdude1234]

I’ll talk to him about it.  We’ve been together before so my discussion with him shouldn’t be an issue 

[Luv2play]

I noticed he didn't list cum as one of his intos. Not that that means he's into snowballing but it opens the possibity.

Contrary to Ben's opinion, I take an abbreviated list of into's as an indication those are activities the escort would enjoy or at least do. It's when they list the whole gamut that is cause for suspician.

And if they list some activities and then renege, I would say the escort should not get "a free pass". That's misrepresentation.

[Jamie21]

Definitely ask if it’s something you specifically want. Just because someone lists lots of things doesn’t mean they’re into everything. Sometimes it’s surprising what escorts aren’t into.

Example: I was filming a porn scene with a well known escort (for our respective fans sites). We’d discussed beforehand broadly what would happen (or more to the point…what wouldn’t happen) so that was all good.

Near the end of the filming I shot on his chest and he freaked out. We stopped and cleaned it up. Then we started filming again to finish him off. 

I was totally surprised by his dislike of cum on him, which seemed unusual for an escort. So I’d say he might be really into some specialist things but don’t assume that means he’s into everything. 

[Luv2play]

On Sleepy Boy they often have very specific intos checked off. Wrt cum things like cum on you, cum on me, cum in mouth, you, me etc. I only look at the site the odd time so forget the exact terminology.

I'm surprised a porn actor would object to cum on his chest. What a wet blanket!

[CuriousByNature]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

I'm surprised a porn actor would object to cum on his chest. What a wet blanket!

That's the issue - he wanted the blanket to be wet, not his chest... 😁

[+ Lucky]

An escort freaks out due to cum on his chest? Maybe he should only service mannequins!

[Starlight77]

I am into this scene as well and I can say that most escorts are not into it.   I've only been successful with two well known escorts who snowball/cumswapped with me often.   There is a third escort I've communicated with who said he's into it but I've yet to meet with him.  

One escort even froze several loads of cum before I came over and we melted it to warm and played with that in between our tongues before either of us came.  It was raunchy, messy, and freakin' hot.   Ah I miss him (he moved to a city I never go to) 

I would suspect you might want to know who these escorts are but not sure if I should say because they could have been into the cumplay with me but not with everyone.   Not sure of the protocol here.   

[Jamie21]

5 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I'm surprised a porn actor would object to cum on his chest. What a wet blanket!

So was I!  Seems strange to me as I love being covered in cum. Everyone is different though.

Since the filming I looked at his films and I see he’s always top. I guess he just shoots his load on or in the bottom or the bottom shoots on himself. 

[Luv2play]

You see that in a lot of films.