How would you prefer to find an escort?

[Bentley_xxl]

Hello Gentleman,

 

As a newer escort, I was looking to crowd source an opinion as to where you would prefer to meet your escorts. I've been toying around with the idea of taking it to the streets and looking for potential clients in person. My contention is that meeting someone in person would give (potential) clients a better idea of my personality and character with the added benefit of proving that I am real in a way that an online profile cannot. At this point in my life, I've learned to yield to experience and look forward to hearing what you guys have to say.

[sexymonk]

Hello Gentleman,

 

As a newer escort, I was looking to crowd source an opinion as to where you would prefer to meet your escorts. I've been toying around with the idea of taking it to the streets and looking for potential clients in person. My contention is that meeting someone in person would give (potential) clients a better idea of my personality and character with the added benefit of proving that I am real in a way that an online profile cannot. At this point in my life, I've learned to yield to experience and look forward to hearing what you guys have to say.

Rentmen, massuerfinder are predominant site in USA and planet Romeo in Europe.

[+ azdr0710]

Hey Bentley! (you and I met a few weeks ago)

 

Consider attending the periodic forum meets coming up. DC in January and Palm Springs in April. Also, the various Adonis events in LA and NY. Travel required, of course.

 

Good to have you on the forum. Guys and gals: Bentley is one of the good guys!!

[mike carey]

Hi @Bentley_xxl welcome to the forum. I would echo @azdr0710's comments. Openness here is a good way to broaden your appeal, although this is only a small proportion of the market. I don't know that seeking clients in public is the answer, in those settings you have no idea if people are even open to a meeting (but it's worth trying). There is always a market for built guys (swoon), but if you limit how far you will go, you need to be clear about that (as you are in your RM ad).

[+ g56whiz]

Naked. In my bed, And erect!

[+ OliverSaks]

It’s been said many times before, but having an introduction video on RM that shows your personality a bit can go a long way vs. strictly pics and text

 

Also, include the working link to your ad on your profile here

(https://rent.men/Bentley_xxl/)

 

If you have any questions, feel free to PM

[Rod Hagen]

In the old days just the fact that there were men on Santa Monica Boulevard excited me; I envied their balls to do it out in the open.

[former lurker]

Hello Gentleman,

 

As a newer escort, I was looking to crowd source an opinion as to where you would prefer to meet your escorts. I've been toying around with the idea of taking it to the streets and looking for potential clients in person. My contention is that meeting someone in person would give (potential) clients a better idea of my personality and character with the added benefit of proving that I am real in a way that an online profile cannot. At this point in my life, I've learned to yield to experience and look forward to hearing what you guys have to say.

 

I would bet that many potential clients would jump at the chance to meet you at some neutral locations in advance of setting a closed-door appointment. Meeting for coffee or a snack would be a low-cost means of connecting in person on neutral turf.

[former lurker]

Hello Gentleman,

 

As a newer escort, I was looking to crowd source an opinion as to where you would prefer to meet your escorts. I've been toying around with the idea of taking it to the streets and looking for potential clients in person. My contention is that meeting someone in person would give (potential) clients a better idea of my personality and character with the added benefit of proving that I am real in a way that an online profile cannot. At this point in my life, I've learned to yield to experience and look forward to hearing what you guys have to say.

 

I would bet that many potential clients would jump at the chance to meet you at some neutral locations in advance of setting a closed-door appointment. Meeting for coffee or a snack would be a low-cost means of connecting in person on neutral turf.

[RyanDean]

Hope to meet you in person at this year's Palm Springs meetup, @Bentley_xxl!

[RyanDean]

Hope to meet you in person at this year's Palm Springs meetup, @Bentley_xxl!

[Bentley_xxl]

Thank you for the help you guys. I'll definitely be going to the Palm Springs meet up, @azdr0710 . And I think another reason I was looking to meet in person is to cut down on the dismissive and disrespectful messages I get daily @mike carey . But I guess that is just the nature of the business and I'll see you there @RyanDean , I'm looking forward to it.

[DallasClient]

And I think another reason I was looking to meet in person is to cut down on the dismissive and disrespectful messages I get daily

 

I will never understand why some people need to send an unsolicited nasty message to someone. I believe people show their true selves by the way they act when they remain anonymous.

[Epigonos]

Welcome to the forum Bentley_xxl. Glad to hear you are planning to attend the Palm Springs Weekend. One MAJOR advantage with this site, over others, is that those of us who participate here are accustomed to hiring escorts. As a rule, there are always exceptions, we appreciate the services escorts provide and treat them politely and with respect. One thing you might consider is that the guys here are generally older - 50+. I for example am 79.

When I look at your photographs I find that you are very much the physical type of guy I like to hire. My problem is that the number of activities you list as being into is very limited.

 

P.S. Rereading your profile I see that you are a Scorpio, so am I thus if we ever manage to get together we should be able to set the sheets afire.

[realeasymoney]

The best way by far was the hustler bar atmosphere. You got to check people out with no obligations and go from there if the interest was mutual.

[+ Gar1eth]

Bentley,

 

While this isn't in direct response to your question. In case you didn't know, it's possible to put a working RM link in your signature. The way you have it listed now it isn't. With an active link in your signature, it appears in your posts (except maybe on mobile phones which, at least in my case, don't usually show signatures) for people to look at your ad.

 

Gman

[+ 7829V]

Hello Gentleman,

 

As a newer escort, I was looking to crowd source an opinion as to where you would prefer to meet your escorts. I've been toying around with the idea of taking it to the streets and looking for potential clients in person. My contention is that meeting someone in person would give (potential) clients a better idea of my personality and character with the added benefit of proving that I am real in a way that an online profile cannot. At this point in my life, I've learned to yield to experience and look forward to hearing what you guys have to say.

Why does an escort decide to select ‘ask me’ when it comes to position? I’d like to know that before sending the first message. Everything else for me can be negotiable for me. But not position.

[Bentley_xxl]

Yeah I had a problem with that too @7829V but as far as rentment goes they consider it to be a required field. Personally, I found that and including the length of my 'unit' to send the wrong type of message considering the type of services I'm willing to provide to clients. It remains a mystery to me @DallasClient but it happens to me on all the days that end in 'y'. Thanks for the suggestion @Gar1eth I've been having a little problem with that when I try inserting the link but I will keep trying. And I'll be sure to see you there @Epigonos always look forward to meeting new people.

[+ m_writer]

@Bentley_xxl I think what you're doing is helpful in itself. You're interacting with people on the forum and showing your professional nature and getting to know people. Plus, the Palm Springs forum event is always a nice way to meet others (and I look forward to meeting you given your posts and how some of the forum members give you a thumbs up).

 

Just continue to network where you can and you'll get there. Don't be discouraged.

[Mikegaite]

There’s obviously a huge advantage to posting here, being “discovered”, and having threads and PMs of the people who want to hire you just appear. As we are an internet community, it’s likely people here will primarily hire via the internet. However, there is a method of high-class hustling to pick up clients in public locales. All the skills you need to do it— confidence, charm, wit, looks, etc.—you undoubtedly already have. I had a female escort friend teach me a few tricks as well.

 

The most common way is to appear as a Gogo boy, do you’re stage appearance, then go out into the audience and try to find the people who want to hire you. I have found clients in other non traditional venues, such as museums and gyms and fast food joints, to make a few.

 

There are people who very much want to hire without looking on rentmen. It’s hard work, no doubt. But I have met some of my favorite clients outside of the forum or daddy’s or rentmen. There’s still that thrill of trying to pick up someone up in person that i just don’t get when someone picks me bc they used map clicks, I was the fourth closest away, and their top three choices weren’t available.

[mike carey]

I have found clients in other non traditional venues, such as museums and gyms and fast food joints, to make a few.

Mike, that's amazing, I wouldn't have the balls to even ask much less assume that someone in those settings was available for hire. A non-functioning gaydar means I probably wouldn't even notice someone was interested there.

[BaronArtz]

My favorite way of discovering talent is by word of mouth. A friend recommended 'JustinHerring' before he had an ad up. Some of my current favs were discovered that way. Although they had an ad on RM, I didn't look at them until a friend recommended them - there are just wayyyyy too many ads here in NY. Who has time to look at them all? It may take a long time to build up a client base that way though.

 

You can be creative about 'taking it to the streets'. Dancing or being at gogo events could be helpful. Or you could hang out at a cruisy gay bar. I don't know if any of those are available in Phoenix, AZ.

[Guest davebk]

If you're flying much, keep your head on a swivel in airports and at the gate area. There's not much to do there except look around and I've carefully sat next to guys I found to be hot, struck up a conversation and once hired, and once hooked up upon landing in the city where we were traveling. If the conversation goes well or starts up and is at all flirtatious, with the guy I hired, I asked what he did, he said he was a masseur, and the conversation went from there.