What makes a good top?

[lonely_john]

Here’s my checklist:

 

- dominant

- bulky

- latin

- 7”+

[RomanticRick]

Just this one man - https://rent.men/Ninexseven

[tanman4u]

Ability to get it up and keep it up, even for an old MF'er like me

[jonnychgo]

Just this one man - https://rent.men/Ninexseven

He's incredible. HUGE, but can be very intimate and sensual or hard core pound it out top. He definitely is what he advertises.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Keeping it hard and focusing in delivering pleasure to his partner, without harming him.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

A good top is 60% attitude/swagger and 40% how he actually performs in the bedroom.

 

In the words of a slutty George Gershwin:

 

I got Grindr...

I got slick lube...

I got pounded...

Who could ask for anything more?

 

The failure usually comes when a top can't find a rhythm or read the room when the bottom isn't enjoying the fuck.

[lonely_john]

My duplicate post where I was asking escorts instead of clients was closed so I’m pasting those answers here to merge the conversation : )

 

@keroscenefire - I would say I'm more into qualities than types. A good top to me is someone who knows how to both respect and push the boundaries of the bottom. Someone willing to take the time to get the bottom nice and ready and then once they are, ready to really give it to them for their own pleasure as much as the bottoms.

[lonely_john]

@purplekow - Hip movement.

[lonely_john]

@ArVaGuy - An insatiable bottom.

[lonely_john]

[uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] - Someone who takes his time in the beginning opening my tight hole

[lonely_john]

@Keith30309 - I almost never bottom any more because I ran across a string of tops who appeared to be totally in it for their own pleasure. When I top a paid companion I take care to to to ensure they are enjoying it as much as me and I’ll be damned if I’m going to pay to be used. (Not that there’s anything wrong with that... just not for me.)

[lonely_john]

@VictorPowers replying to @ArVaGuy :

"An insatiable bottom."

Bottom makes the top? How the tables have turned!

[bendable2019]

[uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] - Someone who takes his time in the beginning opening my tight hole

 

And the loose holes? One lightning strike and glide pride ? ???

[lonely_john]

And the loose holes? One lightning strike and glide pride ? ???

OMG LOL! I don't even know how to interpret that. I think a good top will always tell you "Wow, you are very tight!" regardless

[TruthBTold]

I think it depends on the bottom. The top has to read that. For me I enjoy playing with a top as if he were a bottom but then having him turn the tables and make me the bottom and enjoy it. He certainly can please himself at the same time (in fact that is preferable) but that feeling of being overpowered is what I like.

[lonely_john]

I think it depends on the bottom. The top has to read that. For me I enjoy playing with a top as if he were a bottom but then having him turn the tables and make me the bottom and enjoy it. He certainly can please himself at the same time (in fact that is preferable) but that feeling of being overpowered is what I like.

 

I like being utterly dominated too ?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I like being utterly dominated too ?

 

How about udderly dominated?

 

[TruthBTold]

How about udderly dominated?

 

 

That gets much more into the female area. I guess if you are into the bisexual thing.

[CuriousByNature]

That gets much more into the female area. I guess if you are into the bisexual thing.

Or the bovinesexual thing

[lonely_john]

How about udderly dominated?

 

This reminds me one of my fantasies is sucking several cocks at the same time. One day ... ??????

[lonely_john]

That gets much more into the female area. I guess if you are into the bisexual thing.

 

Another fantasy is sucking a straight guy while he eats a woman out. That kind of job is too expensive in the escorting world. a friend already recommended me going to Cuba where one can get that for a fraction of the cost. ?

[mike carey]

I've started watching a young escort here who claims to be straight and offers 'things that your partner won't do'. He specifically talks about seduction of a top into being a bottom and similar scenes. I must say I'm tempted.

[Smurof]

Girth, Duration, Hardness. GDH should be in the Urban Dictionary.

[BasketBaller]

There are several qualities that I want a top to have. Patience, at least at first, the ability to read my reactions and respond to them, imagination (I like variety in positions and rhythm), and stamina (I, ahem, like long sessions or more than one round). Size matters some but it's far more important that he knows what to do with it. And I prefer guys who get super hard.

 

I'm not interested in him being dominant, but if he's got what it takes and is making my eyes roll back, I go more or less into a trance so he'll be making the decisions from that point on.

[bendable2019]

OMG LOL! I don't even know how to interpret that. I think a good top will always tell you "Wow, you are very tight!" regardless

 

LOL ! I get that a lot. My squeaky clean lil hole just cannot contain those huge schlongs... I need a professional to crack my hymen lol