And that’s the reason I only book clients who send deposits

[+ Coolwave35]

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Okay, now you’re stepping out of line and making assumptions about things that’s not true.  Don’t lie on me, because I’m not about to let you ☝

I never intended to lie on you. I must have misunderstood one of your posts. My apologies. 

[+ nycman]

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

That’s a problem, and I’ll tell you that right now.

Yeah, he made the cardinal mistake of trying to help you by offering constructive advice.

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

You have to educate yourself on the reality,….

On this we can agree. 

The reality is you don’t listen to anyones’s advice and it’s a waste of time trying. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

10 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I never intended to lie on you. I must have misunderstood one of your posts. My apologies. 

 

10 hours ago, nycman said:

Yeah, he made the cardinal mistake of trying to help you by offering constructive advice.

On this we can agree. 

The reality is you don’t listen to anyones’s advice and it’s a waste of time trying. 

The reality is: some people are more interested in making assumptions and looking at things from a hiring point of view, versus looking at the info that’s been given right in front of their face.

What advice do you have? Have you placed yourself in my position and worked side by side with me? Getting an attitude and telling me I’m not listening isn’t offering any advice. I’m not listening, because nothing he said was actually addressing the points I made.
 

All I heard was why I shouldn’t be talking deposits, and why he would rather give a deposit to a hotel than an escort, which made absolutely 0 sense. Hotels rip people off everyday. Don’t believe me, read trip advisor. Read Google. Fake Clients rip escorts off; everyday.
 

Average client hiring once or twice a month, may get an escort here and there who flakes and not show up. $50/$100 deposit lost versus losing $250/300 session+ hotel +gas. Who’s really losing here?

 

 

Edited November 5, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jarrod_Uncut]

11 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I never intended to lie on you. I must have misunderstood one of your posts. My apologies. 

I can consider it misquote. But it would have been better to formulate it as a question versus laying it out like it’s facts. And what you mentioned didn’t have anything to do with taking deposits anyway. 
 

And you apologized but just rolled your eyes. How can I take your apology seriously at this point. 

Edited November 5, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[+ Coolwave35]

41 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

How can I take your apology seriously at this point. 

Shhhhhhh. It’s late. Let’s call it a day. Good night. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

22 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

There’s discussions all on Reddit and overseas about things being slow for both genders in sex work. The market is already flooded, there’s way more escorts now than it used to be, and less demand with the inflation.

I actually have noticed that.

The funny thing is - many escorts are still asking massively inflated prices, but when I turn them down, they start getting desperate.

However, I wouldn't suggest removing your number from your ad. Another client and I tried to contact a Chicagoan who did that, and we both got blue balled: 

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[Jarrod_Uncut]

6 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

I actually have noticed that.

The funny thing is - many escorts are still asking massively inflated prices, but when I turn them down, they start getting desperate.

However, I wouldn't suggest removing your number from your ad. Another client and I tried to contact a Chicagoan who did that, and we both got blue balled: 

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My Gawd. I just read that thread.

I don’t mean to be harsh but, how does any of you even fall for such stupidity? Can people really not even tell the difference? His ad shows he hasn’t been on since May, 1st of all. 2nd, his ad is like 5 words talking about ride around and getting a drink. Even if I was fucking him for free, I would be dubious because there’s no real info or instructions in the ad. It goes to show that some clients only see pictures and are blind to anything else. 

It’s not because he didn’t have a phone number, it’s because the Ad is trash. I make sure to lay out as much info as I can, and fill every character allowance possible in my ad AND auto-reply. I also include my number in my auto-reply and website for the actual genius’ who read and click on the ad. 
 

My number is not hidden, it’s just that leaving it on without clicking the “registered users only” option often gets the lowest form of garbage and shit including clients who don’t/won’t/ will read and ignore it anyway and the Nigerian/Russian scammers talking about looking for a sugar daddy.

Edited November 5, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jamie21]

13 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I don’t mean to be harsh but, how does any of you even fall for such stupidity?

Caused by booking providers when the blood supply to support good cognitive brain processing is impaired by excess blood to the dick area. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

5 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Caused by booking providers when the blood supply to support good cognitive brain processing is impaired by excess blood to the dick area. 

No....it's what happens when I reach out to new providers to find new talent. On those unusual days when I plan to hire, but all my regulars are out of town.

Luckily, I maintain a strict separation between business and libido. Later that day, I booked a guy, and at the last moment, he demanded I send a photo of myself. He found out about that separation the expensive way.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

15 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

No....it's what happens when I reach out to new providers to find new talent. On those unusual days when I plan to hire, but all my regulars are out of town.

Luckily, I maintain a strict separation between business and libido. Later that day, I booked a guy, and at the last moment, he demanded I send a photo of myself. He found out about that separation the expensive way.

This why I feel it’s important to get all the “deal breakers” (or screening, in escort language) out the way first. Some start right off the bat with questions about availability, like “hey I’m in xxxx at hotel xxxx. Are you available now? Am I supposed to say yes, before I know anything? 

I know escort meets isn’t dating, but there has to be some common sense and consideration that we’re essentially meeting someone over text or phone we know nothing about. Fortunately I’ll say most prospects don’t mind sharing pics, or at the least Name/Age (some of us don’t wish to book someone under 21 or 25), Basic description, etc.  

If they skirt the questions, then it’s likely they won’t get around to actually meeting. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

15 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

This why I feel it’s important to get all the “deal breakers” (or screening, in escort language) out the way first. Some start right off the bat with questions about availability, like “hey I’m in xxxx at hotel xxxx. Are you available now? Am I supposed to say yes, before I know anything? 

This is ironic. I'm also meeting more pushy providers who say they want to meet before letting me give them _any_ details.

There are times when I feel I'm watching their economic interest more than they are (the younger guys). I wanted to post the following list on my RM profile and tell providers we need to agree to all these items or both of us could end up unhappy:

1. Are we close enough to travel to meet each other?

2. Who's going where? Is there an Uber or hotel involved?

3. What time are we meeting, and how punctual are we going to be?

4. How is the payment being made (this is one I have to consistently remind them about, with most of them using apps! unbelievable!!!!!!!)

5. Are you willing to do what I'm asking you to do? EDIT: I spell out all details before any deal is made

 

My RM profile already makes clear that making last-minute changes to a done deal is going to result in cancellation. That's standard contract law. Doesn't matter if it involves money, Uber, or photos. Some kids think standard practice just doesn't apply to them...

Edited November 8, 2022 by DrownedBoy

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 11/7/2022 at 6:08 PM, DrownedBoy said:

This is ironic. I'm also meeting more pushy providers who say they want to meet before letting me give them _any_ details.

There are times when I feel I'm watching their economic interest more than they are (the younger guys). I wanted to post the following list on my RM profile and tell providers we need to agree to all these items or both of us could end up unhappy:

1. Are we close enough to travel to meet each other?

2. Who's going where? Is there an Uber or hotel involved?

3. What time are we meeting, and how punctual are we going to be?

4. How is the payment being made (this is one I have to consistently remind them about, with most of them using apps! unbelievable!!!!!!!)

5. Are you willing to do what I'm asking you to do? EDIT: I spell out all details before any deal is made

 

My RM profile already makes clear that making last-minute changes to a done deal is going to result in cancellation. That's standard contract law. Doesn't matter if it involves money, Uber, or photos. Some kids think standard practice just doesn't apply to them...

I think I read this the other day but then got sidetracked. Think I was on my way to meet a client at the casino 🎰 

Anyhow, these are all valid points and very sensible at that. However it’s also things that just have to be discussed during the booking process.

This is why I start off the bat with questions:

Name/Age:

City You’re In:

Website Seen On:

Host or Travel:

and sometimes I’ll even say: “are you top or bottom?”

Get everything out the way quickly so no time is wasted, but do so with tact and flexibility without assumptions. It’s not just, “hey are you available now, I want to come to you?” Available for what now, and for whom? And when and where is now? 

 

Edited November 15, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut