Lost interest in hiring?

[Rudynate]

I haven't lost interest, but I hire very selectively. At the moment, I can only think of a couple guys that I have serious interest in.

[+ 7829V]

I haven't lost interest, but I hire very selectively. At the moment, I can only think of a couple guys that I have serious interest in.

Same feeling. I haven't hired since march, and I don't feel the need. There are a couple of guys I'd hire, but there's no rush. But I'm lucky that I've a close friend (FWB in his late 20s) that stays overnight at my place 4-5 a week. He enjoys sleeping with me. And sex does not always happen. I think I'm lucky in that regard.

[robberbaron4u]

Ah, me! "Farming" for suitable escorts is becoming tiresome. I have been contacted by a former escort, recently widowed, who wanted to know if I had found "true love" which, I surmise, was an opener for "I'm fifty years old now, my partner's children are suing me and I need a new mark to exploit". That his former "partners", elderly "daddies", appear to decease "unexpectedly" within a year of signing over their real property to him.

[MscleLovr]

Ah, me! "Farming" for suitable escorts is becoming tiresome. I have been contacted by a former escort, recently widowed, who wanted to know if I had found "true love" which, I surmise, was an opener for "I'm fifty years old now, my partner's children are suing me and I need a new mark to exploit". That his former "partners", elderly "daddies", appear to decease "unexpectedly" within a year of signing over their real property to him.

 

You may be considered cynical @robberbaron4u but I think you are wise.

 

An older man confided to me years ago that he hadn’t handed any of his money over to his children - “that way they have to keep visiting and look after me”.

[+ sf westcoaster]

As the days have become weeks and the weeks months I find that my interest in hiring becomes less and less. If and when we return to some form of "normal" I may reach out to one of my regulars but at this point in time I am not at all certain that I will.

[shadowcatzxxx]

Same feeling. I haven't hired since march, and I don't feel the need. There are a couple of guys I'd hire, but there's no rush. But I'm lucky that I've a close friend (FWB in his late 20s) that stays overnight at my place 4-5 a week. He enjoys sleeping with me. And sex does not always happen. I think I'm lucky in that regard.

Interesting that you seem to be lucky in the same way that I got lucky ... just before the whole pandemic thing became serious. Met an unfathomably handsome (for me) young south american guy on Grindr, interested in "daddies" and - in an early message - mentioned "generous regular." We met at a restaurant, then had an in-house date the following week. He's been coming over several nights a week ... some nights astonishingly good sex, other nights no sex. (My libido and ability to "perform" are also decreasing with age, as some other posters have noted.) His company is the best antidepressant I've ever tried. I do provide him with a monthly stipend which, although not an inconsiderable amount, is nowhere near rates escorts charge for individual weekends. He's a professional with a good company - so that "stipend" is more fun-money than necessary. He is smart, personable, and careful ... we met just in time to establish mutual trust in terms of pandemic behavior before it became essential. He is just as interested in living the rest of his life as I am in living mine. Although I would love for him to be around for much of whatever life I have left ... that may or may not be in the cards. And in the meantime, I feel INCREDIBLY, UNBELIEVABLY lucky ... as my opinions about most of the escorts who are out there these days echo the thoughts of other posters. And I sure as hell won't be hooking up with anyone I don't know enough to trust about proper pandemic behavior - which effectively eliminates just about everyone online.

[MscleLovr]

Excellent news @shadowcatzxxx I‘m glad you’ve found such congenial company. Enjoy him while you can.

 

I would love for him to be around for much of whatever life I have left ... that may or may not be in the cards.

 

You never know, but life is short and meant to be enjoyed. I too met a handsome, athletic, well-educated young man. He’s much younger than me, but it works for both of us. We had a great first year together…and then the interest did not decline…6 years now.

[shadowcatzxxx]

Excellent news @shadowcatzxxx I‘m glad you’ve found such congenial company. Enjoy him while you can.

 

 

 

You never know, but life is short and meant to be enjoyed. I too met a handsome, athletic, well-educated young man. He’s much younger than me, but it works for both of us. We had a great first year together…and then the interest did not decline…6 years now.

Thanks MscleLovr ... both for your good wishes and a hopeful example. And congratulations!!! 6 years is awesome!! (My friend is also much younger than me ... which is both delightful in many ways and challenging in other ways.) And yes, life is short ... and these days none of us know how short "short" may end up being. I'm beginning to think that living life as a series of telenovelas is better than moping around alone. My innermost self (and this isn't just my little head thinking ) dearly wishes that this might last at least until the brunt of the epidemic is past ... which is going to be at LEAST a year. If we make it that far ... your experience offers me some hope. (Its been 4 months so far, spending 3 days a week essentially under house-arrest ... and we haven't argued once yet.) I hope you continue to enjoy and be well!

[+ Just Sayin]

Same feeling. I haven't hired since march, and I don't feel the need. There are a couple of guys I'd hire, but there's no rush. But I'm lucky that I've a close friend (FWB in his late 20s) that stays overnight at my place 4-5 a week. He enjoys sleeping with me. And sex does not always happen. I think I'm lucky in that regard.

 

@7829V, do you mind telling us how you met a FWB in his late 20s? I don't know about having someone stay over 4-5 nights a week, but occasionally might be fun!

[beachboy]

Like many I've refrained from hiring since March but I've just had an engineer round fixing the internet cable-30ish & hot & when he knelt down & his Jean's rode down showing a beautiful smooth peachy ass crack I nearly lost my resolve & not only th

[beachboy]

that!

 

Just found a provider who pushes all my buttons too. Famed Covid!

[+ 7829V]

@7829V, do you mind telling us how you met a FWB in his late 20s? I don't know about having someone stay over 4-5 nights a week, but occasionally might be fun!

I met him on Grindr. He likes guys older than him. I'm around 12 years older than him. And he likes hairy chests and beards... so I fit that description. He lives close by and I'm on his way to work, so when he spends the night here, work is closer in the morning. We also do meal prep together. I buy the groceries and he does everything else. I wash the dishes afterwards.

[HoseMaster]

Like many I've refrained from hiring since March but I've just had an engineer round fixing the internet cable-30ish & hot & when he knelt down & his Jean's rode down showing a beautiful smooth peachy ass crack I nearly lost my resolve & not only that!

 

Just found a provider who pushes all my buttons too. Famed Covid!

 

You really found a provider in a cable guy??

[beachboy]

You really found a provider in a cable guy??

I wish! No he was just a tease. I found a gorgeous provider online but with things as they are I won't be able to get my hands on him for a while. Hope he's still advertising when this mayhem is over! ?