How open are most escorts to specific requests?

[opentoideas]

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

[hypothetically]

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

 

Specific request are what we’e here for. It will greatly vary person-to-person. Will the session require a little bit of role playing as well or you simply want the escort to wear a costume? Speaking personally, I would prefer cosplay over role-play. I’m a horrible actor and it’s difficult for me to pretend something is occurring in the bedroom that is not. It feels unauthentic and I can’t fake it. With that being said, that’s why I always politely decline requests I’m not into; I’m bad at pretending. A costume is much easier. It is essentially the same as a client asking me to rotate, say, a variety of leather looks. I enjoy watching how elated clients look as I change.

[marylander1940]

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

 

Depends... will you provide the costume?

[opentoideas]

Specific request are what we’e here for. It will greatly vary person-to-person. Will the session require a little bit of role playing as well or you simply want the escort to wear a costume? Speaking personally, I would prefer cosplay over role-play. I’m a horrible actor and it’s difficult for me to pretend something is occurring in the bedroom that is not. It feels unauthentic and I can’t fake it. With that being said, that’s why I always politely decline requests I’m not into; I’m bad at pretending. A costume is much easier. It is essentially the same as a client asking me to rotate, say, a variety of leather looks. I enjoy watching how elated clients look as I change.

 

I'm more into the cosplay aspect of it myself. it's the costume that i like not so much the roleplay.

[opentoideas]

Depends... will you provide the costume?

 

I would most definitely supply. The costume i would have in mind is probably not the most common in a person's wardrobe, lol

[hypothetically]

I'm more into the cosplay aspect of it myself. it's the costume that i like not so much the roleplay.

 

I don’t think it’s a big deal, at all. I’d be down for it. But not everyone is as open-minded as me. Again, it will greatly vary from person-to-person. You have to communicate what you’re looking with the prospective escort and see how he feels about it. If you have a rentmen client profile, elaborate a little in the content box.

[Trick]

Some years ago, a provider agreed to play a cop when we met. He “arrested” me as soon as I got into his room. I was enjoying it until he made me lick his boot. We toned down the role play after that. Unfortunately, he could not get his “night stick” up.

 

That gave me an aversion to role-playing.

[rvwnsd]

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

 

The only sure-fire way to find out is to ask the escort you are interested in hiring. While I have never asked an escort to engage in cosplay, I do have an interest in thongs, speedos, jockstraps, and singlets. I always ask if a guy is open to wearing them. A few guys have told me that they are not interested and I was able to decide whether that one aspect of play was important enough to refrain from meeting. Most have been open or actually enjoyed it. It really just depends.

Specific request are what we’e here for. It will greatly vary person-to-person. Will the session require a little bit of role playing as well or you simply want the escort to wear a costume? Speaking personally, I would prefer cosplay over role-play. I’m a horrible actor and it’s difficult for me to pretend something is occurring in the bedroom that is not. It feels unauthentic and I can’t fake it. With that being said, that’s why I always politely decline requests I’m not into; I’m bad at pretending. A costume is much easier. It is essentially the same as a client asking me to rotate, say, a variety of leather looks. I enjoy watching how elated clients look as I change.

Role-play would be tough. In addition to being a good actor, you have to remember what to do. I can see where in the heat of passion lines could easily be forgotten.

[Kris Parkes]

So if a client asked for something specific request (Nothing gross I assure you) but more along the lines of dressing up in a particular costume (cosplay) or something like that, would most escorts be open to that?

I can't speak for most, but for me, it's a non-issue to have special requests communicated. But I decide if I wish to partake or not. Role-play is easy and im good at it. Special clothing/costumes are cool too. BUT if its not something I normally wear on the street, then I will need to change into it at your place.

[+ OliverSaks]

Happens with some frequency, easy peasy / not hard to accommodate

[+ Ace]

Part of my initial dialogue with any new client is: "Is there any particular way you'd like me dressed?"

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The costume i would have in mind is probably not the most common in a person's wardrobe, lol

 

You'd be shocked at how many of us have full authentic goat herder outfits, complete with Bo Peep cane.

[cany10011]

I"ve always had a scottish kilt fantasy

[mike carey]

You'd be shocked at how many of us have full authentic goat herder outfits, complete with Bo Peep cane.

High on a hill ....

 

To be honest, I would be surprised, nay shocked by such a revelation. However, that you might have one somehow doesn't surprise me. The only thing that does surprise is that evidence thereof hasn't yet appeared in your blog. (I may have missed it, of course.)

[woodworker]

When I asked an LA escort to act out my fantasy scenario he said "sure, send me the script." True story.

[GTMike]

When I asked an LA escort to act out my fantasy scenario he said "sure, send me the script." True story.

Maybe also thought he could use it for extra credit in his Acting class scene study, hahaha

[bendable2019]

If you role play, what are some popular roles?

[+ VictorPowers]

I would most definitely supply. The costume i would have in mind is probably not the most common in a person's wardrobe, lol

Will you be sharing what that may be?

Part of my initial dialogue with any new client is: "Is there any particular way you'd like me dressed?"

I haven’t really seen much of a wardrobe on you. Always naked this one!

[opentoideas]

Will you be sharing what that may be?

 

At the risk of embarrassing myself, I was thinking about a Power Rangers costume....for reasons.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

At the risk of embarrassing myself, I was thinking about a Power Rangers costume....for reasons.

 

You damn well better not put me in the Blue Ranger's outfit.

EVERYONE KNOWS I'M THE RED RANGER.

[opentoideas]

You damn well better not put me in the Blue Ranger's outfit.

 

EVERYONE KNOWS I'M THE RED RANGER.

While the blue ranger was awesome in a nerdy way. Everyone knows it’s the red ranger everyone wants to fuck.

[hypothetically]

While the blue ranger was awesome in a nerdy way. Everyone knows it’s the red ranger everyone wants to fuck.

 

I’ll be Rita Repulsa.

[MscleLovr]

Your desires @opentoideas seem quite reasonable to me.

 

No-one of course can speak for “most escorts” but I suggest you discuss this with the guys who most interest you. It may be easier to raise this with guys with whom you’ve already had one date, as they will have some sense of you and what you like to do. My experience in the past as a client is that the escort’s reaction may well be unpredictable.

 

FWIW I once suggested to 2 separate guys with whom I’d played before (me top, him bottom) that I’d enjoy next time just having sex as soon as they arrived (no drinks, no chit-chat, no preamble - just passionate, torrid sex where I was dominant and not concerned with their enjoyment). One, a muscled New Zealander, said So you’d be a selfish top and just use me how you like? I said Yes. He told me his cock was getting hard at the prospect. When the date occurred, as he came through my front door, he dropped to his knees and started sucking my cock... The second guy, an beautiful Italian muscle-bottom, was horrified at my suggestion and said he couldn’t do that! He told me he liked all the kissing and affection I showed to him and the good foreplay we had prior to my giving him a good fuck. Later, talking post-coitus, I suggested that maybe next time I could tie him up - he confided that he “loved being tied up” and being helpless as his body was worshipped and put to good hard use. And on the next date, I did precisely that and tho he normally found it difficult to climax, tied up and “used hard” he came loads.

[bostonman]

Some years ago, a provider agreed to play a cop when we met. He “arrested” me as soon as I got into his room. I was enjoying it until he made me lick his boot. We toned down the role play after that. Unfortunately, he could not get his “night stick” up.

 

That gave me an aversion to role-playing.

 

I enjoy roleplay, but I know that many people find it too complicated or demanding, etc. But if I do have a guy into it, one thing I always suggest is either using a "safe word" or another way of being able to momentarily step out of the fantasy in case it veers into a place that either of us don't want. Often I like using "character names" for the roleplay, and then we can use our real names (or, of course, for the escort, his chosen escort name) if we need that moment "out."

 

So, if I was in your place, when he was demanding I lick his boot, I could have non-judgementally referred to him by his name, telling him that's going a little far for me, and then we could have gone right back into the fantasy and skipped the boot licking. After all, he didn't know that was something you wouldn't want to do.

 

I was once doing a roleplay scenario where I was getting to admire/service a certain studly pro athlete - very fun and very sexy until he started using words like "faggot" etc which I didn't like. So I momentarily stopped sucking him lol, used his regular name and politely and simply asked that he not do that - he genuinely apologized - and we went right back where we left off. No harm done, and aside from that one moment, it was a great and very hot time. (And I give him credit for fairly assuming that such abusive talk might be realistic in such a scene - again, he simply didn't know I wouldn't want that.)

[+ MakeMeCowboy]

I find escorts to be ‘open’ to a lot of requests from a client however, as suggested, the quality of the delivery varies too widely. I think that @MscleLovr’s request went well because he was in the active role. In the reverse I’ve found escorts too casual in understanding what is being asked (‘oh, yeah, I get it’) or their delivery is marginal (i.e. they didn’t really get it.) While the client needs to describe what they want, few escorts take the time to dig-in to insure they understand the role that’s being requested.

 

It’s easy to say ‘sure, I’ll dress up for you…’ Then what? Once the escort suits-up, the task has been completed. While both parties bear responsibility, I think it’s incumbent upon the professional/escort to resist making assumptions and ensure he understands what’s being requested. Assumptions = bare minimum.