Hiring an Escort

[Guest simongman2]

Guys I have been emailing this high profile escort for a few weeks setting up an appointment for when he gets into town next week, and I have be very excited about it until today. First, for $300 hr and $75 dollars for every fifteen minutes after that, you would think that he would keep good records, but no, when I spoke with him on the phone today he had not made the time available as he stated in his emails, and was somewhat rude when asked if we could move the time up earlier in the day, saying "no- i have other appointments" and my question is, would you keep the appointment knowing that he will be seeing other clients prior to seeing you that evening? I am beginning to have second thoughts. anyone have thoughts on this?

[+ Charlie]

I have never had an escort who charged in fifteen minute increments--that probably gives new meaning to the term "clockwatcher." I think your instinct is telling you (correctly) that you are not going to get your money's worth.

[LovesYng]

Just wondering if he want's his fee before hand also:+

[ted]

You are very naive if you think a travelling escort will be seeing only you on any particular day, if you've just booked an hour appt. Economics today would indicate that they need to book a minimum of 2 hours, and some do considerably more. A hotel room in a major city will run a minimum of $100(more like 150) and then there are the travel costs and food plus other incidentals. That being said, this guys rates are definitely on the high side at $300-and I've never heard of the $75 for every 15 minutes thereafter. That last part is the red flag for this guy, not that he booked another appointment earlier in the day.

[jackhammer91406]

Run as fast as you can to the nearest adult bookstore and look at some other ads.

[Chuck50]

Tell him what you want and if he can't do it. Don't you. BTW you are paying don't make it easy for him HUGS Chuck

[AaronScottDC]

My advice to you if you are planning on seeing a "high profile escort" who is traveling to a city near you is to request an early meeting in the day. That way, you can be fairly sure he hasn't "tired" himself out on other calls that day. Of course, he could have just come from an overnight call in which he did his duty as soon as he woke up that day. So, in order to ensure a "peppy" meeting with an escort, you may want to do as Jackhammer suggested and look up some of the locals who may be a bit fresher than the high profile guy. I know I only accept one call a day in order to ensure my ability to have a great time with whom ever I am with. But, I am not a high profile escort, either!

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Guest BenAJ]

If it feels "funny" then I wouldn't take chances. There are so many other great escorts out there...u don't have to deal with it. Besides, ur the customer so he should be trying to accommodate you and not the other way around.

 

I would look for someone else with a little less attitude.

[+ bigjoey]

billing in 15 minute segments makes the guy sound like a lawyer; i do not mean to insult an escort by calling him a lawyer but that is what his practice reminds me.

 

i always hire a local for long periods of time and usually for an overnight or weekend. this ensures that he is "fresh" and not had 3 or 4 men before me.

 

for the money he wants, you could certainly do better. while some of the high profile escorts are good, there are lots of wonderful escorts who would be just as good. skip this one.

[Luv2play]

I sometimes hire a travelling escort, especially in Miami since quite a few come down in the winter for a few rays of sunshine. I know that they book multiple appointments each day in order to make it financially viable. I usually request an 8 to 9pm time slot, and discuss with the escort how busy he will be. Usually they are truthful and if I find they have an appointment immediately prior to mine, I will reschedule. One of my favorites always goes to the gym at 6pm so the 8pm time is excellent, he is always pumped up and sorta sweaty}( And he is also not a clockwatcher and we always run overtime by 15 minutes to half an hour; always a great time.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

I agree with the comments above that it's simply not realistic to expect to be the only client of the day for a traveling escort, especially if it's just a one or two hour appointment. But this is only an issue if he's not good at managing his energy levels to match his clients' expectations (and if he's commanding fees at that tier, he certainly should be). If I were you I'd check his reviews to see if all the positive ones have been written from his hometown, or if a fair number of them are from traveling appointments. That will give you a sense of whether he travels well.

 

As for time-of-day scheduling as a method of guaranteeing "freshness," I'm not so sure that really works. If he's really not a morning person or was living it up the night before, he might be fresher at 11:30pm than at 9am. Which moment of the day he's at his best is going to depend on variables you simply can't know about or control. And frankly, you shouldn't have to concern yourself with all that. Just book him when YOU'D like to see him; he's the one best positioned to know whether he should be seeing you then or not. (And I'll be honest -- when I travel, sometimes the hottest appointment of the day for me is my last one; sometimes it's the first, and sometimes it's in the middle. You just never know.)

 

Two situations in which where you fall in his day might be an issue: if you're really wanting to get fucked, or if it's really important to you that he cum. In both cases you should let him know that ahead of time. Make your expectations clear, and if he agrees to see you, then it's on him to manage his day so that he can deliver on them. It's not your concern what he's been doing with the rest of his time, and you shouldn't have to worry yourself with that anyway.

 

Now, if you're put off by him because he came off sounding rude, that's another issue entirely. But if you decide to cancel, please be a good guy and give him as much notice of your cancellation as possible! :-)

[phage]

Life is short and there are often serious and important decisions that have to be made. Hiring an escort should not be one of them.

 

If this is stressing you out…move on. If the money is too dear…find another leisure activity. If you think the guy is hot…take a chance and don’t set yourself up with all kinds of expectations.

 

If he’s high profile and well regarded, you’ll probably have a good time as long as you don’t require ‘X,Y and Z’ in that exact order, with no deviation, etc.

[Guest Hijnx]

I do a lot of research in advance of making an arrangement with an escort (thank you Hooboy, thank you). If I get the slightest feeling of reticence or concern about the potential appointment, I move on to the next choice. There are so many wonderful guys out there with terrific reviews to choose from, why would you consider someone who treats you with so little respect to follow through on a previously made arrangement? I spent about a month setting up an arrangement with a couple guys in DC. We emailed, talked on the phone a few times. I thought everything was copasetic. They told me to call when I got into town. I arrived, I called and it was as if they had never heard of me. They recovered after a bit and kind of did the "oh, yeah, oh yeah, I remember now" routine, and asked me to call back the next day. But I was already moving on to my next choice. I did call back the next day, got their voice mail, and promptly cancelled the appointment (24 hours in advance, by the way.) I typically hire for a minimum of three hours, and usually prefer overnights or all weekend appointments. They were aware of this. My belief is that for the money being exchanged, I am paying for the set up time, too, and that with all that I put into the set-up, the least they can do is remember my name. Don't think that's asking too much.

This was really unusual, by the way. This has not been my typical experience. I love you guys! And don't ever forget it!

[VaHawk]

This is kind of different from the situation in the original post? I thought he was hiring an escort visiting his town, not looking to hire an escort in another town he was visiting, right? IMO, that would be two different situations. To expect a visiting escort to have only you booked for a one hour session that day, would be unrealistic. If you booked a visiting escort for an overnight, that would be different, but probably would not happen unless you made some kind of prepayment in advance (I'm just supposing here as I've never done that), unless he was flying in on your booking to see you.

 

Booking an overnight or longer with an out of town escort, when you are visiting their town would be way different. To forget the arrangement as you state, would be inexcusable, and definitely a reason to move on to another. I have never had that happen to me yet, and hope I never do.

 

The fact that it happened to you when visiting DC doesn't surprise me, because the good escorts in this town are few and far between. The only one I would count on would be Aaron Scott, who posts here, as he seems intelligent, conversant an all around good person and probably a heck of lot of fun to be with. I don't know him personally, but base my opinion only on his posts to this site.

[Luv2play]

I'm a little surprised when you report a dearth of good escorts in Washington. Although I have not visited that city for a long time, I was under the impression there was a decent choice of quality escorts there. I understand that Baltimore escorts sometimes are reviewed as Washington dates and am under the impression they can be booked at local rates (?). For instance, I have only read good things about Richard and Buck (who I understand are a couple) and Gavin (?). And some people seem to enjoy a threesome with that hot Latin couple. So what gives???

[guyinsf]

I'm a little confused. You are saying that he didn't keep good records so he didn't keep the time you had scheduled available for you, but you are wondering whether to go through with the appointment. Do you mean you are wondering whether to make a different appointment?

 

I agree with what others have said about billing in 15 minute increments. I also see no reason for an escort to be rude to you (unless you were rude to him). If you know that you treated him with respect and he's giving you a rude attitude, move on to someone else, no matter how "hot" or "high profile" he might be.

 

 

>Guys I have been emailing this high profile escort for a few

>weeks setting up an appointment for when he gets into town

>next week, and I have be very excited about it until today.

>First, for $300 hr and $75 dollars for every fifteen minutes

>after that, you would think that he would keep good records,

>but no, when I spoke with him on the phone today he had not

>made the time available as he stated in his emails, and was

>somewhat rude when asked if we could move the time up earlier

>in the day, saying "no- i have other appointments" and my

>question is, would you keep the appointment knowing that he

>will be seeing other clients prior to seeing you that evening?

> I am beginning to have second thoughts. anyone have thoughts

>on this?

[AaronScottDC]

>The fact that it happened to you when visiting DC doesn't

>surprise me, because the good escorts in this town are few and

>far between. The only one I would count on would be Aaron

>Scott, who posts here, as he seems intelligent, conversant an

>all around good person and probably a heck of lot of fun to be

>with. I don't know him personally, but base my opinion only

>on his posts to this site.

 

Hey VAHawk - thanks for the kind words! I certainly try my best!

 

As far as DC not having decent escorts goes, I tend to agree. I have met some other working boys here in DC who are fun and intelligent and would keep a particular appointment set up in advance. However, I have also met some guys who may be fun, but they probably wouldn't keep an appointment set up ahead of time because they are having a bit too much fun..... So, if anyone is heading to DC anytime soon, shoot me an email message and maybe we can get together while you are here. If I am not exactly what you are looking for, then I can at least give you some recommendations of other reliable guys in DC to try. Plus, the weather here is finally beautiful!! Yeah, spring is here! :-)

 

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html