+ harey Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 If 3 or more are true, then it’s a scam. Photos look like a 22 year old European fitness model Traveling through your area The profile is new and/or the reviewer profile is new Into PNP Dodgy profile text such as “You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t already agree that you have a craving to fill, a curiosity to explore, a fire to spark. So..DO IT—pamper your soul.” AceHardware, liubit, jtwalker and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dixietony Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 If 3 or more are true, then it’s a scam. Photos look like a 22 year old European fitness model Traveling through your area The profile is new and/or the reviewer profile is new Into PNP Dodgy profile text such as “You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t already agree that you have a craving to fill, a curiosity to explore, a fire to spark. So..DO IT—pamper your soul.” I'm out of touch. What is PNP? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyBoomer Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 I'm out of touch. What is PNP? PNP = Party 'N' ' Play. Drugs. ~Boomer~ AceHardware, + harey and dixietony 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dixietony Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 PNP = Party 'N' ' Play. Drugs. ~Boomer~ Thanks. Your checklist is accurate. + harey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orville Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 (edited) Excellent thread @harey !! I will add my 2 cents: - All "into's" checked. - No reviews from long-established RM clients. - Asks for upfront deposit before the meeting. - generic/cliche copy-n-paste: "High Class", "unrushed session", "meaningful connection", "satisfaction guaranteed". Edited February 8, 2021 by orville + harey, + Hoover42, + FrankR and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Many, many (ALL) quality providers I have seen ask for a security deposit, old or new Interesting. Over the years I’ve encountered it less than 5% of the time and have always passed. Haven’t encountered it at all in the past few years. EastbayMike, Rocky93, CastaDiva and 8 others 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Interesting. Over the years I’ve encountered it less than 5% of the time and have always passed. Haven’t encountered it at all in the past few years. I agree...the deposit situation is pretty rare. I've only encountered it a few times and only actually paid a deposit once. I do like the scammer suggestions. Particularly phrases like "high-class," "exclusive," or "looking for classy men only." I remember seeing one ad a while back that said they would only travel to four-star hotels or gated/doorman apartment complexes. I feel like it's a big red flag anytime I'm getting a sense they are looking for sugar daddies rather than clients. EastbayMike, + harey, + glutes and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orville Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Particularly phrases like "high-class," "exclusive," or "looking for classy men only." Whenever I see they write "I'm not for everyone", I read in my mind "You're not for anyone". ? + harey, + Hoover42, + keroscenefire and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 I'll add a couple as well: 1) Fuzzy, dated or otherwise poor resolution photos. 2) Frequently changing usernames. 3) Refusal to show their face even privately 4) "Ask Me" for Orientation and/or Position. 5) 5 year old profile with no reviews. AceHardware, + harey, + glutes and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orville Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 OMG, FFS! @StarGZ and @VictorXX why don't you please stop hijacking this thread and go back to promote your/self/friend in that thread that nobody's watching? EastbayMike, + Hoover42, AceHardware and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DERRIK Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Doesn’t participate in the forum jtwalker 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 All upscale escorts I’ve hired/more good looking/etc required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. They have three people wanting a same time slot, so they CAN select who is really serious about them. If they are so busy, then they won't need you to defend them here. Can we move back to the original topic please? Rocky93, + harey, + glutes and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TT3690 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 I would agree with the 5% of guys asking for deposits, and even then it's usually a longer appointment or lots of travel or some sort of reason. + keroscenefire and LTH 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy Fawkes Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 Security deposits are not recommended. All upscale escorts I’ve hired/more good looking/etc required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. They have three people wanting a same time slot, so they CAN select who is really serious about them. Other escorts who are low balls/accept any deal/do not value their own time, are usually a red flag because they’d be booked solid if they were Good at what they do. If you ask escorts, most clients/people who reach out to them are flakes, will not show up, and waste their time. I heard from escorts it gets old and from a mental health perspective, a deposit is the only way of keeping some sort of sanity/respect with their lives. Escorts who do not ask for security deposit AT THE LEAST eventually overbook (as in, book two clients for same time, etc, because invariably someone will not show up. So I’ve had friends without a security deposit get stood up from an overbooking). What certain escorts offer is unique, and all upscale escorts I’ve hired required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. Reviews and a videocall are all you need to verify who’s real and who’s not. KeepItReal, BabyBoomer, + keroscenefire and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ MysticMenace Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 OMG, FFS! @StarGZ and @VictorXX why don't you please stop hijacking this thread and go back to promote your/self/friend in that thread that nobody's watching? Lol. I love the restraint. width=986pxhttp://pa1.narvii.com/5845/c3be64d4518ff6eef80ce5d4f9551dfe571cae6d_00.gif[/img] + harey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 2) Frequently changing usernames. That's a good one...definitely one that I've seen. The moment they get any bad reviews they delete their old profile and start anew. I'll add one more: Guys that aggressively message you simply because you browsed their photos. orville, jtwalker and seattlebottom 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ MysticMenace Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 certain folks are #triggered (or if you are not triggered, I dare you to hit dislike or any negative reaction buttons...do it!) if I may add the following to the list: (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that are overeager to defend certain provider accounts flagged as "sketchy' or potentially fraudulent (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that seem to 'copy-and-paste' the same line about certain provider accounts (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that try to create unwarranted noise to bring any attention to a seemingly fading provider account (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that seem to preach the same stuff mentioned in a provider account's elementary-level website lol, this felt good - feeling a lil extra messy today. haha + keroscenefire, AceHardware, DruJac and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 Another dead giveaway: "I'm not a scammer" BuzzLiteQueer, Rocky93, + harey and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 "All upscale escorts I’ve hired/more good looking/etc required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. They have three people wanting a same time slot, so they CAN select who is really serious about them." If I start running into this, I'll quit hiring. And I bet my partners are just as hot as yours and nicer too! Emir, + harey, rvwnsd and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ harey Posted February 9, 2021 Author Share Posted February 9, 2021 certain folks are #triggered (or if you are not triggered, I dare you to hit dislike or any negative reaction buttons...do it!) if I may add the following to the list: (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that are overeager to defend certain provider accounts flagged as "sketchy' or potentially fraudulent (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that seem to 'copy-and-paste' the same line about certain provider accounts (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that try to create unwarranted noise to bring any attention to a seemingly fading provider account (multiple) user or reviewer accounts that seem to preach the same stuff mentioned in a provider account's elementary-level website lol, this felt good - feeling a lil extra messy today. haha Oh, good. I’ve been waiting to see your messy side. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ harey Posted February 9, 2021 Author Share Posted February 9, 2021 Another dead giveaway: "I'm not a scammer" jtwalker, + glutes, Leyte2019 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aaron James Posted February 10, 2021 Share Posted February 10, 2021 There also seems to be a correlation between the number of emojis used in a profile and the likelihood of being a scammer. Back to Joe’s post, any profile trying for attention that reads ???❤️❤️❤️????????????✨✨✨✨✨ is probably fake. marylander1940, + azdr0710, Emir and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LTH Posted February 13, 2021 Share Posted February 13, 2021 All upscale escorts I’ve hired/more good looking/etc required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. They have three people wanting a same time slot, so they CAN select who is really serious about them. Other escorts who are low balls/accept any deal/do not value their own time, are usually a red flag because they’d be booked solid if they were Good at what they do. If you ask escorts, most clients/people who reach out to them are flakes, will not show up, and waste their time. I heard from escorts it gets old and from a mental health perspective, a deposit is the only way of keeping some sort of sanity/respect with their lives. Escorts who do not ask for security deposit AT THE LEAST eventually overbook (as in, book two clients for same time, etc, because invariably someone will not show up. So I’ve had friends without a security deposit get stood up from an overbooking). What certain escorts offer is unique, and all upscale escorts I’ve hired required a security deposit, and everything went seamlessly. Reviews and a videocall are all you need to verify who’s real and who’s not. There's nothing RISK-FREE in this World. If they want a SURE-PAY, get a REAL JOB! jtwalker, Rocky93, Emir and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rocky93 Posted February 13, 2021 Share Posted February 13, 2021 I've hired the best in the business, some top names over many years . . . never paid a deposit. Only once did I pay before the services and the damn guy ran off with money!!! I WOULD NEVER PAY A DEPOSIT . . . EVER. AceHardware, MikeBiDude, Emir and 8 others 9 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 13, 2021 Share Posted February 13, 2021 Another dead giveaway: "I'm not a scammer" "My pictures are recent and verified" rvwnsd, jtwalker and marylander1940 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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