Is 90 minutes too long to book?

[rjk2429]

Have been hiring masseurs for a couple of years and actually had a great regular guy that had about half massage/half great sex. He has moved out of the area and I have been trying to find a new guy. None of the masseurs I've been seeing have really "clicked" so looking to skip the massage part and trying an escort.

 

So, I dig sex big-time but (having never hired an escort before), curious if 90 minutes is too long of a session to book right off the bat. I generally prefer to have sex, lounge/spoon/doze then go for round 2. Is that weird or will the escort really just want me to get the heck out?

[+ poolboy48220]

I usually book for just an hour for a first session with a guy, and if we click, I'll look into longer times when I see him again. Lots of guys offer rates for more than an hour, best to ask the individual guy..

[+ ArVaGuy]

I only book two hour escort sessions. For me, an hour is too rushed and cheapens the experience. I’d rather have a slower pace that allows time to at least get to know each other. I’ve learned some fascinating details about guys and gained a lot of respect for the top tier providers. Most guys will discount the second hour if you ask politely.

 

Regarding masseurs my preference is for 90 minutes for a legit massage. I work in an intense and highly stressful job so my muscles are Party tense. A longer appointment is better for alleviating tension.

[+ Pensant]

I only book two hour escort sessions. For me, an hour is too rushed and cheapens the experience. I’d rather have a slower pace that allows time to at least get to know each other. I’ve learned some fascinating details about guys and gained a lot of respect for the top tier providers. Most guys will discount the second hour if you ask politely.

 

Regarding masseurs my preference is for 90 minutes for a legit massage. I work in an intense and highly stressful job so my muscles are Party tense. A longer appointment is better for alleviating tension.

Same here. Always two hours. And always 90 minutes for a therapeutic deep-tissue massage.

[MikeBiDude]

Always minimum 90 mins for me. 2 hours preferred *after* an initial session to size up the masseur/experience.

[Rod Hagen]

I find the Combo, one hour massage followed by one hour of escorting, works nicely :-)

[MikeBiDude]

I find the Combo, one hour massage followed by one hour of escorting, works nicely

That can be the best!

[+ Funguy]

yup

[HotWhiteThirties]

I would say no. Not long enough at all for my tastes. 90 minutes for a massage only maybe? 3 hours or more for anything else; prefer longer if it’s possible. Everyone has a different preference, so to each his own.

[+ bashful]

It depends on who you hire. Some will be a good match, some won't.

 

The first time I booked 90 minutes, it was such an exciting time, I was in the shower cleaning off after one hour. He only asked for his one hour rate. So nice of him, and unexpected. He's now retired.

 

My other experience was when I booked a guy, and said I was interested in a "boy friend experience". I asked if he thought 60 or 90 minutes would be best. He said 90 minutes. In hindsight, I wish I only booked 60 minutes.

[hypothetically]

curious if 90 minutes is too long of a session to book right off the bat.

 

not so long as you’re paying.

[rjk2429]

not so long as you’re paying.

Nice one!

[gallahadesquire]

I book three hours. I’m one of those guys who have to talk a bit before and after.

 

And I love late afternoon appointments, se we can have an off-the-clock dinner. With current economics, though, I might cut to two hours and bring sandwiches.

[rjk2429]

I book three hours. I’m one of those guys who have to talk a bit before and after.

 

And I love late afternoon appointments, se we can have an off-the-clock dinner. With current economics, though, I might cut to two hours and bring sandwiches.

LOL!

[mike carey]

If you are booking an appointment with an escort, no time is too long or too short, do what you want to do. That said, you may find an hour is too rushed, and an extended period makes for better play and more fun. I would say start with two hours and work out after your first meeting if that is enough, too much, or not enough time. For me, if it were @peterhung85, @tristanbaldwin or some others, 90 minutes would not be enough.

[+ keroscenefire]

In my opinion 90 minutes is the right balance for escort experiences and first-time escort experiences especially. Gives time to get to know each other a bit. I often suggest grabbing a drink at a nearby bar (hotel bars are perfect for this if they are hosting) then moving up to the room for the rest of the time. Then in subsequent sessions you can decide if a 60 minute is enough time or go for even longer.

 

It often works out well budget-wise too..a lot of escorts are willing to do $300-$400 for 90 minutes where I feel 2 hours plus is going to be $500 or more. So a little bit less time but still able to have a nice, non-rushed time often with a bit of massage or something thrown in or time to have a glass of wine or a cocktail if you're into that.

[+ poolboy48220]

Jet Black was $300 for an hour and $450 for two. Man, I miss that guy.

[Montyd]

I always do 90 min erotic massage, and 2 hours with an escort. The provider should know how to manage the time, and I can always slow things down if I want. One hour just never works for me.

[+ VictorPowers]

90 can be a great sweet spot for time. This is not a huge time commitment for the provider so flexibility is likely. Also you don’t have to break the bank on a longer session. I approve the 90 min. session.

[+ peterhung85]

Indeed, 90 minutes is a good amount of time, btw, almost all of my 1 hour clients end up staying for 90 minutes, but I am typically always paid for 1 hour. No complaints here whatsoever, I appreciate everyone's business, I am just saying that from my perspective - as a gold standard - that is how long my clients end up staying anyway

[+ tristanbaldwin]

@mike carey ; 90 minutes in, we haven’t even finished our first bottle of wine! We haven‘t even gotten to the session yet; just the off the clock stuff! LOL

[mike carey]

@mike carey ; 90 minutes in, we haven’t even finished our first bottle of wine! We haven‘t even gotten to the session yet; just the off the clock stuff! LOL

Shhh! Don't tell everyone.

[+ tristanbaldwin]

Shhh! Don't tell everyone.

Methinks you and I have that connection, along with a select other few. Wine Tasting Club, we’ll call It.

[+ JEC]

90 min is my favorite appt length. No rushing, should allow time for a shower before, after or both - and may some time for pillow talk. 120 might be too long for a first meeting, if the chemistry is not great this could end up feeling like 5 hours. Generally, I will book 60m for a first meeting unless our pre-meeting conversation tells me it's going to be a great encounter.

[Islesguy]

Methinks you and I have that connection, along with a select other few. Wine Tasting Club, we’ll call It.

How do I get in on this? I love wine.