411 on BoiCalvin NYC

[letsgetnaked]

Headed to NYC next week.  BoiCalvin looks fun.  Any experience with him--please share

 

https://rent.men/BoiCalvin

[kaboom35]

There is lots of chatter about him on here.  Do a search 

[TumYum]

He is a very nice guy but before you commit to anything, find a nice way to ensure that he has ...ummhhh.... cleaned up his act a bit.

[pubic_assistance]

Sweet kid who's got a lot of emotional baggage.  Buyer Beware.

[letsgetnaked]

Thanks for the info. I am going to take a pass on him. Feels like I dodged a bullet. 

[TumYum]

3 minutes ago, letsgetnaked said:

Thanks for the info. I am going to take a pass on him. Feels like I dodged a bullet. 

Likely a smart move.

I met him when we started escorting and liked him a lot. But a series of bad choices made him less desirable, at least to me.

[urbanfetish]

I haven't seen him since pre-pandemic so it's been over a year and a half, but he was pretty good then. I hired him at least 3-4 times, which is a lot for me with one guy. (I like variety lol) Sorry to hear that he apparently has some issues to work through (or whatever is going on with him). I would recommend him based on my experience but again, it's been at least 18 months since I've hired him. Feel free to DM if you wish to share any updates. I'm just curious and wish him well.

[pubic_assistance]

He recently messaged me on Grindr with a request for some serious abuse and begging me to take ownership.

Above and beyond what I would call fantasy play.

So...yeah. He's a hard pass for me.

Pity. Was a nice kid at one time.

But there's some demons haunting this one.

[TumYum]

32 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

He recently messaged me on Grindr with a request for some serious abuse and begging me to take ownership.

Above and beyond what I would call fantasy play.

So...yeah. He's a hard pass for me.

Pity. Was a nice kid at one time.

But there's some demons haunting this one.

I am not going to make unfounded accusations or uninformed smears against someone. I will only relate what I know because I have directly witnessed it.

He has definitely fallen into an ugly form of recreational substance abuse. Let me leave it at that. As i said: first hand knowledge.

[pubic_assistance]

14 minutes ago, TumYum said:

He has definitely fallen into an ugly form of recreational substance abuse

Which makes sense as to why he is seeking full time ownership. Poor thing.

[BuffaloKyle]

He just uploaded a couple new pics. Got a new hairstyle I didn't even recognize him. I like it though. Going from twink to twunk.

[harlow]

I met him in DC during the summer of 2019.  Our session was basic and he was pretty mechanical so I never tried to meet him again.  I never knew of any personal issues he had but that might explain a few things.  He was a very nice and cordial guy though.  He does look A LOT better in his new photos so it looks like he's doing well.

[pubic_assistance]

On 12/1/2021 at 9:06 PM, harlow said:

looks like he's doing well.

Doubt it. Sent me some very disturbing messages on Grindr recently asking to submit to extreme S&M 

[TumYum]

14 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Doubt it. Sent me some very disturbing messages on Grindr recently asking to submit to extreme S&M 

Agreed. 

My last encounter with him did not exactly reek of emotional well being.

[harlow]

49 minutes ago, TumYum said:

Agreed. 

My last encounter with him did not exactly reek of emotional well being.

Ahh ok. Moving on then. 

[lionbrown]

Any recent info?

[kaboom35]

I’m curious that none of the previous comments about him has turned you off?

[lionbrown]

24 minutes ago, kaboom35 said:

I’m curious that none of the previous comments about him has turned you off?

Been a couple years. Positive RM reviews. 

[BuffaloKyle]

He had been getting a lot of "pictures are outdated" reviews so he posted some new pics on his profile. Pretty much out of the twink stage now and now a twunk.

[BuffaloKyle]

Just saw on his ad this posted:

Enjoy pretty much everything except partying; I no longer PNP anymore.

Hoping for his sake it's true. Especially because he states on his ad he's a nursing student. Because if he ever got in legal trouble related to drugs all that time and money spent would go instantly down the drain.

[pubic_assistance]

31 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Enjoy pretty much everything

Things can go pretty "dark" with him even without the partying.

BIG bdsm enthusiast

Nurse ?

That's a scary thought.

[philcaro]

He was clean, sober, and delightful last summer (2023).

[pubic_assistance]

19 hours ago, philcaro said:

He was clean, sober, and delightful last summer (2023).

Good to know he got clean and sober.

[handiacefailure]

Bumping this to see if there were any recent meetings.   He’s rated good on rentmen but we all know we cant trust their reviews and sound like he’s cleaned up his act on this thread but last review was a year ago.

I’m into kinkier stuff when I hire and he mentions kink and some of the stuff I’m into.   I like twunks and also like asian guys and it’s hard to find asian guys that tall

[NipLuvr212]

5 minutes ago, handiacefailure said:

Bumping this to see if there were any recent meetings.   He’s rated good on rentmen but we all know we cant trust their reviews and sound like he’s cleaned up his act on this thread but last review was a year ago.

I’m into kinkier stuff when I hire and he mentions kink and some of the stuff I’m into.   I like twunks and also like asian guys and it’s hard to find asian guys that tall

I met him when he was brand new to the scene and really enjoyed him.... I ALSO met him when he was in the depths of some "poor choices" in his life - and he truly had sunk into some dark places but yet was still a cool guy - have not seen him since he seems to have gotten his act together, but i can tell you that he aims to please, is a hot guy, and would be eager myself to see him again

if you meet him (and I hope you will) please share your experiences as well!