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In one of my more melancholy moments, I was envisioning my death bed and in conjuring this image, I considered that I would want to leave this realm in the strong and secure arms of a beautiful man. I am curious if there are escorts out there who would be willing to be hired for such a job. Not that I am looking to hire at this time, just in general, would any escorts out there be willing to perform such a service?

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It would surprise me if the prospect of someone passing while in their arms would be appealing regardless of the financial compensation, but every pot has a lid.

There are programs that people can take to be certified as a 'death doula' - sort of like a midwife (midhusband?) to help the dying individual through that final transition.

 

For those providers who have a natural caring and compassonate character, becoming certified as a death doula could be a way of serving community members at the most intensely personal point of their lives.

 

I dont know what the compensation is for that type of work, but I have a feeling that becoming a death doula would appeal mostly to those who are not primarily motivated by the remuneration factor anyway. I imagine one could also focus their doula services on members of the LGTBQ community specifically, and do the work on a strictly part-time/ on-call basis if so desired.

 

It would be important for anyone considering this sort of work to have a good support system as well. Helping someone through death is understandably draining on an emotional and psychological level.

 

I imagine there are many escorts out there who genuinely enjoy bringing happiness and fulfilment to the men who hire them for intimacy, and I would not be surprised if these same guys would also make excellent doulas. ?

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In one of my more melancholy moments, I was envisioning my death bed and in conjuring this image, I considered that I would want to leave this realm in the strong and secure arms of a beautiful man. I am curious if there are escorts out there who would be willing to be hired for such a job. Not that I am looking to hire at this time, just in general, would any escorts out there be willing to perform such a service?

I’ve walked with several of my Clients and family members to the goal post~ (And of course both Nanook and Raison who died natural unassisted deaths...)~ Sometimes their family members are there as well...

I’ve also attended their services, spoken to the attending group and spoken privately to on their behalf things they wanted to express to other family & friends~

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It would surprise me if the prospect of someone passing while in their arms would be appealing regardless of the financial compensation, but every pot has a lid.

Appealing~? More of a matter of importance and compassion~ There can be beauty in that~ It is a profound moment~

When Nanook, (my wolf companion), got older, I used money id saved up from work to be with him during his old age... (knowing I would be working less and caring for him more then). When he lost his mobility, I carried him around the block to visit his friends, I carried him across sand dunes to sit by the ocean... into the mountains to be in the trees~ I propped him up with pillows and took him on “made up” errands simply because his will and spirit to live was strong~

Despite his failing body his spirit for life remained strong and he persisted with eagerness to be part of the world and each day~

On his last day, I was with him on the bed, (king sized mattress on the floor), he called out to me... I knew that this was his time, I held him in my arms telling him I’d promised to be with him thru his last breath... I told him I was there and with him, that I love him with all of my heart and forever, that he and our life together is inside of me united... I drew in his last breath and held it until I couldn’t any longer.

I slept next to him thru the night and bathed him in the morning... took him to “dignified pet” in Tualitan, Oregon to be cremated but, was protective and would not let anyone touch him. I put him in the kilm myself, closed the door, pushed the button and stayed there until it was done... removed his fragile bones from the kiln and put them into a box with my hair, (I grew a long Mohawk braid of hair for him prior to his death for this purpose), and his collar and fur...

One of the most powerful and meaningful moments of my life~

Dedicated Love exchange~

Nearly all else pales in comparison~

There was immense beauty in that~ It stays with me forever~

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Appealing~? More of a matter of importance and compassion~ There can be beauty in that~ It is a profound moment~

When Nanook, (my wolf companion), got older, I used money id saved up from work to be with him during his old age... (knowing I would be working less and caring for him more then). When he lost his mobility, I carried him around the block to visit his friends, I carried him across sand dunes to sit by the ocean... into the mountains to be in the trees~ I propped him up with pillows and took him on “made up” errands simply because his will and spirit to live was strong~

Despite his failing body his spirit for life remained strong and he persisted with eagerness to be part of the world and each day~

On his last day, I was with him on the bed, (king sized mattress on the floor), he called out to me... I knew that this was his time, I held him in my arms telling him I’d promised to be with him thru his last breath... I told him I was there and with him, that I love him with all of my heart and forever, that he and our life together is inside of me united... I drew in his last breath and held it until I couldn’t any longer.

I slept next to him thru the night and bathed him in the morning... took him to “dignified pet” in Tualitan, Oregon to be cremated but, was protective and would not let anyone touch him. I put him in the kilm myself, closed the door, pushed the button and stayed there until it was done... removed his fragile bones from the kiln and put them into a box with my hair, (I grew a long Mohawk braid of hair for him prior to his death for this purpose), and his collar and fur...

One of the most powerful and meaningful moments of my life~

Dedicated Love exchange~

Nearly all else pales in comparison~

There was immense beauty in that~ It stays with me forever~

Your view is understandable and appreciated, however, my posting was addressing a random escort-client arrangement. I'm sure you understand there is a HUGE difference between a random client and a life companion.

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Yes, I can think of several. It does require a very special person but they do exist.

 

In one of my more melancholy moments, I was envisioning my death bed and in conjuring this image, I considered that I would want to leave this realm in the strong and secure arms of a beautiful man. I am curious if there are escorts out there who would be willing to be hired for such a job. Not that I am looking to hire at this time, just in general, would any escorts out there be willing to perform such a service?
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Tyger you had told me this story in person but seeing it in writing was even more moving. I think it is the power of the written word to be eternal that made that so. I hope Micheal Jackson (the cat not the singer, who ...spoiler alert....is dead) is doing well.

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Wow, mixed thoughts here. While, on the cusp of my passing, would I like nothing more than to have a handsome, strong, man holding me and letting me drift in to where ever, yeah maybe I would. I do have an escort I've seen for 20 years and while lots has changed since then, having me by myside holding me, that would be great. And while not out, I wouldn't have to explain to family

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