Findomination

[+ purplekow]

I just finished reading an article in the Sunday NYT from about 2 weeks ago about financial domination.   I do not see the allure but does anyone here indulge in such activity?  In this article, the woman interviewed stated that most of her interaction is virtual.  The article began with a description of her in a 4 BR AirBNB with a large pool and an ocean view and with her putting out a text asking for money to pay for expenses and a catered dinner she was having Brought in for several friends.   She succeeded in having all the expenses covered rather easily.     

[MikeBiDude]

Some posts in findom here.

[MscleLovr]

Personally @purplekow I feel this topic should be in the Fetish Forum. 

[Quincy_7]

What's the point of handing over a wad of cash without getting to play with the goods?

[BluDay]

It's a kink that is often derided by people in BDSM, there is an article on the gay version here: https://sadosam.com/findom-paypig-your-service-and-your-money/

If you are into this, it can be great, provided the other side is ethical. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, Quincy_7 said:

What's the point of handing over a wad of cash without getting to play with the goods?

 

That you don't/can't understand that means you're not a ideal candidate for tinkering in findom.

 

2 hours ago, BluDay said:

If you are into this, it can be great, provided the other side is ethical. 

 

This.  Trust in the other party is the bedrock of any activity involving giving up your power.  

Like I've always said, it's mighty difficult to expect ethical behavior in a mostly unregulated industry. 

Daddy's Reviews was/is one of the few things left on the web that held escorts accountable for their actions.

[SubNick]

I have had some findom relationships, but its hard to find someone I trust. 

[Guest]

...Money for nothin’ and kicks for free...

No interest here...money is too hard to earn!

[Quincy_7]

9 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

 

That you don't/can't understand that means you're not a ideal candidate for tinkering in findom.

 

You're right. I've never been a simp.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

11 hours ago, Quincy_7 said:

You're right. I've never been a simp.

It's ironic that a board dedicated to sex workers can't openly discuss sexuality without it becoming judgemental.

It might not be your thing, but that doesn't make wrong or bad.  

 

Edited May 25, 2021 by Benjamin_Nicholas
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