Why do escorts not list their health status?

[Enronnja]

On 2/2/2023 at 8:05 PM, misterhumphries said:

There are too many assumptions -- assuming as escort is positive if it's not mentioned in his profile, assuming that EVERYONE is positive. Remember the old joke of what happens when you assume "IT MAKES AN ASS OF U AND ME"

I agree with Benjamin Nicholas that regardless of what you might suspect about anyone else's sexual history or health status, we are each responsible for ourselves. Except for Covid and monkeypox, proper and constant use of a condom can help remove worries about transmission of most STDs. Problem is there is a wave of men who now want to revert to the pre-AIDS days and have raw sex with total abandon since PREP is available.

I recently used a condom and I was pleasantly surprised, it was mind blowing! But you really have to be in a state of mind with your partner. A huge factor is the lust I felt for the guy and the feel of his tight, firm bubble butt felt so good it drove me to the point of no return. But I must admit, since PREP, I have rarely used condoms and to tell you the truth, its not that different. Probably should practice it more.

[jtwalker]

Some of these guys sleep with 5 or more dudes a day.  Therefore, they honestly don't know their status at any given time.  Best you take matters into your own hands.

[pubic_assistance]

51 minutes ago, jtwalker said:

Some of these guys sleep with 5 or more dudes a day.

EXACTLY!

What good does an HIV test from last month do you when your escort just got back from a gay cruise where he had 50 men barebacking  his ass ?

[56harrisond]

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

just got back from a gay cruise where he had 50 men barebacking his ass ?

Don't threaten me with a good time 😜

58 minutes ago, jtwalker said:

Best you take matters into your own hands.

Yes, 100% accurate 

[Enronnja]

2 hours ago, jtwalker said:

Some of these guys sleep with 5 or more dudes a day.  Therefore, they honestly don't know their status at any given time.  Best you take matters into your own hands.

To tell you the honest truth, when I see a hot provider with 112 reviews, it gives me pause. Also, I sometimes go down the rabbit hole to check out the reviewers and who they connect with it. You are basically plugging your cock into a wide-area network.

[+ Reisr30]

12 hours ago, Enronnja said:

I recently used a condom and I was pleasantly surprised, it was mind blowing! But you really have to be in a state of mind with your partner. A huge factor is the lust I felt for the guy and the feel of his tight, firm bubble butt felt so good it drove me to the point of no return. But I must admit, since PREP, I have rarely used condoms and to tell you the truth, its not that different. Probably should practice it more.

I have not been able to meet providers for a while but I always use a condom when I have done so in the past.  Just my preference and I have an enjoyable time.  From time to time I have had a companion push to not use a condom and I politely decline;  I have always found that request odd specially when I am the one hiring and up front I outline only safe...

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Reisr30 said:

From time to time I have had a companion push to not use a condom and I politely decline;  I have always found that request odd specially when I am the one hiring and up front I outline only safe...

I started hooking up with men in the middle of the AIDS epidemic, so condoms were always part of the formula.

Since I am married and sexually active with my wife, I need to be respectful to her health as well as my own, so I go out of my way to not bring any contagious diseases home with me. I would never fuck a complete stranger without a condom, and I never have.

[DWnyc]

8 hours ago, Reisr30 said:

 From time to time I have had a companion push to not use a condom and I politely decline;  I have always found that request odd specially when I am the one hiring and up front I outline only safe...

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve traded messages before meeting on this issue and the provider will either

1) make it clear they prefer bare, plauknt safe may affect their performance and I can’t complaint if it doesn’t work for them etc

2) refuse flat out - will only accept the appointment if we agree on bare, “I'm on prep you have nothing to worry about” etc 

And in person I’ve experienced those who agreed on safe beforehand but really try to change that upon meeting. It’s the full BFE lol - “don’t you trust me? Don’t you like me? Dont you want it as much as I do …” etc etc 

I discussed this with one provider who said in addition to it making it harder to … stay harder … there’s an assumption that clients asking for safe really do want it bare, and the request is some fetish where they want that overturned etc

I’ve also been stunned that some providers don’t have condoms with them (but have every toy, outfit, party consumable you can think of)

And these are all folks who say they offer safe on their profiles (else I wouldn’t be engaging with them).