Fellow providers, how often do you follow up on profile visits?

[LJinSouthFlorida]

Question my fellow gentlemen of the night,

When you’re looking at your RM statistics and “who viewed me,” and you notice someone looking at your profile multiple times, do you reach out to them if they haven’t reached out to you? Or so you only respond to people who reach out to you first? What’s your opinion on this?

[Kevin Slater]

Never. If he’s looked at my profile several times, he’s already well aware of my existence.  Besides, I’m not interested in a prospective client I have to cajole through the process. 
 

Kevin Slater

Edited August 12, 2021 by Kevin Slater
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[+ nycman]

As a chronic window shopper, I’m glad most escorts don’t reach out. Also, my process 
for whittling down my prospective hiring list when I travel involves lots of OCD like opening 
and closing of ads pages for potential hires. It’s odd but for me it’s part of the fun.
I’d feel awkward if my ridiculous activity drew an escort’s attention, and I’d be self conscious
about looking at his ad in the future. 

Just thought escorts might want to hear the view from the other side as well. 
 

[Jamie21]

I don’t reach out to them. I respond to all enquiries and messages but if someone is just looking at my profile regularly but not contacting  me then I just leave them to it. If they’re interested they’ll ask eventually.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, LJinSouthFlorida said:

do you reach out to them if they haven’t reached out to you? 

nope

[Shawn Monroe]

If someone is window shopping, let them window shop. If they’re ready to meet and message I respond, but this is mostly a demand-driven business. Messaging first is often seen as intruding. 

[Rod Hagen]

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone.  if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

[+ IronMaus]

If they've viewed my page a lot and have descriptions and such in their profile I I'll strike up a conversation. I don't really see it as window shopping when they can see my butthole. It's more like they are picking up the sweater and I'm asking them "Is there anything I can help you find today?"

[Cure69]

11 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone.  if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

As someone who is still trying to figure out these waters, I would definitely appreciate this. I've looked at so many profiles but just don't conjure up the nerve to contact someone. If a provider were to reach out to me, that would mean so much to me and I'd definitely hire. (Still hoping to hire soon!)

3 hours ago, IronMaus said:

If they've viewed my page a lot and have descriptions and such in their profile I I'll strike up a conversation. I don't really see it as window shopping when they can see my butthole. It's more like they are picking up the sweater and I'm asking them "Is there anything I can help you find today?"

I love it 🙂

[Storm4U]

Never

[Guest davebk]

FYI as a client, I appreciate if they look at my profile and reply with a comment about something they *personally* enjoy with a client.  I'm much more likely to hire if I know they also enjoy something about me.  

If I receive a general "hey if you're interested..." it is never a negative to me, but chances are I'm not in that city yet or they didn't interest me.

[CalTec]

On 8/12/2021 at 5:13 PM, Kevin Slater said:

Never. If he’s looked at my profile several times, he’s already well aware of my existence.  Besides, I’m not interested in a prospective client I have to cajole through the process. 
 

Kevin Slater

This! 

[RadioRob]

As a client, there are times I might have several folks “shortlisted” especially when traveling. I have tabs open for ones I’m considering and as I narrow my selection down, close the tab of ones removed. That process might take several days. During that time it might appear that I viewed the profile several times as browser tabs reload etc. 

[jtwalker]

I don't think it is the norm to reach out, but there have been two occasions where I have hired someone because they did.  If I've visited a profile once, I'm not likely interested.  If I've visited more than once, I'm probably considering a few people.  If one of those who I am considering reaches out, that may just help me settle things.  Although, I do not wait for someone reach out to me first.  This isn't high school.

[mike carey]

On 8/14/2021 at 1:01 PM, Cure69 said:

love it 🙂

@IronMausis a nice guy!

[Cure69]

10 hours ago, mike carey said:

@IronMausis a nice guy!

I see. 😊 (It's actually very refreshing)